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Durre Shahwar Episode 14 in High Quality on Hum Tv – 9th June 2012

The plot revolves around Shandana and Hyder who have been married for eight years but are now having problems in their marriage. Shandana goes to Murree with her daughter to spend the holidays with her parents, Durreshehwar and Mansoor. She cannot help envying her mother who has a devoted husband and is very happy, and subconsciously keeps comparing her husband with her father – until she learns that life is never a bed of roses and her mother’s happiness didn’t come easy.Durre Shahwar Episode 14 in High Quality on Hum Tv - 9th June 2012
Pakistani Drama Reviews
  • aisha

    Superb episode….evrthng ix soo perfect in the drama…direction,production,script….durr-e-shahwar fatherx letter wx soo influential….vry much heart touching…the lesson that we get from dis drama ix patience leads towards fruitful end..bst drama i have evr watched on tv…=)

    • adiba

      totally agree

    • Faraz

      you should learn lesson and act upon it…

  • Afshan

    Aisa kabhi nahi howa jub iss drama ki kisi episode ne rulaya na ho..phir bhi dekhna tu zaroori hai na…but one thing Life is not a Fairy Tale…

  • Aamir Basharat

    Excellent episode….Story is the best in the drama…direction,production,script…vry much heart touching..BEstest DRama of the season

    BRavo to HUM TV

  • Nadeem

    I remained stunned while watching whole episode, but the last 2 minutes brought tears in my eyes…

    AB MAIN MESS MAIN NAHI, GHAR MAIN REHNA CHAHTA HU

    Wah Mansoor chaa gaye…

  • maryam

    wonderfull play………..

    no pains no gains…….it gave me such a big hope though i am past two years in my relation ship but i know i can make it work, some rocks are just harder than others……but theres no fort thats impregnable and jb ek shigaf par skta hy tu hazar bhi par saktey hyn ……….

    :)

    • Faraz

      good thoughts

  • maryam

    i love dur e shewar's father

  • http://sikanderejaz1.blogspot.com SIkanderEjaz

    Osum Episode ……

    Loving This…

    No P recap…:-(((((((

  • Amna

    Thanx for uploading…

  • anie

    luv this drama.. really its the fact that u have to prove yourself, and then u get ur reward.

  • Misty

    jis nay preview next episode ka banaya hai us ko jootiyan lagani chahiyee. saari ki saari episode bata di….suspense hi choor diya.

    • Nadeem

      The best way to overcome this prob is, DON'T EVER WATCH THE PREVIEW OF NEXT EPISODE…

      • jia

        lol!

  • laiba

    very nice episode atleast shahwar ko us k saber ka phal mil hi gia i m sooooooooooooooo happy.

  • http://Www.cycopath.com Retard

    All dramas suck….. Try watching baby tv for more intellectually simulating content..

    • t3wan

      lyk ur user name, u really are a retard

    • sheikh

      u choose a very fitting name for urself .. ur retard indeed

    • anam

      so you are intellectually stimulated by baby tv programs.. intellectualism nay naam pay thappar hain aap. quit using the word.

  • M Javed

    Emotionally too strong, Message is so clear and spurb performance. Bending trees always got fruit.

  • Faiza

    Superb dramaa.bht kch seekha hai isss dramay sai specially compromise krnaaa.

    • Syeda Mehwish Batool

      kaash sab betiaan ye baat seekhain….kaaasshh :(

  • Zainab

    awesome episode!!! made me cry. Insha'Allah I hope my days turn around as well…till then will try to be patient.

    • Abu Hussain

      Ameen somma Ameen……yeh he aqalmandi hay keh sabaq haasal kiya jaaiy……

    • Syeda Mehwish Batool

      Yes, be patient… Allah is with the patience people

  • maria

    bhhhhhht achi episode the..n i think her larki ko ye drama zaroor daikhna chaheye :)….we ve a such of master piece words in this drama which can help us in our lives…another marvellous drama by umaira ahmad

    • Abu Hussain

      Sirf larkioun ko he nehein , her mardd ko bi ta kay gardan say sariya niklay……….

      • Lafz Lafz Moti

        Kaminay ho tum, sadi hui mooli…:P :) :D

  • http://facebook/amch85 Abdul Mateen Chaudha

    Superb Drama, especially this episode and very last part was almost crying though its girls problem but a great lesson for every human being who responsible for this all to survive in this society and traditional family system like we seeing in this Drama. in the end a big thanks and congrats to whole team of Durr-e-Shehwar .. and special to Samina pirzada & Sanam Baloch who rolled as Shahwar in both young & old Character.Its a great show to seeing as usual Hum TV is on top :)

    Regards,

    AMCH

  • A.A

    Excellent drama!!1 Amazing!!

  • Umariya

    Best drama….aaj tu sass per bhi taras agaya

    • aisha

      waqaye…=)

      • Umariya

        She is doing all this coz she is possessive about his son….DES father was so right….she is afraid from DES …DES is superb drama n every girl should learn lesson from DES….

        • Syeda Mehwish Batool

          OH MY ALLAH MAY EVERY GIRL SHOULD LEARN LESSON FROM THIS DRAMA…AAAMMEEEENNNN!

  • http://Www.cycopath.com Retard

    You are all brainwashed people who have nothing to do except watch stupid dramas all day.are you all so dull?

  • arg

    I maintained in earlier episodes that Shewaar's father is an angle like any good father…. Zaberdast drama with realistic solutions n real-time learnings in our day to day life…

  • http://dramasonline.com wajid abrar

    i have no words to explain my feelings about durre shahwar,,,mujhe pehli baar kisi dramay ne rulaya hai,,kahin bhi aisa nhi lagta k yeh drama hai,,lagta hai k aik hakeeki zindagi ka manzar ho,,hatts off for the writer,directr,and sanam baloch…loved this drama,,bestest ever

  • http://fb Mahum butt

    its all my mom story…

    • aisha

      really?

      • Sara

        gadhi ho tum…

  • Sara

    Beautiful drama I think every woman and man should watch it . It has lesson for every one.

  • Abu Hussain

    Three is no doubt that from 1st episode drama is heart touching , Director & script writter nay tou kamal he kar diya , meray mutaabiq they kept their finger on pulse of every person , I belive each & every person (male/female) who watch this drama he/she can find himself in this story , laiken shartt yeh hay keh zehan khula ho aur ghalti tasleem karnay ka zarf aur housla ho…. realy that scene was shakeable when he said to shahwar "saalgirah mubarak ho"……mein mer jaawan gurr khaa kay……….

    • Nuzhat

      Very well said. Its a normal story but the way it has been portrayed is outstanding. Kudos to the director, writer, all the actors and Sanam Baloch. No drama has ever touched me so much the way Durreshawar has. It is surely a masterpiece.

  • f.baksh

    excellent,superb, mind blowing

    it seems that the next episode will be the last episode…

  • Hibba

    So touching drama.. Every women have her fAte at her husbands home

    .. N sh will get it no matters how hard sh has to bear..

    Very true and motivAted story.. :)

    • zahra

      yes true but where is mateen gone now ??? shandana is second child ??

      • Nuzhat

        If you remember in the 1st episode mansoor and shawar talked about their first born mateen. Shahdana is the second born.

