Bari Aapa Episode 12 in High Quality – 8th December 2012 on Hum Tv

Erum

i like moosa in this darama

http://nikko.dk/nikko/index.asp?fenlei=brand brand

It is marvelous how moonbats do handle a multifarious duty like this.

samia latif

read nikah nama mostly MAULVIS cut the woman right , nikah nama may aurat ko haq hay k nikah may hotey howay wo dosri wifi ki ijazat deti hay ya nhi………?aur second wife rakhne se phle mard ko apni wifi se ijazat leni chahiye agr wo day aur sb biwi ki rights pore kr sakte tabhi ijazat hay yhi hmare religion may hay……..bt plzz girls men read nikah nama …………..

MeMyself

Islamic law states that a man can take a second wife for any reason – there are not rules about this. It can be for money, for her beauty, for kids, boredom with first wife. He does not need his first wife's permission though it is better to get it.
HOWEVER if a woman's husband has taken a second wife, the first wife is allowed to remove the union of marriage and legally seperate. A woman has this right. She may also be entitled to half her mehr if is not paid yet. However, the maulvis in Pakistan probably don't want you to know this.

Aysha

is it in quran taht men can take more than one wife for reason of boredom of first wife, beauty or money? if that is the case, when quran allows man to have more than one wife, why does quran says "if you cant do jusice with orphans marry 1, or2, or 3, or 4??do you know why did quran mention "orphans" here? do you know what is the context behind quranic aya 4:3? I think u dont, so let me tell you. At that time, may men were killed in wars and many widows with orphans left wihout anyone to take care of them. So men were allowed to marry widows with orphans….how many men do you see in paksitan taking a widows with kids in second marriage? especially if she is poor, ugly and not independent? ager kisi ks sahara hee banna hay, to sirf khoobsurat and young larki ka sahara kyon bantay hain mard?

Ali Azmat

One wonders, whether the husband of Bari Aapa is a lamb or a lion. But, in any case, he should not have been thrown at the feet of his all powerful first wife while entreating for not divorcing his second wife: knowing it well that he had tasted other feminine flesh and would never leave his booty, come what may! And the woman had found her worth in the hotel lounge as a lone resident.

Aysha

Many people diliked my comments when I talked about pakistan should have some laws (like other muslim countries) before a man is allowed to have second wife. People (especially women) in paksitan are usually in favor of men taking more than one wife without going to any court, without proving it to any judge whether they genuinly need a wife, or whether they are able to afford two families or whether they are doing justice between wives or not.
I jsut have one request for those peopel, please watch drama "zindagi gulzar hay" and tell me that shouldnt there be a law to stop men like kshaf's father not to have multiple wives? shouldnt there be a law to protect kashaf's mom what she is going thru? shuoldnt there be a court where kashaf's mom could go and compalin about her husband?

kashif

simple ans according 2 islam.. small loss is better than big loss. 2nd marriage is better than sleepng wid so many women. in the country where u live therz a law that stop men from doing 2-3 marraiges at a time. but therz no law that stop men from living with a woman without marriage. so stop always critisizing pakistan and live in their so called advanced society. people r disliking ur comments coz of ur double standards.
- Aysha
  
  why does a man need to sleep with another woman if he already has one? why does he need to cheat? in west, if men sleep with other women, women do the same (and it happens in muslim countries like pakistan as well and u know it). Cant both husband and wife sacrifice for the sake of their kids and family to be happy with only one spouse? do you know how negatively fathers second marrige impacts his children? they are scared for life and consider second marrige of their father as betrayal to them and their mother. Daughters of such fathwer dont ever want to marry.
- ahsan
  
  then the same woman shd be killed as Islam does not give the right to her but gives right to man
  Go and fight with Allah who made these lawsnot us
Mansoor

Miss again coz u r a woman u talked without logic and mind, know one thing for sure, in islam there is no requirement of man asking permission from wife or state to have an other wife, so what u r saying is opposite of islamic law, if u have such pains then y dont u become a christian or hindu where their governments and religion both doesnt allow it.
It has been asked by God for men to treat their wives equally but if one doesnt do it, he is doing as wrong as woman objecting his marriage, both r sins in eyes of God .
Know this that in islam, "Orat ka ghairat karnay kufar hay" and its only men r allowed for it this is the reason women r not allowed to have any other man but just one as husband.
Laws cant be made as any ignorant person like u wants them to be made.
Read islam and its laws and then know where woman stands. This the reason Allah straight and clearly stated in Quran in sura Baqra if i am not mistaken that men r superior than women and as do their rights.
- MeMyself
  
  "cuz you are a woman you talked without logic and mind" WOW.
  would you say this to your mother? she is a woman too
- Aysha
  
  MeMyself, he would say that about his mother too, belive me. I did not even consider him worthy enough to reply to his comments

