Bari Aapa Episode 15 in High Quality – 29th December 2012

Fatima Siddiqui

its a very good drama.i like it

arzo

bibi samjh k likha kro aqal nai tu thori si kisi se lylo divorce ik buhat bari takhlq haqeqat per aurat ka kam hi sabar krna ha sabar ka ajr buhat acha hota hai ALLAH sabar krne walon k sath ha

MeMyself

Farman does not deserve Neelum. Neelum should leave him! Zubaida and Farman deserve each other.

ik soach

mujhy lagta hai k agar har ma apne bete ko aurat ki izzat karna sikahy aur .ik aurat dosry aurat ka rasta rokna chordh de to halaat diffrent hosakte hain.

Aysha

sister, also, one more thing. What if a husabnd divorces his wife, kia jaanat kee khusboo mard per bhee haram ho jaay gee???

noori

Aap ki baaten parh kar mujhe ghusey se ziada hassi ati hai, maine socha tha ke aap ko kisi kisam ka jawaab na du lekin aap ke yeh ghatya comment's parh kar mujhe se raha nahin ghai…..pehli baat tu yeh hai ke aap ko itna adab ,ehtram bhi nahi ke jab aap prophet salalho alihiwasalm ke bare main likhen tu saath main SAW, PBUH likhna chahye jiss insan ko yeh baat bhi pata na ho tu woh deen ke bare main kia janta hoga? doosri baat main kisi ko misguide nahin kar rahi maine hadees shareef ka aur tirmizi ka hawala dia hai tu jo chahe ga woh dekh ley gha ke meri baat main kitni sachai aur kitna jhoot hai aur yeh jo baat aap likh rahi hain ke ek aurat aap SAW ke paas aye tu ussay aap SAW ne divorce ki ijjazat de di tu yeh mera aqeeda hai ke aap SAW ne iss base par khar ghiz ijazat nahin di hogI….. and finally yeh nizam tu ALLAH SWT ka banaye hua hai ke divorce deney ka haque sirf mard ko hai na ke aurat ko phir unke lye jannat ki khushboo kyon haram ho ghi, Agar woh bhi kisi aurat ko be zaroorat talaq dyen tu woh bhi ALLAH SWT KI bargha main jawab de hongey.
- Ahmed
  
  I think we should think about our self and look in our daily routine, perform Namaz and do as Prophet PBUH said. …………Stop criticizing each others.
  
  WA MA AALINA TAUFIQ ILA BILA……………….
- A thought
  
  Talaq aik nihayat hi napasandeda kaam hai ALLAH ki nazar main. main ise totally agree karti hon, aur yeh bhi sach hai k talaq dene a haq sirf mard ko hai, lekin noori yeh hadees bilkul 100% darusk hai k aik baar aik aurat Hazoor (SAW) ki bargah main ayi aur App (SAW) se daryaft kia k Aye Rasoole ALLAH mujhe apna Khawand pasand nahi main kia karon, Hazoor (SAW) ne aik lamhe ka intezar kie bina, us aurat ko Khula us k shohar se khula lene ki ijazat de di thi.
  I would again request all muslims to please be sure of your sayings especially when referring to QURANIC ayats and AHADIS. I know no one does it on purpose but if one is more careful it's highly appreciable in the eyes of ALLAH

Sadia

Videos are not working on phone. Kia faida hua. Koi admin Theek kerny ki koshish b nai kerta.

ammara

bari appa na khud khush rehteen na dosroon ko rehnay deteen hain :@

Atif

Farman is potrayed as a very rich man but he hardly go for work. Very Strange ?

irfan

NYC DRAMA BARI APA KO SLAP KARNY KO DIL CHA RAHA HY.