        • Hibba

          Yea.. There will b story ov him too iguess

  • sadia sayam

    Aisa kabhi nahi howa jub iss drama ki kisi episode ne rulaya na ho esa lagta hi ya har gar ki kahani hai

  • Aisha

    Love this drama<3 Love the relation between father and daughter

  • sara

    owsum drama…….near to reality

  • Sabi

    Stunning. The beautiful way of highlighting different relationships and their importance in a persons life has made an average and typical story into a masterpiece. Nothing is ever black and white. The grey areas being portrayed so beautifully here are the very reason why everybody is able to relate so vividly to at least one of the characters in the serial , if not more..

    • anam

      you are so right.

  • huma younus

    this drama truly depicts the bitter reality after marriage… Marriage life is not a fantasy nor a fairly tale… one should face the problems whole-heartedly… the role of durr-e-shahwar is really superb.. every girl should show such type of patience so that she could be able to make place in her in-laws heart…

  • Naina

    This was my rply to all ladies jaani who r crying abt marrige. Excpt those Men who r involve with other women .

    Naina Reply:

    June 3rd, 2012 at 1:56 am

    Women r so Strong and they can let man do whatever they want.

    U just need paticance , good words and detmination.

    And stop taking pitty on u rself

    And abt money Allah nay jis ki kismat may jitna pasay jitna rizik hay us ko milay ga meray inlaw nay mugh say mera jheez manga may nay day diyay and i dont mind.kuon shiyad wo unki kismat ka tha.

    Agar app apnay husband say mohabat say bat nai kero gay tu wo app say kabhi mohabta nai keray ga.

    I belong to a rich family and my husband dont my in laws didnt givr me much but i never utter a single word to my husband only prasie him . And his family and alhumdulila he respect me and my family.

    Complaing never gives u solution.

    Sirf thori aqal mandi chiayay.neeyat achi honi chiyay like dure shwar

    I hope kuch larkiuon ko aqal aii hogi.

    • sana

      naina ji,batien tu sab ker saktey hien, har larki tni sabir nahien hoti har aik ka mizaj mukhtalaf hey, aurut sirf mohabat mangti hey jab shohar mohabat nahien dey sakta tu bhool jaye keh woh usey mohabat kerwa sakta hey , is drama mien bilkul sach dikhaya gayahye, dureshahwar aur uski beti dono ab pretend ker rahi hien, bohat si majborian yeh kerwati hien sab chor ker bhaag nahien jatien magar dil mar jata hey tu dobara mard ki terha according to the demand mohabat shru nahien kerta…yeh hi differnce hey aurat aur mard mien.

      husband sey mohabat sey bat tab hi hoti hey na jb woh bhi oi response dey agar woh agey sey lath marey tu aurat kab tak tawaifoun ki terha adaien dikha sakti hey???har jaga aqal nahien chalti qismat bohat bari cheez hey.

      • HUMA ALI

        Aoa,

        Sana jee or Naina jee, ap donon apni apni jaga durust hein, i think ye soch ki bat hai, kuch oratein her hal me apna ghar chalana chahti hein, phir chahey shohar caring ho k na ho, ap k hakook k lie larey ya na larey, biwi ka zevar behen ko dena, biwi ki salamian ous se le lena, vaguera vaguera, najaiz hai, sirf duniyavi lihaz se hi nahi mazhabi lihaz se bhi,,, phir bhi oratein agar hanste hanste ye kam ker deti hein, k isi terha mera shohar meri izzat ker ley, susral valey kadar ker len.. to bhi yakinan dil k kisi koney se avaz to ati hogi k mere sath galat ho reha hai, bat vohi ho gui, k ap ko pretend kerna perhta hai,jahan tak mera khayal hai or meri thori bohat knowledge hai, islam ne orat ko bohat hakook die hein, vo ziadtian bardash kerne k lie bound nahi hai, vo apney hak k lie avaz outha sakti hai, mene hadith me kai vakie perhe hein, jin me oraton ne alaidgi ka moutalba kia Nabi Pak saw k zamaney me, az had koshish ye hoti thi k ghar bana rehe per kisi orat per koi sharri zor nahi k vo apne hakook ki pamaali bardash kere,,,lekin phir bhi koi orat is dunia ko ous dunia per afzal samajhti hai or apni zindagi kurban ker deti hai, to vo Salam k kabil hai, yakinan jin khatoon ko jannat me sab se pehley entry mileygi, k bibi Fatima bi heran ho gui thin k vo kon ho gi jo moogh se bhi pehley jannat me dakhil ho gi, (vo is terha k bibi fatima ounth per hongi or ounth ki rassi os orat k hath me hogi to zahir hai pehley ousi k kadam jaenge jannat me,, maloom kia to pata laga k vo shohar k aguey bohat saabir hai… shohar k zulm k aguey surrender na kerne me koi gunah nahi hai ye hak hai…per jo vakhf ker dey apni zindagi ko is rishtey per,,,ous k lie no doubt soch sey ziada acha hai ider bhi (kuch cases me) lekin surely in the hereafter…baki Allah behter janta hai

        • Naina

          Sana you need to growup than get married.Arrange marraige frst need trust and respect and thn it will turn in love.if u gve ur husband trust tht u care abt his family he Will repest u at ny case. Seriously qurbani kabhi riga nahi jati.aur pls marriage ko tawaif.. Ki gali daynay say phelay soch wat r u talking abt.

          Aur may b u dont wat it means??????

        • Naina

          And huma i know wat islam say abt marriage. agar kisi ko acha ghar aur susral mila hay tu she is lucky .if not tu kiya keray talkak lay aur aglay kay liyay wait kay.

          Maydan chor kay nahi bhgna chiyia . Maddan mar layna chiyay:D

        • sana

          naina baji, agar aap ko aik acha husband mil gaya hey tu yeh matlab nahien keh har insaa aik hiqismat ley kar aya hey, mohternma yahan hazroun aisi aurtien hein jo sadyoun sey shohar aur uskey gher waloun ki jotian kha rahi hien, magar hasil kuch nahie hoa…becharian har takleef sey guzri hien, aunty ji yeh drama tha real life different hey, ap chonkey ameer gher ki thi aur aap ka susral ghareenb tu aap ki chal gaye wern agar ulta hota tu pta lgta ..jahan mard respect karey h na , har waqt uskey kaan bharey jaien, maan behnien apna beta aur bhai khoney key khouf mien houn, bahoo sirf outsider aur nooker ho waha yeh sari kahnyan nhien chalti…mie aisi khawteen ko janti houn jo qurbanyan dey dey kar adhi ho gaye hien magar shohar maan ki aik awaz per phir aisey ankhien phir letey hien jesey jantey hi n houn….aunty ji agar aap grow up ker gye hien aur aap ney sir apna gher dekha hey tu iska yeh matlab nahien keh sarey gher aik jeseyhien, growup kerety idher odher bhi dekhti tu aap ko pata lgt kitni larkyan jal jati hien kitni mar jati hien , kitni apney gher waloun ki shakal dekhney ko tarasti hey… Nabi ( pbuh) ka qool suna hey na Pahar hat gaya tu mien maan jaoun ga magar koi kahey insaan ki nature badal gaye tu mat mano…bibi tawaif bhi aik urat hoti hey kai dafa mazloom , bechari woh bhi adien beechti hien, aur yeh sach hey keh jesey aurat ko kha jata hey keh ban sawar kar mard ko lubhaoo (husband) tu yeh wohi herkatien hien, khir mard apni biwi ko baghair in sab batoun key mohabat kouyn nahien dey sakta???May be i dont know what i said MAY BE YOU DO..))