Pisces

awesome

dayaa

jis daramy ka nam he bari aapa hai ““““` zara socho k eska kirdaar wakai kabil e tareef hoga eski last episode main har kirdar bari aapa ki tareef kary ga

mak

bht acha drama hy saara week intizar rehta hy next episode ka aur ye sab dikhaane ka maqsad sirf ye hota hy k hum isse kuch naseehat lain na k ulte seedhey comments dain…..

noor bhai

bohat hiiii acha drama haaaa … i love this play …. sab kush bohat acha ha … kitni khubsurati sa sab ka sab kirdar appna kam kar raha hain ….. <3 <3 <3

tehreem

superb drama i luv this drama…………………..

zahra

bari aapa kay shohar ko kafi arsa pehlay hi shaadi kar laini chahiyay thee , itni badtameez auraat jo har kisi kay ghar main dakhal andazi karti hai

shazi

wadi appa ki waath lag gai ha ha ha

sami

Good drama.everyone is doing great job.i enjoyed each and every scene of choti apa. jo log yahan neechay drama ki aarh mein apna personal catharsis nikaal rahay hain they r psyco. neelam real mein ek wife kehlaane ke qabil hai or sab se ziada us ne suffer kiya hai and farman is a mentaly weak husband

aliya

hmmm kafii kuch galt b hota hai or thkk b …bri apa smjdar hai mgr zarort sy zayada e …aik had tk ye b acha hota ..but husbnd ki qader ni usy..nd neelm aik idil wife hai….but us k hisab sy ferman usk lie zayada strng show ni hua…. wasy drama buht zbrdst buht sy relationz ma asa e hota koi apni self respect k lie bolta like bri apa bus apny lie e….or koi jalsy ka shikar like choti apa.

kashhaf

*sirf ek MAA ke rishte mein insaf hai kafi had tak*

kashhaf

whether its good or not but i just love choti aapa's character. shes so live, realistic and caring. she has a problem wid bari aapa coz of her attitude towards other family members and her husband. and bari aapa she deserves everything shes facing now. neelam's character is a total opposite of bari aapa and she dont deserve a divorce. everyone is commenting like 2nd marriage is a big crime..

maliha

ek yeh ghazanfar jitna marzi zameen se uchal uchal k chal le rahega bari apa se chota hi,bari apa's shoes are flat.i think ghazanfar ek do inch laga leta hai,

muskan

heheheheh same had happend with my frnd…….us ki mama ki 2nd czn apny parnts ki death k bad kch din un k ghr rhny ae aur us k papa ny us sy shadii kr liii……. scrt mrig jo 4 sal tk scrt rhe…

Aysha

aap to huns rahi hain laikin jis per (aap kee friend) guzri hay usy ko pata ho ga…kisi aurat kay liay iss say ziada painful baat naheen ho sakti jis say aap kee friend guzri hay…and we need laws to protect woemn from that pain

Arooj

Izzat ki khatir kia kia kar jati hai aurat…

soNia

Izzat ki khatir kia kia kar jati hai aurat…
sakhat rawaiya ke peechay bhi kai wajuhaat hoti hain
jo sirf wo insaan khud hi jaanta hai
(waise sab apni jaga Farman saab ki to nikal pari kitne aaram se bach gaye):p

marie

the role of choti aapa is nyc

farah noor

bari aapa is very good

com_ment

ager 2nd wife aam si shakil ki hoti to kiya phir bhi Ferman is sai shadi kerta is ki help kai liay….i wonder

Aysha

com_ment, aam see shakal kee hoti, widow yea divorced hoti jis kay yateem bachay hotay, tu farman kabhi us say shaadi na kerta. I have never seen any paksitni men taking such woman as second wife. sirf young/beautiful larkyuon ka "sahara" bantay hain. Dil maim lust hota hay aur auper say naam daitay hain sahara ka. Thats what other islamic countris laws make sure that muslim men are not taking advantage of privillage of taking more than one wife. In pakistan, there is no such law.
- omar
  
  no ayesha i personally know such a man, although the womani is very prety and they r living happily since 12 yrs.

manaal

Bari apna apny shohar k liye nahi balk apni jhooti naak aur shaan k liye ker rahi hy….

Wonderwoman

i would say shame on such coward husbands and shame on women like bari apa who is selfish n not fair to her sister n still in love with her own sister husband

Azra

Shame on both of them. Bari apa for her behavior and Farman for being a hypocrate.

afi

kamal wife hai bhi sawera nadeem performing very well.

Jahan

I m sure bari apa apni izat k chakar main apnay paon pay khud kulhari day maray gy insan ki kiya aukat hai kuch b nahi or itna takubar apnay rutbay pay ASTAGHFIRUALLAH aisa dolat mand or shorat mand honay say to acha hai banda kissi ghareeb k ghar paida ho jis main itna gharoor nahi hota pata nahi log q bhool jatay hain k naak ooncha kar k kuch nahi milta jhukna seekho q k jhuki hoi tehni ko hi phul lagta hai usko nahi jo chatan ki tarha akri rehti hai or waise b doosri shadi gunah nahi hai us nay shadi ki hai zanah nahi ayesha khan ko chorna nahi chahiye q k us nay koi shok say apnay say barhay shaks say shadi nahi ki besahara thi or aurat ko sahara bhai baap yah shohar day sakta hai rishtay dar yah khala mama k betay nahi?????