kashhaf

episode was good. i think farman sahab doosri shadi kar kay bari apa ko talaq day daitay to acha tha saray sakoon say rahtay par farman ka rob sirf doosri wife pay hi chalta hay and bari apa ki jo thori boht izat thi mairay dil may ab wo khatam hogai hay next episode ka preview daikh kay. jo orat apni bahan ke sath sincere nahi wo apnay shohar say kaisay ho sakti hay

sami

sahi. bari apa deserve a slap on her face from her mother.
zain

true but start of drama was way better

sami

Aysha ke comments ke bare mein sab se yahi request hai ke majority in ke comments se agree nahi karti is liye in ke comments ka na to reply kiya karein na hi like/dislike. bus ignore karein. in jaisi aurtein hamaray politicians ki terha hain khud to bahir baith ke aish karti hain or pakistan ki aurton ki hamdard banti hain. agar inko pakistani aurton ka itna dard hai to practically yahan akay kuch karein. sara din google pe search ke pakistan ke baray mein ghalat andazay lagatein hain. khud to shadi kar li baqi saray mardon se inko nafrat hai jaise in ke country mein sab farishte hain. thanx n enjoy the drama as a drama not personal lives.

Aysha

dearries who keep talking about finding info on the ineternet, this one is for you
Enjoy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpbS00RNZhY

Aysha

Dearies who keep talking about finding the info on the internet. This is the one for you
Enjoy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpbS00RNZhY

husain nasir

2 biwion rakhna jaez hy. Arab mulko mey 4 bhe hotee hein . Pakistan mey bhe aisay ghar hein jehan 2 biwiaan rehte hein– aur kuch achey tariqey se bhe. Ek draama is pe banaya jae.—– ek gharana jehan do begum sath rehtee hon..!!!

Faiq

Main tu kehta hun Reality show hojaye..Ill participate in it..:D
saba

jaiz only in dire circumstances where orphans are involved and then too if you can treat both fairly, which Allah himself says is impossible. hence you should only stick to one wife. plus its completely gross for three people to be sharing bodily fluids and spreading diseases. YUKKK
- Aysha
  
  Saba, people on this forum wont understand…and sadest thing is , if u talk about womens' rights, the most dislikes you will get are from WOMEN.

farrah

WHY ISN'T NEELAM SPEAKING UP :@ :@ …KYUN HER DRAMAY MEIN KOI NA KOI ITNI KAMZOOR AURAT DIKHATAY HEIN? KOI TOU FARMAN KO HAQEEQAT KA SHEESHA DIKHAYAY!

Aysha

Farah, Neelam should speak up for what? speaking up for stealing someone's husband?

ahmer

9.8 Rating ka matlab hai k her jagah gar bar hai bhai!

qurat

SARAY FSAD KI JAR FARMAAN HAI ISI KO JOOTIYAN MARIEN BOTH WIVES ISS TRHAN WO DONO B CHILL NO JAIEN GE AUR HUM LOGON KO B THAND PAR JAE GE …MAI TOU CLAPPING KARON GE BAI :p

Nab

i think choti appa khwab dekh rahi hain end m…

qurat

han g wo khwab daikh rai hain coz bri apa ny poray dramay mai hair bnd rkhay hain ykenan wo khwab tha k un k hair b khilay thay

wafa

scene of breakfast was so good zubaida was superb

Rosewater

okay i am utterly surprised at the comments of people and this drama, neelam is potrayed to be the best wife ever, totally in love with her husband and doing whatever he says, obedient and perfect, bari aapa is anything but that, she still has feelings for someone else, and has never given farman any respect. How come Farman is a completely different husband to neelam and zubaida, Shouldnt he be noticing the difference of attitude between two wives, how come he is still all about zubaida, i dont get it.