        • HUMA ALI

          I think lucky hoti hein vo larkian jin ko bohat achey susral valey milte hein, oun k sath sab bohat acha hota hai, or phir bhi almost lucky hoti hein vo larkian jin k sath start me boura hota hai per vo apni achi nature or sabar se jald apna moukam paa leti hein,,, per taklif hoti hai oun larkion k lie jin ko poori terha se sab badalney ka moka hi nahi dia jata…or kabhi pata lagta hai k vo khana pakate hue jal guin,, to kabhi vo chat sey larkhara ker gir jati hein…to kabhi koi or hadsa bayan ker dia jata hai…

          meri bat ka matlab samajhne k lie :
          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvNhYFCMIeY

          ye clip zaror dekhna youtube per..

          Allah sab ki zindagian asaan kere…

      • Syeda Mehwish Batool

        Didnt you notice that inspite of the fact that Shewar thought that she would not care if she lived with Mansoor or not, as soon as Mansoor started paying attention to her, such as remembering her birthday and kidding with her, she melted. A woman craves attention and love and the one person she craves it from is her husband and father of her children. Indeed her father’s role was a exemplary and we should all take lesson from it…..

      • Syeda Mehwish Batool

        Your thoughts sre childish, you need to consult a psychiatrist…

      • Rukhsna

        I am 51 years old and I totaly agree with Sana. I dont knwo what they show in the drama but in real life, a man like mansoor alway always always stay deprived of his wife's true love.

    • sana

      naina baji, agar aap ko aik acha husband mil gaya hey tu yeh matlab nahien keh har insaa aik hiqismat ley kar aya hey, mohternma yahan hazroun aisi aurtien hein jo sadyoun sey shohar aur uskey gher waloun ki jotian kha rahi hien, magar hasil kuch nahie hoa…becharian har takleef sey guzri hien, aunty ji yeh drama tha real life different hey, ap chonkey ameer gher ki thi aur aap ka susral ghareenb tu aap ki chal gaye wern agar ulta hota tu pta lgta ..jahan mard respect karey h na , har waqt uskey kaan bharey jaien, maan behnien apna beta aur bhai khoney key khouf mien houn, bahoo sirf outsider aur nooker ho waha yeh sari kahnyan nhien chalti…mie aisi khawteen ko janti houn jo qurbanyan dey dey kar adhi ho gaye hien magar shohar maan ki aik awaz per phir aisey ankhien phir letey hien jesey jantey hi n houn….aunty ji agar aap grow up ker gye hien aur aap ney sir apna gher dekha hey tu iska yeh matlab nahien keh sarey gher aik jeseyhien, growup kerety idher odher bhi dekhti tu aap ko pata lgt kitni larkyan jal jati hien kitni mar jati hien , kitni apney gher waloun ki shakal dekhney ko tarasti hey… Nabi ( pbuh) ka qool suna hey na Pahar hat gaya tu mien maan jaoun ga magar koi kahey insaan ki nature badal gaye tu mat mano…bibi tawaif bhi aik urat hoti hey kai dafa mazloom , bechari woh bhi adien beechti hien, aur yeh sach hey keh jesey aurat ko kha jata hey keh ban sawar kar mard ko lubhaoo (husband) tu yeh wohi herkatien hien, khir mard apni biwi ko baghair in sab batoun key mohabat kouyn nahien dey sakta???May be i dont know what i said MAY BE YOU DO..))

      • afia k

        wellsaid sana

    • Hina

      Seriously tum jasai larkiyaan ko sumghana bilkul wastage of time hay. If u wan divorce than have become a public property than u will b happy.Allah tum Ko niyak hidayat aur achi biwi banay. Ammen

      Kuon ?

      Kuon? Kuon? Hopless

      • afia k

        public property? aap ka dimagh tu theek hey Hina, bohat sari izat daar aurtien divorced hien khabhi kisi wajhasey khabhi kisis wajha sey..itni fazool baat kerney sey pehley sochna chaye , bohat larkyan qismat mien talaq hotahey agar hona hey tu koi chaplosi nahien rook sakti, wohi ghulamana zehniat hey keh dab key raho, parhi likhi aurtien izzat ki zindagi guzarti hien, bewa hoti hien ya talaq yafta,agar app ney taleem hasil ki hoti tu isi baat na kerti na app ko lagta.

  • Rida

    Really awsum…i'm learning a lot from dur-e-shehwar..

  • adiba

    aj tu drama ne rula he diya… best cast and superb acting by every 1…. very emotional and reality based dramA ….a great lesson lessonn 4 the girls of this generation

    • anam

      not only for girls, its for saas and nandain too… for husbands too.

  • http://Dramasonline.com Aysha

    sehwar ney siraf 2 sal kay liya sabar kiya pakistan main larkiya sari zindagi sabar karti hain our phir bhi end acha nahi hota our phir talaq ho jati hai ya sochti hain hum ney pehley talaq kyon nahi li love this drama

    • UMAMA

      BUT HAVE U SEEN K DURRESHAWAR NY APNY SUSRAL MAI KBI KISI KO JAWAB NAI DIA TO KIA HMARY HA B AHSA HOTA HA.

      APNI SIS IN LAW KAY DUKH PY KHUSH HOTY HAIN YA KHAFA

      • Hina

        ooo come on Umama haven't you actually seen bahus like DES jin ko bolnay ki ijazat tak nahi hoti agay jawab dena to bht door ki bat ha….or phir bhi 2 saal kia entire life esay guzarti ha k na susral walay respect karty han na husband or na hi bachyyy…even kids dont learn to respect that woman in that house who is no more than a maid and they come to her only when they need her…

  • ummaa

    if even few of the girls who commented down learned something from D.S. married life journey, umera ahmed wins !

  • anam

    is time mai sanam baloch say behtar koi actress nahe hai.. rula dia…

    • Nuzhat

      I totally agree with you whether its Bano (Dastaan), Noori (Noorpur ki rani), Zara (Daam), Kiran (Kuch pyar ka paagalpan), Shehla (Doraha), Rija (Chadween ka chand) and finally now durreshawar. She is the most talented actress we have.

  • rabia majid

    mind blowing , super drama by umara ahmad, u r absolutely a great writer, no words to pay thanx for making such a good story, itnay lesson ,itnay plesent words man father daughter k letter samjhay , i must say every one must see this play , aik aik word ghoor say sunanay wala hay . no words to say ,how beautifully sanam acted n her father , bother are marvelous, saud is one of the most sweet charecter,a god gift to his bhabi. ,

    umara ahmad u need's a siluate

  • Zubi

    The last two clips ,I ve seem them again.."….. I did not do this ever before with any drama.just too good ,I m speechless.

    • jia

      lol!I used to do this alot while watching humsafar! especially the last episode….nad i watched the part when shahwar goes to khariyan about 5 times :D

  • http://Yellopagespakistan.com Bina

    I wish all the fathers who have daughters think like Shahwar's father and they have his vision. It's all the strength that girls need and the support from theirvparents which makebthem strong enough to coup with such situations. Very good drama something that every girl can learn from it.

  • salman bukhari

    awsum sanam baloch is a good actrest but umera ahmed ka to koi sani he nahi

    • UMAMA

      REALLY I LIKE UMERA AHMED I WANT TO SEE HER

      • Fazal Abbas

        No u can't see her she's religious don't come on screen

  • zahra

    just seen this episode, lovely and awesome drama and i really like the last scene when she is criny in her mother in law lap….and dialogue is gr8 that moment…..that was all in flash back where is mateen now??? shandana is their second child ??