Jahan

Ajeeeb log ho ap suchi kitnay buray comments kar rahay ho specialy ayesha and rani (neelam) ka koi kasoor nahi mard ko ijazat hai agar insaf karay to or us nay dono biwiyon ko kissi chese ki kami nahi honay dy such hi kaha hai kissi nay aurat aurat hi ki dushman hoti hai humaray NABI SAW nay b bohat be sahara larkiuon say shadi ki or unko sahara diya or nauman ijaz ka character bohat acha hai aurat ki ijazat ki zaroorat nahi mard ko doosri shadi ki q k ik waqat main wo jitni chahay biwiyan rakh sakta hai agar insaf karay sub k sath to or waise b kissi besahara larki kous k rishtay daron main zaleel honay denay say acha hai k usko apna name do or izat say rakho very bad kissi b larki ko aise bat nahi kehni chahiye jaise ayesha or rani keh rahi hain shame on u sisters

Aysha

jahan sahab, aik drama aa raha hay "zindagi gulzar hay", jis main mard (waseem abbas) nay do shadiyan kee hoi hain. please wo drama daikhain aur phir yahan per aa ker baat karain. Pakistan main ziada ter doosri shadyan waisi hee hain jaisay us dramay main dikhaya gaya hay. ager mard insaaf na karay, to paksitan man kuon sa qanoon hay jo us ko saza day sakay? kuonsa kanoon hay jo daikja kay kia mard financially do families afford bhee ker sakta hay ya naheen?
naveed

Jehan..ab itni to na lut machao keh mard jitni chahe shdian kar sakta he. Noman Ijaz ka character bahot kamzor he.. is liye nahin keh us ne doosri shadi ki belkeh is liye keh us ko manage nahin karna aya.. na zubaida ko ..wo us ka shohar ban k rahi saray arsay main. ik kamzor admi dikhaya gia he..writer kuch cheezon main bahot acha he..par kahin kahin mera khiyaal he jaan boojh character ko suppoer dene k liye logic se guraiz karta he… Khush raho.

rani

bari apa ko chahye tha k neelam ki shadi foran hi krwadeti ya apne husband pe nazar rakhti.well abhi bhi neelam ki shadi kahin aur hosakti he jaan churwaen is se.

rani

bari apa ko chahye tha k neelam ki shadi zabardasti kahin aur krwa deti neelam k bhai k foran death k baad

kiran

Bari apa is really an inspirational character, its quite surprising how she cares for her respect

Freak

hahahahh Freaks…

brit

i luv bari appa ………..j hate men alike farman sahib….
if bari appa were dictator though who gave her this dictatorship ?
farman sahib……

Jahan

Mat bhoolain k humaray NABI SAW nay jitni shadiyan ki sub besahara talak yafta yah bewah hoti thi farman nay jo b kiya acha kiya q k ALLAH ka hukum hai agar insaf kar sako to aik say ziyada biwi rakh saktay ho or farman nay insaaf kiya dono k pass acha ghar aulad or har wo chese hai jis ki aurat ko khuwahish hoti hai change your thinking aj pak main itnay azab hain q k paki muslims name k hain bus islam aisa to nahi jaisa logon nay usko bana diya hai bura mard wo hota hai dear jo kissi larki ko besahara pa kar use karay or chor day farman jaisa shaks yaani jo naik hotay hain wohi nikah jaise pak chese say izat say rishta banatay hain or nibhanay ki koshish b kartay hain
- Azra
  
  Aap nay pakistan main kabhi koi aisa mard daikha hay jo kisi bewah yateem bachuon wali maan say doosri shaaki ker lain??? Aap ko pakistan main her bhoora aadmi doosri shaadi kay tayar milay gay if larki is young and beautiful…shaadi wo apni lust kay liay karay ga aur bolay ga kay main bay shahara aurat ko sahara day raha huon…lanat hay aisay marduon per jo apni baiti kee umer kay mard say shaadi kertay hain. Kisi ko shara daina hay to aisi aurat ko do jis ko koi naheen mil sakta ho…wo bhori ho, beemar ho, kaam na ker sakti ho, bachuon wali ho. Bolain koi karay ga aisi aurat say shaadi???
- Aysha
  