Aysha

Well dear Rosy, this is how the world works. People who know how to exploit and say the right things at the right time always prevail. Being obedient and perfect till the point of being naive doesn't get you anything. Only misunderstandings as nobody can believe that such an innocent person can exist these days.

jannat

drama is simly best

Aysha

one husband two wives, none of them can ever be happy. bari appa should divorce farman and live a respectful life with her daughter. Its better than the torture all three of them going thru. Farman should move with neelam becuase they are happy. Bari apas behavior with her husband was not acceptable at all, but farman should have told his wife that he wants to get married to another woman instead of cheating on her

kim

Farman has clearly said he likes bari aapa way better and plus bari aapa is his first wife. as for bari aapa's behavior with her husband..have u seen him complain..he is madly inlove with her.neelam is the home recker she should leave them alone.
aap bhi ayesha kissi drame main first wife mazloom hoti hai iss may doorari.. make up ur mind.
- Aysha
  
  Miss kim, its about self respect. Use your brain, If farman truly loved her wife, he would never have gotten married to bari appa. He is a hypocrate. And neelam definitley is a worse character but why should a woman like bari apaa would like to live with a cheater husabnd?
- Aysha
  
  sorry, typo, i meant to say that if farman was truely in love with bari appa, he would never have gotten married to NEELAM.
- zulaikey
  
  I think the best thing would be for Farman should commit suicide as hes such a loser and both bari apa and neelam should split the inheritance between themselves. Zubeda khaton should suffer for ill treating her husband and not giving him the respect and Neelam should suffer for marrying such an idiot.
- mona
  
  an idiot with no back bone like farman doesn't deserve any wife. he's pathetic. He should be a man and take a stand.
arzo

bibi ap ka dimahg kharab hai divorce lyny wali aurat ki zamai mai koi izzat nai hoti samjh ai tumhary
- Aysha
  
  aap ko maloom hy divorced aurtuon kee izzat kyuon naheen hoti??? AAP JAISI KHAWATEEN KEE WAJHA SAY JO DIVORCED AURAT KO SUPPORT KERNAY KEE BAJAY, US KO GIRI HOI NAZAR SAY DAIKHTI HAIN.
  If women stick together and speak for each others rights, no one dare to consider divorce a gaali. If a women is abused or not happy, whats wrong with divorce?
- SISTER
  
  Aap ka Islam se dor dor thak koi wast hi nahin,agar hota tu aap har mamle main yeh na kehti ke women's ko divorce le leni chahye,aap ko tu pata bhi nahin hai kai ALLAH aur unke RASOOL SAW ko divorce se kitni nafrat hai…. jo aurten apne aap se divorce leti hain unke lye JANNAT ki khushboo bhi haram ho jati hai , aur main janti hun ke sabar karna bahut hi mushkil hai lekin phir bhi sabar karo khud se talaq le kar aap jannat se mehroom tu nahin hona chahengi……. AKHRAT SE DARO WOH BAR HAQUE HAI.
- Deeba2345
  
  Actually there are question marks here. The hadith about divorce being the most hated thing in the sight of Allah is very weak. I am not 100% certain, but you should search the net for this.
- sister
  
  Yeh baat sach hai Deeba ji bahut si baaten research karne se clear ho jati hain,umeed karti hun ke aap apni jankari ke lye research zaroor kar len ghi.
- Aysha
  
  sister sahiba, aap ko kis baiwaqoof nay yey batain bata dee hain? husband can divorce his wife but if wife divorces her husabnd, us per jannat kee kushboo haram??? who told u this bullshit? please respect yourself being a human being. Have you heard the hadiths "zulm bardasht karnay wala aur zulm kernay wala donuon zalim hain". Why would God want women to bardasht husband's zulm? Hmray culture main aurat ko zinda jalaya jata hay, us per acid phainka jata hay…us ko din raat mara peeta jata hay…aap kay khyal main aurat ko yey sab kuch bardasht kerna chayey??? are you mentally sick? Have you heard hadith that a woman came to the prophet and said she doesnt want to be with her husabdn, when prophet muhammad asked her "why", she said she didnt like her husbands face. Prophet Muhammad granted her divorce right away.
- sami
  
  sister i agree ke islam mein jo cheezein halal hain un mein sab se qabil-e-nafrat Talaq hai. zara zara se bat pe talaq lene walay kabhi khush nahi rehte but i dont agree abt "jannat ki khushboo". Aurat khulaa le sakti hai if she dont want to live with her husband. Islam is not that strict. we made it complicated.
- sister
  