  • awais

    waqat bohat bara marham hai,,,excellent drama..so many golden words in this drama..

    • UMAMA

      YES U R WRITE SO MANY GUD WORDS

      ESP WHN HER FATHR EXPLAIN THE VALUE OF ZERO000

      REALLY I LIKE IT

    • jia

      most of the golden words of of durr-e-shahwar's dad!

  • subah

    rula hi diya mujhey apney abbu buaht yaad arahey hain ajj kash merey abu zinda hutey tu may be wo bhi merey liye aesa hi saya hutey …kash sab ki zindagi susaral mein aesey hi badal jaye is darama ki tarah..crying me crying

    • maryam

      me too ,,i wish i wish i wish

    • UMAMA

      INSHAALLAH BADLY GEE LAKIN AP KO B DURRE SHAWAR JAISA HONA PARHY GA

      SOFT SPOKEN SB KA KHIAL RAKHNY WALI.

      • sadaf

        umama, please Dont give subha a bad advice. If her husband is not a caring person, he will never become one. Whatever happend in this drama does nto happen in real life. Ager insaan bacha apnay huq kay liay naheen roay to maan doodh bhee naheen daiti. Aurtain apni poori zindagi sacrifice ker daiti hain phir bhee husband aur susral kabhi realize naheen kertay

      • Hina

        uffff khudaya kia bahas ha…jab kisi maslay ka hal na milay to islam say help lay lo…simple is that…..or Hazoor e pak SAW k zamany main kitni aurto'n nay khud talaq li….kitny husbands (including sahabi) nay khud talaq di cuz they were not happy…..kion hmari society ney es bat ko "ACHA" qarar day dia k life ko miserable bana k sacrifice krty raho jab ek solution mojood ha….phir hmari society ka masla ha k talaq yafta ki shadi kasay ho….

        soft spoken hona chahye her ek ko, infact harsh bolna or dil dukhana gunah ha…. lakin zulm bardasht karna pp per farz nahi ha….

    • Honey B

      I am sorry dear ! but real main ZINDAGHI nahi badalti ! BAYHISS LOOG BAHISS HI REHTAY HAIN…

  • Honey B

    Durre Shahwar was not a good name for this drama … I think the better choice was " ABBA AAP THEEKH KEHTAY THAY" :)

    • sobia

      hahahahahaha LMAO

    • jia

      lol!haha

    • Fazal Abbas

      hahahahhahahhA

      Uffffff aapne to hasa Ke lotpot kar diya

      ABBA AAP THEEK KEHTE HAIN

      LOL

  • http://facebook sheeba

    mere abbu ki buhut sari batain shehwaar k abbu se milti hai n m sure that is why ma abi tuk apne ghar ma basi hoi ho n inshaAllah agay b raho ge ameen very heart touching drama

  • saiqa

    no words to say just awesome drama…………

  • gulnur

    excellent ,,all generations of women can relate to this ,my geatgrandmother,grandmother,mother,khalas,and sister, all have lived through situations true ..must be part of syllabus in o levels,,

  • jia

    Is their son gonna die….coz shandana is their only daughter….i actually didn't watch the first episode so i don't know what they talked about mateen in the first episode.Anyway i just wanted to say that this drama is by far one of the best dramas i have ever watched after dastaan and humsafar.Every woman should see this.Hats off to the cast!

    • hina

      Shandana is their only daughter, that doesn't mean that they don't have a son. Their son lives abroad. And u are right they talked abt him i the first episode.

      • jia

        oh their son lives abroad!lol i didnt even know that :D…..thanx for telling!

  • ayesha farhan

    fantastic drama….

  • http://Dramasonline.com Aysha

    Main app ka ek khat so so baar parhti hoon :( i was crying

    • saba

      me 2……:(

  • hiba

    OMG, last scene :))

    Tears in my eyes. Bashak ghar larkai he basati hai aur ussay totanay se bachaati hai.

    Recently got married and It was good time to watch such a beautiful drama.

    Special thanks to Umaira Ahmad,I am sure,you'll be such a nice daughter in law n a wife.

  • maryam

    just out clas. awesome, golden episode of the drama, next would be brilliant too :D loved it alot, learned very nice lessons. hoping for the best for my home :)

  • Noor Raza

    Outstanding dialogue n story….I'm loving n learning alotttttt….bless u umera Ahmed

  • Aryaan

    Greart, just awesome.. thanks for upload Admin :)

  • Umber

    Shewar told fazeelat "parwah kerwanay main maheenay aur saal lag jatay hain". Ager aisa hee hay to bivi ko husband kee parwarh phelay din say kyuon hoti hay?? husband ko maheenay aur saal kyuon naheen lagtay apnay aap ko manwanay kay liay???

    • stunned

      When a woman says to a man, why don't you love me? He replies, I work hard all day and face the problems of the world so that I can feed and shelter you, and even then you ask me that why don't I love you.

      Men and women are indeed very different. To them, the meaning of love is extremely different. Man thinks that he has the right to his wife's love, and his wife is duty-bound to give him that love. While a woman always thinks it is her duty to love, regardless of whether she gets two words of love in return or not.

      I am so thankful to Allah Almighty that he has given me a husband who loves me more than his own life. I don't have my mother's patience, and I couldn't survive with a man like my father.

      • sana

        what do u say when men stop caring? the things you mentioned here are all duties of men , thats the only thing he does make money..what do u think the women who sits at home does nothing?? if a man could do her duties for few days then he will learn what work is.. nowadays so many women work outside homes, jobs…still they are treated like dirt, men expect the same what they will otherwise…women are romantic creature as men are visual.. she needs to be appreciated and loved or something inside her dies that he can never revive.

        • Faraz

          itni emotional baten lay kr beth gayi ho tm log..or koi kaam nhi hai..faarigh log…

        • stunned

          But that's it sana. A woman's perspective is different than a man's. Men would never be able to do what a woman can … not because they are less capable … but they are just not made like that. I don't know why women are treated like dirt. What went wrong and where in history.

    • GHAZALA

      Because its a male dominating society.

  • sadaf

    Whatever happend in this drama does not happen in real life. I have seen men who have never acknoledged their wife's sacrifice till they died. Ihsaash kernay walay insaan ko phelay din say ihsaas hota hay. Aur jis insaan kay under ihsaas na ho, you can never ever change that person to a conderate person.

    • sunabil

      You are right…..ap bilkul theek kah rahi ho sadaf….lekin ye duniya hai….this is not ultimate place to live….waqt guzar jata hai chahay acha ho ya bura…..ye sirf examination hall hai…u hav ur paper n ur husband has its own….ap k sabar ka imtehaan hai…..ya tu sabar karo us ghar mai reh kar ya phir elahda ho jao…mushkil to dono tarah hai….dono tarah ap ka test hai….khushi ki guarantee tu dono tarah koi nahi….Allah dono tarah aazmaata hai kisi say lay kar ore kisi ko day kar…so don't set ur goal that ur husband will acknowledge u…may b he never do so…set ur goal to "Raazi" Allah…apki neeyat saaf ho gi, amal acha ho ga tu phal zaroore milay ga …..is duniya mai nahi tu agli duniya mai….ore usi ki kamyaabi asal kaamyabi hai….

    • sana

      haan yeh sahi hey, insaan ki nature nahien badalti…yeh tu susral ki thori bohat takleef dikhye gyae hey aurtien tu bohat buri zindagi guzarti hien atleast uska shohar sakht mizaj tha, magar loofer aur ghtya tu nahien tha jesa aksar hota hey, loog kameeney pan ki had chotey hien, bahwoun ko zinda dargoor ker detey hien sari omer key lye.