  Mr. Jahan, let me ask you this. Pakistan main mard doosri shaadi ker kay sirf khoobsurat aur young larkyuon ko sahara dainay kay liay kyoun tayar hotay hain? kabhi kisi mard nay kisi bhoori, beemar aurat, yateem bachuon wali ko sahara dia hay??? Shaadi karain gay apni lust kay liay aur bolain gay hum sahara day rahay hain. lanat hay
- naina
  
  main yahan sirf itna kehna chaty hon k ajj kal pakistan ka fashion chal raha hai ka khud ko mazloom or beshara ghrib ban k bary bary logo ko jaisa k mill owners like farman jaso ko pansaiya jata hai or ik asiy bandy se shadi ki jaty hai jo k pehly se shadi shuda hai. or bad main roo roo keh sympathy li jaty hai. kisi ourat ko yeh haq kisi neh nai diya hata k islam neh bhi nai k wo kisi dossry ourat ka gher barabad kary jab k wo khud bhi ik aurat hai. agher farman ko shadi karny thik chahy neelam kisi bhi halat main ho os ko pehly baari appa say pochna banta. tha yeh to hamry islam neh bhi kaha hai. mager dohky freb or ''massom'' ban k kisi ourat say shadi karna. mery nazdeek yan kisi bhi or keh nazdeek ik bht hi ghtiya neech or qable nafrat baat hai. or asiy bandy keh shakal bhi na dekhy jai khbi
  main is drama ko as a drama hi lae rahi hon mager yeh ghalt or zaleel harkat hai (pehly biwi ko dokha dek or os ki marzy keh pagir shadi karna) ager real life main ki jai to

Aysha

I am not supporting bari appas behavior toward her husabnd at all but In majority of musim countries (e.g malysia, indonesia, iran, morroco, iraq, tunesia) a husband is required by law to go to the court and prove to the qazi that his reason for second marriage is genuine. In pakistan there is no such law. Below are the points looked at by the judge/qazi for accepting a mans request for taking another wife
1: Is he financialy capable of taking burden of two families?
2: What impact his second marriage is going to bring to his existing children/family
3: Is he capable of doing justice between the wives
4: Is his need for second wife genuine or pure lust
If first wife does not agee, he has to dvorce her before taking another one.A wife can go to court to file a complaint if husband not doing justice (If proven guilty, he is fined and jailed for that) In pakistan husband becomes a judge himself to decide his wife is not good enough and he needs another one. women cant go to court to complain injustice by the husband. muslim women fought for those rights for years and finally successful. Pakistan is third in the list for most dangrous countries for women in the world ( Afghanistan#1 and Cango#2) but women still not waking up.

ameer

u r right but i think here no body follow islam.i also hate bari appa behaviour with husband.no one knows how to respect ur husband what islam strickly says about husband respect
Ms.

islam saaaf ijazat dayta hay dosri shadi ki……sirf aik shart k sub wives may insaaaf ker saktaa ho….or ager na keray insaaf tu us ki saza bhi bohet beri hay….or kisi country ka koi law ISLAMIC LAW say berh ker nahi,,….understand this..Aysha.
or waysay bhi farmaan nay apni pehli biwi ko koi BLAME nahi dia….if u are watching carefully…only other people are blaming sawera nadeeem.
- Aysha
  
  Ms, Other Islamic countries laws I am talking about are BASED ON SHARIA LAW. Those countries laws make sure that men dont take advantage of this privillage (in pakistan usually men take advantage of it). Let me ask you this, how many men have you seen in pakistan who got married to a woman (second wife) who is poor, widow, have orphan kids? have you seen any pakistani man being a sahara to any such women? NO, it never happens. Sirf young and beautiful larki say shaadi kertay hain apni lust kay liay, aur naam daitay hain wo sahara bun rahay hain. Other Islamic countries make sure that this does not happen and this polygamy law is not abused by men…thats all. Your comments making me cry. If Pakistani women dont care if men are abusing them on name of religion, how can pakistani men be convinced?
- omar
  
  ms is wright to some extent how ever insaf karna is the most difficult thing in life.
Heba Mir

Bhari Appas behaviour towards her husband isn't right! But he allows it, if he wants to be the underdog then so be it. Also, he did not ask his first wife to marry the second one… In Islam its manditory that the first wife agrees with her husbands polygamy. ALSO! IN ALL THOSE ARAB CULTURES… majority of the countries I am speaking from my own knowledge have deemed polygamy as illegal to support women whos husbands abuse this law. In Syria men beat there wives all the time, and fathers and brothers also beat sisters because it is allowed. Women supposedly have been given more rights now, reality is you can change the law but its hard to break bad habits in people. ITS A MIND SET!
- Aysha
  