  Sami ji pehle tu main yeh kahun ghi ke jo aap ne ayesha ke lye lika he is baat se main aur doosrey jo is site par comment's karte hain iss baat se puri tarha se sehmat hain,aur jo maine comment kia tu usay thora sa darust karna chahti hun ke Hadees shareef main yeh baat mojud hai ke " jo aurat be zaroorat apne khawind se talaq mange us par jannat ki khushboo haram hai" (Tirmizi J:2 page:402 Hadees 1191) wesey mujhe aap ki baat bohut achi lagi ke in mohtarama ko ignore kia jaye!!!!
- sami
  
  sister ap ne saboot paish kar diya is liye ab mein kuch nahi keh sakta i totally agree.
- Aysha
  
  sister why r u misguiing people. The hadith is if a woman seeks divorce WITHOUT ANY REASON.
  And the reason can be anything. A woman came to prophet that she wants divorce from her husabnd becuase she doesnt like his face and prophet granted divorce to her.
- Aysha
  
  sister, I have a question, if there is a husband who does not fulfil his responisibilites as a husband aur maar peet bhee kerta hay, ager aisi aurat divorce lay tu kia us per bhee jannat kee khusboo haram hay"????
- mona
  
  I totally agree with Aysha. it's people giving neative comments to Ayesha's comments that disrespect divorced women. It is women in our society that oppress women.
sami

every time same comment. i m just fed up from u.
- Aysha
  
  Sami, u might be wondering why am i not responding to your comments. I am not responsing due to tha famous saying of Sir Winston Churchill:
  "You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks"
- sami
  
  ok u go wid ur winston churchill. i will go wid my Prophet (S.A.W) who said "“You should not do evil to those who do evil to you, but you should deal with them with forgiveness and kindness.” . i can abuse u more than that but m forgiving u.
- Aysha
  
  I dont need your forgiveness. Just do me a favor and stop commenting about me and stop commenting on my posts.
a thought

i hardly ever reply or comment beneath any video of drama. however Aysha i want to clear up somethings to you because i have seen you making a similar type of comment under mera yaqeen too. it its about living a respectful life, bari aapa is living a respectful life. why should she divorce her husband and how can a decision of her daughter living with her can be made so easily. this is not an easy setup or a situation in which everyone seems to be put in. however if a mistake is made like the one farman made can't be redone but can only be solved. and the solutions and conclusions are good only if they benefit everybody so that no one goes through extreme humiliation or decision making distress. I do agree with some of your points about "nikkah nama"…and yes it's true that lines for women have been crossed out. I have personally seen my mothers "nikkah nama" which had the same lines crossed out. your anger towards our culture is totally understandable. I am myself is not into all this. However whats allowed in islam is surely for a good reason, and yes I will never deny anything said by my ALLAH. He granted men to marry 4 wifes at a time, and yes i have read translation. and the full ayat put a condition on men of giving them equal rights and ALLAH Himself says in the ayat that it will be very hard for men to do that, and according to the right arabic translation, the verse does give an indication that it will be nearly impossible for men to do it. As for the hadith you mentioned about a women demanding a divorce from her husbad is totally right, it true that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) did grant her permission right away. there are so many right of muslim women that are not given to them especially in a country like Pakistan, aslo i didn't keep track of the names of people who were commenting but i remember someone mentioning arab's having 4 wives. yes it is true, but think about resources an average male have in those countries, men are able to afford 1, 2 ,3 or four wives. but has anyone ever mentioned that in arabian countries women are not taken as care takers of parents of husband, sisters/brothers of husband and a whole huge list of other relatives. dear fellows I would ask everybody here to please please read QURAN and AHADIS before making comments. According to islam its not a duty of a wife to take care of his whole family, her only liable duty is take care of her husband and be obedient to him in every way she can. if she earns something it's her choice to keep the money herself or if and i would stress if she wants only she can spend it on her household. Now if she takes care of his husband along with his whole family she is doing extraordinary and it would be considered a naiki rather than a duty.
Now one more thing i would like to clear out….i don't know about the percentage but its true that in countries like USA, Canada and many other developed countries, women go through a lot of mental and physical stress. and the kind that is unbearable, I have personally lived in these countries and currently reside there. women work day and night at their jobs, then take care of the household and nurse their kids. life is by no means easy anywhere. this is why i totally totally love the system ALLAH has designed for marital lives for both husband and wife, that a husband should take care of financial needs of the house and a women should be more active in domestic labor. but if she wants and her husband grants her a permission to work she can do so there is no restriction on that.
Also i would ask everyone to please be very careful when working with Quranic ayat's and Ahadis, and make sure they are right.