  • Quickfireee

    Is next episode the last episode ???

  • sadaf

    Her larki ko shewar kee tarah sabar ka phul naheen milta.sehwar ney siraf 2 sal kay liya sabar kiya pakistan main larkiya sari zindagi sabar karti hain our phir bhi end acha nahi hota

    • saba

      agreed.or jis saas ki koi apni beti na ho wo sas kabhi bahu ka dukh nhi smjhti..n na hi mnsoor k jese koi husbnd apni wife ka dukh smjhta he…aese wife n bahu ki zndgi intazare lahasil bn jati he…………

      • Muddy

        Allah ne hr problem k ly solution rkha hy…agr ksi ki koi nand nhi tu Allah aur bht se tareeqo se sas aur husband pr ye zahir kr deta hy k wo ghlat hn..phr wo una zameer he hota hy jisko wo chuppi lagaty hn…EGO

  • Hashimalik

    no doet zaberdast this episode humtv salam

  • Habib R Athar

    UK men rehtay hoe, apni family buht yaad aati hy. Is dramay nay tu bilkul rula diya. Men apni wife ko ab phone krta hoon. uska haal chaal poochta hoon. Uski hansti hoe awaz mujhay buht achi lgti hy. Is DRAMA nay mujhay apni BV k buht qareeb kr diya hy. UMERA Ahmad — rightly you are ALLAMA RASHID UL KHAIREE

    • pak5394

      u needed a drama to call ur wife…nice yet disgusting!

      Anyways as the saying goes "ghar ka bhoola laut aye to usay bhoola nahi kehtay:P

      Good for ur married life

    • SID

      Apni wife ko apne paas bula lain aap bhi :)

  • tanya

    its great to see the old ptv actress TASNEEM KAUSAR after a long time.

    • Kala Bhoot

      Mein to bachpan se dekhta aa raha hoon Tasneem Kausaer ko….abhi tak wesi ki wesi hi hain…. itni achi aur senior actress hain lekin pata nahi kiyun inn ko baray roles kiyun nahi miltay.

      • tanya

        I also used to watch her since childhood, she was always good in her every role of old ptv dramas.7Yeah u r right. from start until now she is trapped in lesser important characters.

  • AMINA

    mujhay ye episode dakh kay apna time yad aa gea or main bohat bohat roe keon kay jab meray husband nay be mare care karne shuro ke the tab jo meray jazbat thay words main bean nahi kar sakteee ,bolay tum akale khana nahi banao ge bhabi be hain gher pay woh be sath mil kay kam karain to mera moon herat say khula ka khula he reh gea tha kay ye kea in ko mare parwa kasay honay lage ,or aik din bolay kam ho gay saray koe reh to nahi gea yad kar loo kahen galte say to ajj meray pass aa kay nahi bath gaen or mare hansee nikal gae un ke shakal dakh kay ……….,or pher aik dafa letter aea main to khushi say pagal he ho gae theee or jis din mujhay kaha gea ao tum be phone sun lo to khushi kay maray moon say ilfaz he gaib ho gay thay kay ajj muj say bat karain gay soooooo main to apnay past main chale gae the i love drama

    • Somi

      That is pathetic…you are happy that you were "given permission to listen to your husbands phone. What a terrible life

    • NC

      Seems like this play is your life story. So glad the tide changed.May u always be happy

  • Sabeen

    I am in love with this drama from the first episode. Its a good lesson for all parents and married girls. Haissam Hussain, i salute you for making another masterpiece after dastaan. All the actors have done a great job. My favorite character is safiya fantastically played by Saba Faisal.

    • Fauzia

      However did you all notice that inspite of the fact that Shewar thought that she would not care if she lived with Mansoor or not, as soon as Mansoor started paying attention to her, such as remembering her birthday and kidding with her, she melted. A woman craves attention and love and the one person she craves it from is her husband and father of her children. Indeed her father's role was a exemplary and we should all take lesson from it…..

  • saba

    Did everybody notice what shewar told her mom about moving with Manssor? It did not matter to her anymore if she lives with him or with inlaws. I think there is nothing worse for a MAN (Mansoor) when it DOES NOT MATTER for his WOMAN (shewar) whether she lives with him or not. Ager us kay dil main apnay husband kay saath rehnay kee kuaish hee naheen to baqi married zindagi main reh kia gaya???

    • Somi

      I agree with you saba, aik mard kay liay is say ziada sharm kee baat aur koi naheen kay us kee bivi ko us kay saath rehnay ya na rhenay say koi farq na paray. Jo mard aurat kay in jazbaat say mehroom ho gaya…he is the biggest looser of the world

      • I am guilty

        I am one of that murd :(

        • Muddy

          bring the change now at least…be a real man :)

    • Jaasim

      fazool bakwaas…whats your age..so immature thoughts

      • soni

        Jasim, I am 51 years old. Have been there and done that. Mark my words, if you treat your wife life mansoor treated shewar, you will alwyas be deprived of her TRUE love and respect. On surface, she will show she is happy becuae she wont have any other option, but she will never ever ever forget what you did to her.

    • Jaasim

      Did you notice that inspite of the fact that Shewar thought that she would not care if she lived with Mansoor or not, as soon as Mansoor started paying attention to her, such as remembering her birthday and kidding with her, she melted. A woman craves attention and love and the one person she craves it from is her husband and father of her children. Indeed her father’s role was a exemplary and we should all take lesson from it………

  • Aysha

    If I was Shewar, I would refuse to go with Mansoor to Karachi. Then he would have realized what he did. Kia her aurat ko apnay husband kee love/care hasil kernay kay liay phelay us kay gher waloun kee ghulami kerni chayey??? why does a husband have to do NOTHING to get his wife's love and care?

    • Jaasim

      You are sick, you seem to be having personality disorder….you better consult a psychologist..

    • anam

      aysha aap mai negetivity boht ziada hai… zarf bara karain apna. sara drama guzr gaya aap ko samajh nahe aaye.. aap aik hi baat lay kay usay ghisti raheen. aap toh apnay ird gird kisi ko maaf nahe kerti hon gi. itni sakhti! you are difficult. itnay comments perhay mainay aap kay. behes bara'iy behes kay ilawa koi talent nahe hai aap mai. aurat yeh kyun aurat woh kyun!! yeh feminism bara boring sa topic bun gaya hai. mardon kay bhe boht boht kuch hota hai. is drama mai jo baat samjhanay ki koshish ki gaye hai, woh toh samajh lain.

      • Hina

        Anum i dont think Ayesha is wrong, when Allah says men and women are equal in rights then why only women has to suffer? drama is very nice, teaches a good lesson but i think everyone here is forgetting about hundreds of Bahusss burnt to death in susral and husband proudly goes for second marriage. not every husband realizes like mansoor, there is husbands who behave with wives worse than that even after their parents pass away, cuz they never learned to respect that woman in their lives.i know a woman whos life was worse than DES in susral and hell poverty, she gave birth to 11 children of that man, and now he divorced her in her old age and married another one while that woman is worrying about the marriage of her daughters.