  Heba, I totaly agree with you. To change the mind set, we need to bring some awareness. No one in paksitan belives in that husband needs first wife permission to take another wife. Different islamic sholars have different opinions. Middle eastern scholars say man does need wifes permission, indian/pakistani scholars say they dont.So what can you say. When it comes to scholars, you wont belive, and I am feeling embarrased puting it over here that a saudi scholar in 2010 gave a fatwa that male servants of the house can be breast fed by females of the house to become razai brothers/sons, so they will be mehram for them to come to the hosue freely. Now imagine a 70 years old servant in saudi arabia doing that to 15 years old girl of the hosue in order to become mehram. Isnt it disgusting? scholar like him are everywhere in islamic world. Last years a 10 years old girl filed for divorced from her 80 years old husband in saudi arabia. She took it back to please her father. This is all disgusting. especially child marriages in muslim countries, but no one is speaking to stop that practice. Afghanis consider child marriage as sunah which shows loyalty to the prophet Muhammad. So what can you say?
kashhaf

Allah ne jahan ye farmaya hai ke insaf karo wahan ye bhi kaha hai ke beshaq tum insaaf nahi kar sakte. hamary han konsa rishta hai jis mein insaf ho raha hai??? siwaey ek "MAA" ke kisi rishtay mein insaf nahi. saas, bahu, dewar, chacha, mamu. ap koi ek bata do. akhir sab insan hain or insan perfect nahi ban sakta kabhi. even jahan ham work karte hain wahan insaf nahi karte. so plz is behes ko khatam karein ya to ap khud perfect hain to dosron ko blame bhi karein warna chup kar ke baithein or drama enjoy karein.
Aysha

by looking at dislikes at my comments, looks like pakistani women DONT WANT ANY CHANGE and WANT to be abused. All the points I have mentioned above r according to Islamic rules. And they are followed in muslim countries so men dont take advantage of sharia law of having more than one wife. Still, women dont want those laws to be implemented in Pakistan? They dont want men to have genuine reason of second marriage? they dont want men to be answerable to court if they dont do justice among wives? Are we completely brain washed? Looks like women who are disliking my comments feel happy being abused
Aysha

All the people who disliked my comments, I have just one request for those people. Watch first two episodes of drama " zindagi gulzar hay". Main characters father (waseem abbas) also has two wives. Pakistan need laws to ptotect women from those type of men. hopefullly after watching that drama my point of view will be understood
naveed

Salam. main yahan bhi yehi kahoon ga keh ,,,ya to apnay aap ko musalman na kaho, agar kehtay ho to samjho keh Islam ik mukamal zabit-e-ikhlaq he… kia Eman he is baat pe? agar he kabhi us se bhi guidance lay li karo. Kia islam main family life par kuch nahin kaha gia, koee asool nahin diye gaye..wahh? Allah k qanon main koe na koe khami reh gaye he hamdoosray countries ko daikhain……….Aysha achi baat he ap ka dil dukhta he ye behoodigian dekh k …..mujahy to aisay lag raha he jese hamra koee wali waris nahin.. nahin maloom kis se poochain….ho sakta he bahot son ko Islam beech main lana acha na lagay..un se ma'azrat, ..khush raho.

Naeem khan

Sharmeen is very good actor…!!

Arfa

Aala drama <3

Pisces

thats an awesome story !!!
usually hr dramay ke story pahle he pta lg jate hai but this 1 is just surprising…. full of twists…
love it

gsg

bht ana hay bari apa me,..chalo kam agaye..

Mrs Adnan

Swera Nadeem simply brilliant

gsg

i love choti appa…yar kitne maze ki acting hay unki!

Noor Mamu

And she's so beautiful too

pissu

alaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
barfi ki tarhan
sab mu metha karo

meee

nice….u tune taken by bari appa….first time love her caracter

shahid

Excellent Drama. I have problem with the Name of the drama. Name of the drama should be " RUN MUREED ".

Nazu

Bari apa is qabil hen k us ka MUREED bna jaey.
- shahid
  
  and why do you think that?
- Aysha
  
  nazu, bari appa treats her husband a a lesser of a human being. she is having a secret affair with her ex fiance who is married to her sister. She has made her bhabis life misrable. How can u say she is worth it to be a mureed of?
- MeMyself
  
  bari aapa treats her husband unfairly, but she is not having an affair. She emotionally relies on Ghazanfar but the drama did not shw that they go out together or talk endlessly on the phone without reason.
midhat

zun mureed
- shahid
  
  mei saraiki hoon or saraiki mei RUN Murred kehtay hein

pak

V nice drama…aj asa episode mai bari appa or choti appa mai farq pata chala…h…..how gracefull bari appa nd how stupied z choti appa….dis drama shws bari appa andr sa toot gaee ha laqin donot shows it to any 1…belive me mujha neelm framan ke dosree bv pr bilkul tars nahee ata..coz agr farman ko oas ke itne fikr the tou kisi or nice sa larka sa oas ke shadee krva data…khod ku dohola bun ka oas ka…..btt irealy feel sory for bari appa wen she wept alone…….v strong caracter…..never shows her weekness to any1….I love her…savara needm alwys my fav…dis drama make me her fav actress…..4ever….