brit

grt

gull

bohat say log noman kay cracter pay discuss kar rahay thay kay ye fake lagta hai wife say itna dam kay koe nahi rehta but main nay apne reall life main aik na dooo kafe log dakhay hain kuch family main hain kuch milnay walono main same halat hote hain jasay noman ke dekhae hai poray dramay main ,…..funny bat ye kay woh to baher kisi ko milnay be nahi jatay apne wives ke ejazat kay koe palne karna ho party ko to answer milta hai poch kay bataoon ga ager us ka mood hoa to kar lain gay warna pher sorry ,aik family member hai humara jis ke bate k arishta lay kay gay hum us nay drawing room main akaylay he bat ke or kaha mare wife is rishtay pay bat karnay nahi aain ge ager app khud us kay bed room main ja kay us say bat kar lain to behtar hai main to us ko kuch keh nahi sakta hai meray bachoono ke mama hai saray rights us kay hain mare to chalte nahi main kea karooon hahahahha soo funnyyyyyyyyy reall main hota hai meray he family aik aik man ko us ke wife kahay to salam karta hai nahi to chup betha takta rehta hai

kim

Farman never married neelam beause he wanted too but only because neelam dint have anyone.(i dont know why this is a big deal) When farman told neelam how he feels about his first wife before getting married then neelam should not make his life sooo dificult. Farman requested her to give the whole situation some time and in from of everyone she proved that her husband was lying. Seriously neelam you knew everything when you got married.. baari aapa ko sambhalney tou doo. Baari aapa is a strong woman and i respect that.if her husband is happy and in love with who she iis i dont why everyone is bashing her.

Aysha

neelam didnt have anyone? kia farman us ko apni bhen samajh ker shaadi naheen kerwa sakta that? pooray pakistan main kisi ka shoher hee mila tha? aur marduon ko doosri shaadi kay liy jo baysahara aurtain milti hain to wo sirf khoobruat aur jawan kyuon hoti hain? have you seen any man in pakistan taking second wife who is a widow with orphan children?
- kim
  
  aap pata nahin yaar dramay mein pakistan kay mardoun ko lay aati hain….naa haar mard bura hota hay na haar aurat dood ki khooli. Aap farman ko bura keti hain to neelam theek hay? she is a home recker. she knowingly married a married man.
  bari aapnay us ka ghaar nahin taba kia . neelam nay bari aapa ka kia hay.
- Aysha
  
  When did i say neelam is a nice person? She is the one who stole someone's husband and thats what have i put in my comments. Did u just look at my name and started critizing without even reading my comment?
- saba
  
  I agree if Neelam was not as pretty as she is or if she was ugly im sure farman wouldn't marry her:)
- saba
  
  exactly!!!! and islam only encourages polygamy when there are orphan children involved but the sad part is that such women are never accepted as wives
- Aysha
  
  Saba, I would really appriciate if u could give me a ISlamic scholar name who did talk about connection between polygamy and widows with orphan kids. As we all know Polygamy was allowed in extreme situations where many men were killed in wars and left widows and orphan children behind, Muslim men were allowed to take more than one wife to take care of those widows and orphans. Now after 1400 years, we dont see any men taking second wife who is a widow and has kids. Second, third, fourth marriage is done only with younger and pretiier women…does any islamic scholar talk about that issue? Or do they talk about ijtihad becuase men outnumber women in the world and even 1% men take more than 1 wife, their will be millions of men left without a wife.
- Marina
  
  True Ayesha. Farman could have found a nice guy for her and helped her with the marriage. I hate Farman character. It's not BAri aapa' s fault that she is not treating her husband well. Her husband let her treat him that way. When he got married the second time, where did he get all the mardangee from.