        • Mehr

          I agree and was the first one to rebel against this Hinduistic ideology!-"doli gayee hai toa artii ayegi"..yuck!!

          women are themselves trying to burn themselves or burn other women even those who want to uplift them. I guess they have gone back to days of "kaafirs of Arabia"

      • Aysha

        Anam, have you read a recent report by Reuters (please check on the internet if you haven’t checked yet) that paksitan is #3 in the world on the list of most dangerous countries for women in world (Afghanistan #1 and Congo #2). What pains me the most that instead of using the media to bring awareness about women’s physical and mental abuse, we are talking about praising women who are tolerating that abuse. Maray hoay ko kia marna??? Pakistan kee 90% aurtain majboor hian aur emotional abuse ka victim hain. But we don’t want to talk about it. What percentage of Pakistani women do you think file for divorce? 5%? 10%? We want to teach lesson of patience to those 5% thru media but don’t want to talk about rest of the 95% who are suffering.

        • Mehr

          Thumbs up Ayesha at least there is someone here who has the intellect and self respect to think like a woman and not like some human bondage_i bet most won't even understand what this meant. I wish are women realize they have the power to be loved and respected without being sacrificed. They think so low of themslves and are brain washed into all this BS which really makes me puke. Durre shehwar's dads cannot exist in todays age of porn/womanising/cheating and fraud. Also when will we finally give up the HINDU RIWAJ of "doli gayee toa arthi ayegi". Whats wrong with everyone.

  • Somi

    A husband has to to do NOTHING to earn his wife's love/care/respect. It just comes in a plate for him. And a wife has to sacrifive EVERYTHING to "EARN" her husband's love/care and respect. Why is that???

    • khadijah

      har ek k sath aisa nae hota baz jagon par yeh sab mardon ko sehna hota hai

      • Anum

        Exactly , we have generalised everything and if someone disagree you say ,you are a minority ,I don't think so we should be able to see positive in life too as shown in drama my eldest sister life was hell after shadi husband was even worse than susral she used to say like Shahwar that things are always difficult after shadi but alhamdolillah me and my other sister saw different situation I can understand the pain of girls like DeS but its not true that everybody faces zulm and stuff

  • shaz

    Just finished the Kleenez box (tissues) itna rolaya aur baqi tissues say nose saaf ki

    Allah sab bachiz ko sabar aur har haal mai shukar karnay ka hosla dai aur is dunia aur akhrat mai jaza dai (ameen)

    Beautiful drama, all down to each and every individual connected to the show

    Bravo

  • adeeba

    CREDIT GOES TO POSITIV APPROCH OF SEHWAR'FATHER AND MOTHER .THEY PLAY A VERY POSITIVE ROLE IN ORDER TO SETTLE DOWN SEHWARE .SEHWAR WAS A VERY GOOD DAUGTER ,,SHE ALWAYS ACTED UPON HER FATHER'S ADVICES …

    • Syeda Mehwish Batool

      every daughter should be like shehwaar…..

  • Naheed

    Could not watch.The recording is so bad.Dissapointed.

    • Kala Bhoot

      Its recording is excellent. I do not know why you can not watch it.

  • Crazy -fan

    what an amazing episode seriously the last scene was awesome!! Umera Ahmed you are the besttttttttt……

  • Kala Bhoot

    itni lambi raat k baad akhir subha ho hi gayee….so nice:)

    • Anum

      I am that there are no mixed feelings about this episode everyone is happy :)

  • Saira K.

    Hats off to Umera Ahmed & Haissam Hussain for bringing this beautiful story to us.

  • shahana waseem

    Goooood, shawar ke khidmat, mhanat or qhurbani raiga nahi gai. bohat hi achi khani hay kaash sari saasoun ko bahuonwon ke khidmatay or qhurbaniyan nazar aayen.

  • Mona

    last scene was made me cry…suparb drama suparb cast…hats off to the team of DUR-E-SHAHWAR :)

    • evil2d

      zayada mat rona plzzz:) q k mujy rotay hoey chehray achy ni lgty

  • soni

    I dont think anyone in shewars home should be happy if mansoor wants to take her with him. Kuon chahay ga ka aik muft ka ghulam jo din raat malkuon kee khidmat kerta hay wo chala jaay :)

  • Soma

    Congratulations on reinforcing all the gender-roles that have relegated women to second class citizens.

    Aurat ghar bannati hai, aur sambhal thi hai. Wah bhai,inta kuch kar saktee magar zulm ke khilaaf awaaz nahi uttha saktee.

  • sidrah mobeen

    this is the best drama i have ever seen…. the story isnt only heart touching but also the best lesson for today s generation….. success comes to those who know how to compromise n sacrifice …. girls should learn lesson from comparing fazeelat and shehwar s role in the drama

  • Sara

    We all should appreciate the character of shahwar's father. In this episode how he covers the weakness of mansoor . Every girl after marraige face difference of opinion and enviorment but the parents are the back up and support not like safia encourging fazilat . I have seen and experienced it in my life . May allah blessed my parents

    • salman

      Durra e Shahwar drama is one of the best drama I have ever seen. Awards should be showered on it. The story, dialogues, charectors everthing is excellent. Moreover, the drama exposes the exploitation of newly married women by our society in the name of false traditions and against modern teachings of Islam. Roles of fathers have been truly emphasised to be a produent and calm in handling family issues………………..

    • Mehr

      Really?? huh so much for all ignorant women. Durres father was a fool because in todays age a mansoor would either be watching porn in Kharian or wooing other women. These stories are freakin non existing these days. .

      Also maybe Mansoor was actually a nice guy but Fathers like Durre shehwars dads these days should be killed because they want to follow the HINDU RIWAJ of "DOLI gayee hai toa ARTI ayegi"..ts shameful how we are proud of it. Dramas should show parents bringing their daughters home to protect them and then they being happily remarried-for a change!! Why not make the men for once for just once realize that this can happen too.!!

  • salman

    Durra e Shahwar drama is one of the best drama I have ever seen. Awards should be showered on it. The story, dialogues, charectors everthing is excellent. Moreover, the drama exposes the exploitation of newly married women by our society in the name of false traditions and against modern teachings of Islam. Roles of fathers have been truly emphasised to be a produent and calm in handling family issues…………

  • http://facebook.com/salmanbangash salman

    Durra e Shahwar drama is one of the best drama I have ever seen. Awards should be showered on it. The story, dialogues, charectors everthing is excellent. Moreover, the drama exposes the exploitation of newly married women by our society in the name of false traditions and against modern teachings of Islam. Roles of fathers have been truly emphasised to be a produent and calm in handling family issues…….

    • farah sadiq

      Writer, Director & actors….. all should be given awards.

  • http://facebook.com/salmanbangash salman

    We all should appreciate the character of shahwar’s father. In this episode how he covers the weakness of mansoor . Every girl after marraige face difference of opinion and enviorment but the parents are the back up and support not like safia encourging fazilat . I have seen and experienced it in my life . May allah blessed my parents

    • amna a

      yes we yehi ek samajhdar walidain k nishaaani hai

  • evil2d

    aik toh mujay larkeon ki samjh nai aati………….rona toh etni jaldi start kar deti hain jesay doctor unko injection denay ki baat kar raha hai…..hadd hai yar….

    • Kanwal

      tum pe guzrey to tumein pta chaley

      • evil2d

        kanwal jee hamko yahan se lesson sekhna chahey na k beth ky rona start kr dena chahey….Baki rahi baatguzarny wali to I PRAY K KABHI KISI PR AESI NOBAT NA AYE Allah bachaey sabko estrah k halat se Ameen!