sadaf

good thinking
Aysha

Pak, your opinion about bari apa and choti apa will completely change when gazenfer will divorce choti apa and bari aap will marry him. No wife accepts that even after so many years of marriage, her husband still seceretely talks to his ex fiance/love. Put yourself into choti apaas shoes. His sister does not talk to her and take intrest in her husband (gazenfer). Bari aapa treats her husband like a dog, made her bhabis life misrable and has a secret affair with her ex fiance (gazenfer), do u think its graceful ?
- pak
  
  Mai na yaha nahee kaha tha k she z gracefull I said they way she tackled her sistution infront of his family…….dar was grceful…bt on the other side they way choti appa investigate bari appa about his husband 2nd marrige dat was really nonscence….bt khair let see who will get divorce nd who will not…wasya bari appa superoity complex ka shakr…he never xcept any1…who laid her down….I love savra nadeem acting as bari appa….ab dakho neelem ka kia hashr hota ha…….I still confused y bari appa treted farm like a servent kuch tou vaja ho ge….bt as azr said he should ask her about dis attitude na k dosree shdee kr lata…..cool down aysha let see kia hota ha….keep in contact…
- Aysha
  
  I agree with you pak
- komal
  
  Well then choti aapa should not have married her sister's ex. and bari aapa is not having an affair with gazanfar. and how do u justify the fact choti aapa went to her sisters house to kick her when she knew her sister is down?
Aysha

choti aapas reaction is normal becuase bari aap is having a secret affair with her husband (gazenfer). Bari aap treats her husband like a dog, has made her bhabis life misreble and is havign a secrete affair with her ex fiance who is her sisters husband now…having all those traits, how can u say she is graceful?
if you think unhuon nay pany husband kee izat rakhi, you are wrong. unhuon nay hamaisha husband ko sub kay saamnay zaleel kia, now she is in a situation that she herself is getting insulted so she said that she forced her husband to marry. She is protecting her honor, not her husbands
- pak
  
  Wasay ur to right some xtend ….wasya apas ke baat ha jo koe asa page pa bari appa k haq mail bilta ha ap osa reply kr rahee ha….kahee ap choti appa ke agent tou nahe……ha ha ha …I'm just joking…..ur right framan did right…..bt wat abot naleem why she did not think at the time marige dat imm destroying a shrif bv ka zuluum ka ak shakr husband…vo k oas ke bv ka mazeed shakar ho sakta ha……aby ways I love savra nadeem acting……
- Azra
  
  Pak, I have mentioned in some other comments that Farman is the worst character in this darama. He is a hypocrate. If he did not like his wife's behavior, he should have been honest with her. Infront of bari appa he pretended thast he loves her and on back he was cheating on her. If someone does not like her/his spouse, be honest about it and dont cheat on them. He should have told her that he wants to marry another woman. I felt bad for bari appa too when she cried. All she did in her life was wrong but what farman did to her (cheating) was even worse. I hate cheaters.
- pak
  
  Ur hundred percent right……framn z realy a cheater…nd munafiq….mujh nahee sahumj atee ak admee ak time mai do do ortu sa kasay muhabt ka dava krta ha…dats not fair….he realy cheats her wife………if he doesnot like her rude attitude sit wid her nd ask her to change na k gulum bun jaya……..
- Ash
  
  TRUEEEEE…… n chotii APPA wali baat unko neecha dikhany ka lia kar rai hain ya sab… warna itni mahan hoti tu apny husbnd ko ab tak asa treat na krti HER kisi pa roub jamati rahti hain…. i felt pitty for her dats all….. HAAN ya ha savera nadeem na actiing zabardast ki ha!!!
- komal
  
  wait are we watching the same drama…. bari baapa is not having an affair with gazanfar..he is her confidant..but not her lover…so how is that an affair?
shadab hashmi

agar aisa hota to drama produce hi nhi hota….mujhe ye drama bahot pasand hai really enjoy every character…specially neelam's brother..he is so dignified man and gazanfar is just awesome….near to perfection

sana

good dramas but i hat shermeen acting

sadaf

yah right

Mumu

Very nice.

Hammu

There are some dramas which make you love them more after every episode.And Bari Aapa is one of them.The way the story is unfolding is brilliant.Savera Nadeem deserves an Oscar for her awesome performance ( if there was any bigger award i would have given that too).The scene where she cries all alone was the moment where i thought this is the moment where no other actor has reached.Remarkable in every way ! Oh i can't say enough for this serial.

Owais

I agree with Hammu, Outstanding performance of Sawera Nadeem, i havnt seen such a brilliant performance by any female actor. Also, i like the acting of Ghanzanfer.. he is good too.

Aysha

I hate Neelam's character, she stole someones husband and now crying…I hate those women jo apni wajha say kisi doosri aurat ko is kaqar taqleef aur dukh phunchati hain. kitni massom bun rahi hay neelam…poori dunya main us ko kisi ka shoher hee mila tha saharay kay liay? And women who steal others husband should always remember that , once a cheater is always a cheater. if a man can cheat on his first wife, he can also cheat on his second wife.