Rizwan

I love this drama very much..

Nazish

how does this guy run a business…n get rich- hes so stupid!!

saba

ur right HA HA HA…………….

rizwana faisal

noman ijaz ka bht hi ajeeb role h.bilkul hi ajeeb mard dikhaya hoa h.aik wife k sath extreme acha and doosri k sath extreme bura.bht hi intaha pasand dikhya hoa h.dono hi MAA BETI sharmeen and zubeida bht hi her dil azeez dikhai hoi hein.yehi waja h k dono sar pa charhi hoi hein.

iqra

asalam o alikum badi aapa drama is excellent v.nice g n sub ne acting bi bhut achi ki hy supe drama n humhri puri family ko pasand hy n ………allah hafiz

kim

sharmeen nay bhi???

faiza

although bari apa is very clever,but unkay sath bhe bohat bura hua,sokan ka ghum bohat bara hota hai,AND THAT MR FARMAN IS VERY DIPLOMATIC PERSON….

saba

I don't think so kay bari apa kay sath bura hoya she deserve sakan. Since she always tells her brother kay Refath ko talaq day do. She was always hurting Refath's feelings, here at least Farman did not divorce her or threaten her!!!!!!! As i always say bari apa deserve that even worse than that. Insahallah She will soon very sooooooon. But I love Savayra Nadeem very good actress:)
Nab

true in sab m sab sy bura farman hai.. agar unhain nahin pasand tha wife ka behavior tou unhain samjhna chaiya tha bhtt coward hain farman sahab

Pisces

awesome. Thank GOD sharmeen got lesson, essa z always right choice. but bri apa……OMG! how clever she z!
neelam z really innocent and miserable….farman sahab should learn how to treat both of his wives at a time…!!
desperately waiting for next episode….!!

Huma

Shermeen finally learned n bari apa very clever…. Lilam doesn't even know how to talk to bari aapa
Bari apa got nothing to do so now she is with her sisters husband
Like seriously!!!!

Qurat

Bari aapa kam aur bra siyapa ziyada

faiza

well,nice episode,bari aapa is very clever

saba

She is not that clever its Mr, Farman who is so stupid. He is so inlove with her that he believe every thing she say or just to make her happy he believes what she say. Like rat ko din and din ko rat>
- Nab
  
  wrong bari apaa is 2much clever.. if farman is so stupis so why neelam cant handle him…

booh yeah

Monty… lol ..koi aur nam nahi mila tha character k liye nam se hi maila admi sound kar rha hai..

honey

zabardast awesome drama.. entertaining episode…waiting for the next epi desperately!!

Khawaish

Bari Aapa total ZEHER …

anny

love bari aapa

Farzana

The two major clauses that i find in nikkah contracts during the Middle Ages and Ottoman Empire were stipulation of maintenance ( obligation to live with the in-laws or obligation to have one specific house-type) and no second wife taken.

I believe that anyone can read up nikkah agreements in proeminents libraries, enjoy it is in Arabic, you just need to sign up. Google it

Sisters, IF illiterate women 500 years ago put the no second marriage clause in their marriage contracts with their husbands, then why not us educated Muslim women of this century?