    • Anum

      Lolz….bitter but true

  • Kiran_ottawa

    Finaly Dur e Sheewar's hard work pays off… waqat her cheez ko theek krdeta hai …

    Jese iss manssor ko smajh agayi I hope kay asy bhut say aur mansoor bhi sudhar jayen Takay bhut si DES azeeat say bach jayen =)…

    Hats Off to UMERA Ahmead …can't believe this marvelous play is soming to it's end next week :((…I will miss Saturday evenings now

  • ayesha farhan

    shahwar father was rigth Waqt badalta hai last secne made me cry

    realy for today's episode no words superb awsome….Hats off to the team

  • amna a

    aoa abbba ko dekh kar mujhe apny abba nazar aty hain.wo bhi aisy hi mujhe mery har masly me advice karty hain.sanam ur performance is very gud in drama aur mansooor k abbba ka character bhi bohat acha hai hatts offf to the entire team.

  • eman

    waoooo awsum …itna sabar krnay k bad phal mila her husbnd was looking at her aktions while taking permission but thing is k itnaaaaaa sabar krna mushkil boht hota hai …

  • ayesha farhan

    shahwar father was right Waqt badlata hai.today episode made me cry

    hats of to the team

  • nada

    shahwar father was right Waqt badalta hai.last scene made me cry i saw thar scene many time.every dialogue is a golden words.espcially shahwar father dialogues r golden words.Hats of to the team of DURR-E-SHAHWAR

  • http://www.dramasonline.com Rabia

    Superb drama,classic story,great actors all together amazing dur-e-shehwar

  • Er.Pervez

    Very good drama & now perhaps close to end.It has confirmed that "history repeats itself".At least the advanced period is more conscious about family solidarity , relations & liberalism.That old traditional shyness of "bahus" is seldom existing.Saas & bahus are more or less living as good friends now.Age old ignorance which has absolutely no relation with religion is vanishing & this is because of literacy.

    • http://none Rainbow

      @ER.Pervez . Me totally agree with u , that History repeats itself , actually today's generation lacks patience ,sumtimes we never admit or accept what our elders advice us .actually slowly and gradually we are getting away from our tradition ,there is amalgamation of all cultures, which is taking us away from our traditional values.And da most important is we are less inclined towards our religion .

      • Er.Pervez

        @ RAINBOW–You are absolutely right.The generation of today lacks many good things which are the root causes of self generated troubles.If the basic cause is propounded,the origin lies, in ignorance about religion,superstition & illiteracy.–The lesson imparting story of this drama has comparatively attracted large viewership not only in PAK but here in our country as well.Apparently it has touched the tender vein of my all viewer sisters who could not avoid to submit comments thus giving vent to their emotions.It is only upto my sisters to learn the lesson under the perspective they like & choose .YES-about the male gender to which i belong ,i still hold the opinion that before marriage they should be firm and capable of maintaining a balanced relation between their respective wives & parents.No scope to ignore any side & if unable –better for them to join the third gender then. PS: @ RAINBOW,–i also liked your important remark about our less inclination towards Religion.This is really unfortunate.Every one has to learn & learn until death. HUSNI SALOQUE with parents , simultaneous respectful behavior with wife & justifiable look after, are mandatory for a married Muslim youth.AND RELIGION IS THE BEST GUIDE . THANKS.

  • http://none nada

    today's episode was epic episode.

  • summiya latif

    what an outstanding dramaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • Shumaila Noreen

    I think the drama is not stop here.Now Shehwar will be saas her son Mateen's wife and see how she will acts in this role and It will her real exam…..

    • Anum

      I think she mentioned grandchildren in first episode too she is a saas too

  • summiya latif

    what an outstanding dramaaaaaaaaaaaaaa i got emotional in last part

    • Syeda Mehwish Batool

      that was the best scene in whole episode… every women shud love that..3>

      • muneeb

        mee too

  • http://www.superclassintl.com ABIRA SALEEM

    dramma is fantasteek

  • shahana waseem

    last seen dhakney say dill nahi bhar raha, jitni dafa dhakte hun itna hi rona araha hay ye haqeeqat hay k khamoshi op mhanet say pather say pather dill ko bhu naram kia jasakta hay, asi larkiyon ko salam hay.

    • Anna

      very true,,,lerki apni khidmat sy he husband ka dil jeet skti hy,,koi khobsurti,koi churiyan sajna sanwara kam nhe ata agay ja kr,,sirf aik khidmat he hy jo kisi k dil mei ghur kr skti hy!

  • SAIMA SADAQAT

    Its superb drama with a great story.i must we should recive the message of this drama,there is a phase after getting married nothing happend so filmy after u become wife great expectations r ther from the girl love this drama

  • Osama

    i love this drama what a brilliant story and outstanding acting by Sanam Baloch and Nadia Jamil

  • pak5394

    What an episode! no words can truly describe it.Superb acting, direction, editing, lighting, dialogues…..tears are still rolling down my cheeks…HUM TV has again uplifted the standards for television dramas !Every youngster be it a girl or boy should watch it!

  • soni

    Masnssor armay main that is liay shewar 2 saal kay baad alag ho gai. Jo lakray maaan baap kay saath rehtay hain, kia un kee beevian saari umer susral waluon kee khidmat aur ghulami main guzar daiti hain???

    • anam

      nahe.. bilkul nahe.. agar saath rehta aur usay ehsaas huwa apni biwi ka toh woh us ki aasani kay liay kuch na kuch kerta. koi maid rakh daita. hifza ko kehta help out kernay kay liay. shahwar ko proper time daita. etc etc… susral kay saath rehnay mai kya burai hai? agar woh realize ker lain kay un ka salook acha hona chahiay toh kya masla hai?

      • Soni

        And if sural does not realize??? then what??? I am 42 yaers old. I have seen many many many women who spent their entire life like shewar, aur kisi ko un kee qurbani ka ihsaas naheen hoa

        • anam

          maioif and buts ka na koi end ha na solution… kya hota agar mansoor ko kabhe ehsaas na hota? kya hota agar mansoor saath toh lay jata magar wahan aur bhe bura salook kerta? mainai inlaws kay saath rehnay ka jawab dia hai… inlaws kay saath rehnay mai kuch burai nahe hai..

  • Nazia

    dramay ka yeh episode dekh kar pata nahi kyun itni khushi horahi hai jaise sach mein sab kuch theek hogaya ho…dil ko ek sukoon feel hoaraha hai…

  • Ramzan Mehar

    Yeah episode itni emotional thi k koi b insaan khud ko ronay say nahi rok sakta tha is main kuch scene asay jo kisi b insaan k dill ko jhanjoor saktay hain jasa k Durre shahwa ka apnay baap say phone pr khat likhnay ka kehna prnay parhany kay ilfaz jo inho nay boly or manzoor say apni tareef sunna or last pr jab apni saas ki tangoo kay saath lipt kr rona or b bohat kuch tha magar insaan agar in say zara sa b learn krnay ki kosish kray to buray say boray halaat say b laar sakta hay amazing sabb log bohat khobsurti say apnay kirdar ko nibha rahay. Main Hum Tv ka bohat ziyada shukar guzar hoon kay wonay drama main reality ko show krtay hain kuch b banavti nahi hota. Very good and excellent Work

  • http://none nada

    SHAHWAR FATHER WAS RIGHT WAQT BADALTA HAI.GOLDEN WORDS FROM HER FATHER.REALY IT WAS VERY HEART TOUCHING EPISODE.HATS OF TO THE TEAM N SANAM BALOCH SUPERB ACTING.