Lubnarashid

jis kisam ki wife bari apa haina us k husband ko buhat pehlay shadi karleni chaiye thi noman aijaz ne to phir b buhat late ki ,bivi bivi jaisi hi achi lagti hai dictator nahi
- Aysha
  
  bari apa is definitely a bad wife. But atleast she is not a hypcrate like her husband farman jo bivi kay saamnay kuttay kee tarah dum hila raha hay aur peechay chup ker shaadi ker lee. If he didnt like bari apas behavior, he should have been honest with her that he wants to marry another women…simple as that
- Lubnarashid
  
  haan g farmaan kehte k doosri shadi karni hai or bari apa maan jatin?????????????????
- Aysha
  
  maanti naheen lakin apna behavior change ker laiteen. Farman ko neelam pasand thee to zubaida ko saaf batatay. Ager na maanti to zubeda ko chore ker neelam say shaadi kerni chayey thee. Farman nay apni bivi ko dhoka dia hay. He pretended that he loved her and was secretly involved with another woman. Its the hight of immorality and dishonesty
- Ms.
  
  pasand ker k shadi nahi ki farman nay…..@ Aysha
- Lubnarashid
  
  ur comments still not convencing sorry ayesha :=)
- Aysha
  
  An ignorant can never be convinced
- naina
  
  main yahan sirf itna kehna chaty hon k ajj kal pakistan ka fashion chal raha hai ka khud ko mazloom or beshara ghrib ban k bary bary logo ko jaisa k mill owners like farman jaso ko pansaiya jata hai or ik asiy bandy se shadi ki jaty hai jo k pehly se shadi shuda hai. or bad main roo roo keh sympathy li jaty hai. kisi ourat ko yeh haq kisi neh nai diya hata k islam neh bhi nai k wo kisi dossry ourat ka gher barabad kary jab k wo khud bhi ik aurat hai. agher farman ko shadi karny thik chahy neelam kisi bhi halat main ho os ko pehly baari appa say pochna banta. tha yeh to hamry islam neh bhi kaha hai. mager dohky freb or ''massom'' ban k kisi ourat say shadi karna. mery nazdeek yan kisi bhi or keh nazdeek ik bht hi ghtiya neech or qable nafrat baat hai. or asiy bandy keh shakal bhi na dekhy jai khbi
  main is drama ko as a drama hi lay rahi hon na to mery kisi keh sath hamdardy hai or na hi kisi keh liye nafrat mager yeah sab ghlat hai ager real life main ho
- Aysha
  
  Really good response Naina. People like you are hope for abuse paksitan women. I am happy to see that there are still some people left in paksitan with brains
- abdul ahad
  
  How about bari aapa woh hudh her waqt apne purane aashiq k saath hush rehti he or sirf ghazanfer ki baate manti he woh hudh kitni wefadar biwi he? Ferman ne apna
  dosti ka haq ada kiya sabse pehla pather neelam ko bari aapa ne mara tha uske bai ki death per
maha

Neelam buri nai usko jin halat ka samna tha uss mein ussay aisa karna para jab kisi aurat ka koi na ho yeh duniya jeenay nai daiti
- Aysha
  
  to apni khatir kisi ka gher kharab kar do? kisi doosri aurat ko is qadar takleef do? pakistan main single aurtain naheen rehteen kia? koi hostels naheen hain? us kee shaadi kaheen aur naheen ho sakti thee kia?farman sahab bhai ben ker us kee help naheen ker saktay thay kia?
- saba
  
  Gosh Aysha you need need to see the drama from beginning. Watch the drama you will get all the answers.
- Jahan
  
  Uffff Allah ji itnay ghusay walay comments sis drama hai watch as a drama for time pass mgr sis ik bar islam ki nazar say daikho to gunah nahi mard ko aurat say doosri shadi ki ijazat ki zaroorat nahi neelam ka koi tha nahi or jo thay usko zaleel kartay jo k insan ki fitrat main hai kamzoor ko zaleel kiya jata hai farman nay bus nikah kiya usko aise hi to biwi say chup k nahi rakh liya apnay time pass k liye coool down itna ghusa nahi chalo thook do ghussa shabash
- Aman
  
  I dont know why you are being so strict,
  Islam mai dosri shaadi ki ijazat hai and you dont need to prove it in court. in drama farman is shown to do more injustice to neelum than to bari appa ( he only goes to neelum on thursday) even then neelum doesnt complain and respects bari appa and accepts that bari apa has more right ( which is not right since both wives have equal rights) farman's marriage with neelum did not change bari apa's life and comforts in anyway. Moreover bari apa treats her husband like a doormat. and farman is shown to be a very submissive person who though loves his wife but does not speak in front of her nor says her any thing. in a lot of scenes bari apa said insulting thins to farmaan but he did not say anything. it is natural that he would be attracted to a woman who thinks highly of him and puts him on a high pedestal and gives him all the praise and respect that he does not receive from his own wife.
- Aysha
  