Aysha

I really liked your comments. You are an enlightened woman. U are doing jihad by bringing awareness about womens' rights
- Nananana
  
  You have so much hatred for mMen in general and Pakistani men in particular.
  Are you from some rural area or tribal areas of Pakistan due to which you have negative experiences that make you hate men so much.
- sid
  
  I''ll tell you why because she say's she has been sexually harassed in Pakistan whilst growing up there that's the reason why she hate's Pakistan and Men's .
- Aysha
  
  Mr. sid, its not just me who was sexually harrased. Its the story of every other women in pakistan. Why dont you do one thing, ware a burka and go to a busy market in peshawar, then come back and put your comments over here how many men tried to grope you and touched you…I would love to hear your experiences.
- Marina
  
  Well said Ayesha… It's hard to accept your flaws. Qatil ki maa bhi apnay betay ko baygunnah kehti hai..
- Aysha
  
  SID, seeing likes on your comments shows how much pakistani like young girls being sexually harrased.
- Aysha
  
  Nananana….do you know what happens with 85% women living in rural areas of pakistan? Do u know how they are treated? I am talking about interior sindh, punjab, NWFP and baluchistan villages. Did I make the report that pakistan is worlds third most dangrous contries for WOMEN to live in? These are the facts and I did not make them up. The reason I bring them up is, I want women to know whats happening with them and they raise their voice against all the brutalities/domestic violence and abuse. Did u women ever raise your voice agaisnt physical beating of women by their husabnds? The problem is that, women like u will never let it happen.
- kim
  
  this is not only in pakistan… more then 70% women in usa are abused phisicaly and sexualy or mentaly abused by their partener everyday. aap to khud he aapni baat ko raad karti hain. you want women to stand upfor themselfs and then bash strong women like bari aapa who wont let anyone walk all over her.
- Aysha
  
  Miss kim, if u want to have a healthy debate and want to have some respect, pl dont make up facts. where did u get the numbers that 70% women in US are abused. Miss kim, this is not a stone age, if people can come to this site, they can use interet to find the facts as well. And if you heard that 70% number from some mullah, do your own research before putting some random numbers here.
- sami
  
  i wish u will ever defend ur own country like that except spreading false info from net.
Muhammad Faique

read the clauses of nikkahnama and then you say any thing ,http://www.courtmarriage-nikah.com/downloads/urdu_nikah_nama.jpg
- Farzana
  
  @Muhammad Faique
  Mullahs in Pakistan remove the section of clauses in the Nikah contract so that women do not stipulate conditions in their interest.
  Go check on google on any Islamic site.
- Aysha
  
  @Farzana, Very true…I did verify that after reading your comments. I didnt know it either that Mullahs in paksitan have removed those clauses from Nikha Nama. There is one clause which talks about wife's right of divorce but Nikha Khuan/Mullah just put a big cross on that clause at time of NikhaNama. I did not know that, when someone told me,I looked at my Nikha Nama and my sister and bhabis Nakha Namas, that clause was crossed out and no one ever asked me at time of Nikah if I wanted that right. But u know what, women on this site will respond that there is nothing wrong with that becuase women should NOT have the right to divorce…in their mind an adult women even in her 30s,40s,50s does have brain to make any decision so she should not be allowed to decide whether she wants to live with her husband or not. She can "ask" for it and prove it to the judge why she doesnt want to be with her husband, while husband does not have to go to any court to prove it to any judge why he is divorcing his wife. He can be a judge to make decision taht wife is not good enough so he divorces her anytime
- Aysha
  
  Mr Muhammad, read Farzana's comments again, she is talking about Muslim nakha nama in middle ages and Ottoman Empire era (which was more than 500) years ago.At that time muslim women had the right and now after 500 years they dont becuase islam was hijacked by mullahs who just belive in total control of men. According to mullahs an adult women (even 50 years old) can not even make a decision about stepping out of the hosue without her husband's permission. She can not defrenciate between right and wrong so she is not allowed to make decision even about her own life. For instance if a 30 years old physican wants to pursue a career, she cant make that decision unless her husband allows it
- ik soach
  
  one more thing that no buddy talks about wives rights .jo itne azida haain k pura karne main aadmi ka dum nikal jai every man has just know only about his right .biwi rakhna itna aasaan nahin magar aadmi biwi ko forgranted lelete hain.