  Mr Farman, ther are some condistions which needs to be met before man takes a second wife. Who decides in pakistan if man really needs a second wife? does he decide himself? A family I knew in peshawar, a man (had 5 children and good wife) had an affair with her secretary and got married to her (she was a gold digger and didnt care of the man's age or previous marriage and kids). Now man decided himself that his existing wife is not good enough and should have another. If he was in another muslim country (e.g tunesia, iraq, iran, morroco) he would have been required by law to go to court and prove that he is not doing second marriage due to lust. Secondly, court also looks at impact of fathers second marriage on the children. Do u have any idea, how fathers second marriage impacts children? they usually consider is betrayal to them and their mother. Mostly, daughters of such man start hating men and dont ever want to marry. Does worl revolve only around man's wishes? if a husband is bad, we expect her to sacrify for sake of her children and to make God happy. But we dont expect the same from husband. Why cant he sacrify for sake of his children?
- Jahan
  
  I agree with you maha ji tusi samajhdar ho ik larki ka mehram baap bhai yah shohar hota hai agar wo yeh step na leti to jin b rishta daron k ghar jati sub usko bura bhala kehtay yah uska ghar miltay hi kissi na kissi k sath badnam kar k ghar say dhakay day k nikal detay farman ki jaga agar reall main koi b naik mard ho to wo aise hi sahara deta jaise farman nay q k aurat ko mehram ki zaroorat martay dum tak hai wo jis b age main ho bina mard ko secure nahi specialy pak jaise bakwas country main to bilkul nahi
- komal
  
  aap ka husband aisi kiss aurat sey shadi kar ke gaar le ae to aap ko manzoor hoga…nahin na
fda

but Aysha u forgot ….Farman Saheb is the one who married her….and they show the reasonsbehind this, the arrogant nature oF Bari appa and the way she treated him its like what goes around comes around,,,,,Aakhir ko bari appa bhee choti appa kay husband per apna haq jatlitee theen….and I love Sawera Nadeem in this role i saw her only 1 drama Qaid-e-tanhai before this one…and she is good
- Aysha
  
  what??? so r u saying neelam's marriage with farman was against neelams will? she is not a child, couldnt she refuse even farman asked her to marry her?
- saba
  
  Aysha you need to see this drama from beginning I am sure you will change you mind
  about Neelam!! Zubada deserve that she is so proud, arrogant, selfish, mean,
  sticking her nose in other people's matter kind of person. Even her husband married 10 times that would't be enough she deserve much more than that!!!!!!!!!!!
- Aysha
  
  miss saba i have seen the drama from the begining. And I dont zubeda's behavir at all but no women deserve that her husband cheats on her. Farman should have been honest with zubeda that he is not happy with her due to her behavior. He should have told her that he wants to remarry, even then if zubeda did not change, then it would have been a different story. Farman DECEIVED his wife by pretending that he loves her and going for another woman. All I am saying that a person needs to be honest
- Noone
  
  hahahaa….I dont understand when a man does all the wrong things his wife doesnt leave him but what Zubaida did was wrong but not that wrong enough that he would marry again…..Ghazinfar and bari apa but what about choti apa, both sisters dont get along so that's why they dont talk to each other but doesnt mean other people should stop talking………to bari app for that reason
khizer

tmmmmm to asay boool rahai hoo jaisay shohar tmhara hay or ya drama hay just chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiil
- fatima
  
  ya u r right
- Aysha
  
  This is not just a drama Mr. Khizer, it happens in real life and happens with real people. Hamara yey almya hay kay jab tak apnay auper museebat na aay kuch naheen boltay. We dont fight for others if they are in trouble. We think its none of our business. But being a human being, helping other human beings in trouble IS OUR BUSINESS. If we cant do anything due to lack of resources, atleast we can bring awareness thru writing.
kashhaf

i disagree. aysha if u have some problem with polygamy u dont have to show here. kasoor jis ka bhi ho islam mein ijazat hai or ye koi jurm nahi infact i like neelam's character. she is a real wife of farman. waise bhi ap ne wo to suna hoga… bewaqoof aurat apne shoher ko ghulam banati hai or khud ghulam ki biwi banti hai or aqalmand aurat apne shoher ko baadshah banati hai or khud malka banti hai.
- Aysha
  
  unfortuantely, It is not easy to feel others pain unless we ourself go thru that. God forbids, if your husband gets involed and have an affair with another woman and gets married to her. Even he spends equal amount of time with you and his other wife, would u be ok with that?Iwhat impact do you think it will bring to your children? I think there can not be anything more painful for a woman when she knows her husband is sleeping and being intimate with another woman (wife).