  • anam

    AIK BOHT ZAROORI BAAT. YEH DRAMA SAB HI DAIKH RAHAY HAIN. THIS COMMENT IS FOR ALL THE IN LAWS. SIRF APNI BAHU-ON KO YEH DRAMA NA DIKHAIN. KHUD BHE IS SAY KUCH SEEKHAIN. AGAR IN LAWS IS SAY LEARN KARAIN AUR SAMJHAIN KAY LERKION KO KITNI TAKLEEF HOTI HAI TOH HALAAT THEEK HONAY MAI ZIADA DAIR NA LAGAY. NEW GENERATION KAY LIAY TOH SABAQ HAI IS MAI MAGAR PARENTS AUR IN LAWS KAY LIAY BHE HAI. DURR E SHAHWAR WASNT ONLY ABOUT A GIRL'S STRUGGLE.

  • Yasmeen

    Gone are the days when we needed bahu like Dur e shahwar. We women must stand up and fight for our rights and be outspoken. Bahu should not keep quite and wait to see Waqat Batai Ga. This is 21 century instead of listening to the criticism of Saas one should give a taunting reply to her so next time she should think twice before saying any thing.

    • http://none nada

      YOU R RIGHT A WOMEN SHOULD STAND UP AND FIGHT FOR HER RIGHTS BUT THERE MANY WAYS TO STAND UP N FIGHT,JUST BEING OUTSPOKEN IS NOT WAY,JUST BEING SILENT N HAVING PATEINCE IS ALSO THE WAY WE CAN GET OUR RIGHTS.THIS 21ST CENTURY N EVERY GIRL OF THIS CENTURY SHOULD WATCH THIS DRAMA SO THAT THEY WILL KNOW WHAT IS THE MEANING OF COMPROMISING N HAVING PATEINCE.YASMEEN AS U SAID THIS IS 21ST CENTURY AND THE GIRLS SHOULD BO OUTSPOKEN N GIVE A TAUNTING REPLY.THE GIRLS WHO DO THIS THEY DON'T HAVE RESPECT IN THIER INLAWS I HAVE LISTEN A LOT THE GIRLS WHO DO THIS.AB YE 21ST CENTUARY HN YA 31ST CENTURY SAAS AUR BAHU KA NATURE KABI CHANGE NAHI HOSAKTA.

    • Mehwish Ahmed.

      har problem ghusay or larai or taunting se nahi jeeti jati .sabar ka phal bht metha hota hai or payar muhabbat se har chez izat k sath hasil ki jasakty hai na k ghusay or karway lehjay se i believe agr ap k sath koi bura karay ap us k sath bura na karo warna ap main n us main koi farq baqi nai rehega .ek din usko khud ehsas hoga apnay rawaye ga apnay attitude ka ..ye 21st century nai lakin hamri soch postive honi chaye har century main hamara ikhlaq acha hona chaye har century main ajj ham acha karain gay kal hamaray sath acha hoga chahay log kitnay bure hon but ap ko apna character acha rakhna hai yehi har century k maa baap sikhatay hain..main koi itni old nai just 23 n meray ma baap ne b ek saal pehlay meri shadi kartay waqt yehi sikahya..my story is v similar to shahwar story bt i compromise alot thts y things r changing kabhi kabi yaqeeen nai ata k stonehearted log change b ho saktay hain thoray se. it brings tears sometimes :,( ..

    • Soni

      I am 42 years old and have been married for 22 years. I totaly agree with yasmeen. In shewars case everyone realized her sacrifices, but in real life IT DOES NOT HAPPEN. kisi ka zulm bardasht kernay main koi azmat naheen. zulm kernay aur bardasht keray wala donuon zalim hain. shaadi is name of compromise but that compormise comes from both side. one sided sacrifices dont mean relationship. And a man like mansoor never ever ever able to experince true love of a woman. He has killed her emotions and in real life, a man can never revive a woman like shewar. She will pretend she is happy, but us kay dil main aik kanta hamaisha kay liay chuba rehta hay.

  • adiba

    humsafar larkiyon ne fawad ke wajah se kia aur larkon ne mahira ke wajah ae aur baqe jo bach gye thy unho ne drama song sun kar drama pasand kiya aur kise so story ache lag gae……. dure shehwar is better than humsafar in real sense….. best drama after mzzbn and janat se nikale hue aurat……. 1 more thing the chracter of dure shewar ,s fater was so amazing and the the pillars of this beautiful story, without him, there was notting 2 see in the drama….. this drama has taught not only girls but also the parents of daughters who didnot let their daughters to bent to save their houses…evey father should be like the father of dure shewar…….

    • anam

      and husbands and inlaws? nothing for them? unhon nay kya learn kia? her durr e shahwar ki feelings ka ehsaas kerna learn kia? i hope aap jab saas ya nand bun jaen toh aisi na hon jaisi durr e shahwar kay inlaws hain. i hope aap learn kerain kuch.

  • Kauser

    Such a beautiful episode that shows how important patience and kindness even in the face of extreme cruelty pays off. It also reveals the sacrifices that so many women make for their marriage to survive and how a successful, happy marriage while seemingly perfect is built when a woman overcomes hardship with patience and humility. A lesson that many of us forget today.

  • biya

    ye shahwar ki ami har waqt biryani hi banati hen

    hot debat what you think :-)

  • Soni

    I am 42 years old and have been married for 22 years. In shewars case everyone realized her sacrifices, but in real life IT DOES NOT HAPPEN. kisi ka zulm bardasht kernay main koi azmat naheen. zulm kernay aur bardasht keray wala donuon zalim hain. shaadi is name of compromise but that compormise comes from both side. one sided sacrifices dont mean relationship. And a man like mansoor never ever ever able to experince true love of a woman. He has killed shewars emotions and in real life, a man can never revive a woman like shewar. She will pretend she is happy with him , but us kay dil main aik kanta hamaisha kay liay chuba rehta hay

    • fatima

      apne apko sacrifice karne ka koi faida nai coz fr da one u r doing it fr,will neva realise n neva accept.zindagi 1 dafa hi milti hai.aakhir mein aurat sirf repent karti hai if she is sacrifising

  • afia k

    nice

  • sarah

    it is just an amazingggggggggggggggggggggggg amazinggggggggggggggggggggggg daramaaaaaaaaaaa/…… love every 1 who acted in this serial ….sub ki bohat achi acting hai saas , bahoo susar …

    the best best n best drama ….shewaar ke father se bohat kuch seekhne ko mila that is amazinggggggggggggggg

  • Amer

    every girl should watch this drama especially the young married girls who are pumped by their mothers to get a divorse over small issues. Girl, this is marriage and in marriage you have to adjust and learn. This is not a bollywood movie, where your hsuband will be like shahruk khan or ahkay kumar.

    • Maheen

      and every man should learn how NOT to treat his wife after marriage from Mansoor

      • Soni

        Maheen, why would guys take any lesson from mansoor??? whatever mansoor did, he did not suffer for his mistakes. he is still enjoying shewars company in his old age…there would have been a lesson for guys if they had shown that a guys like mansoor who does not take care of his wife's emotions, desires also suffer…afsoos say khena parta hay kay mansoor nay jo bhee shewar kay saath kia, us ka anjaam acha hee dikhaya gaya hay.

    • Soni

      Pakistan kee larkyan to already buhut majboor hain, 99% larkyuon kay paas sabar kay ilawa koi raasta naheen hota…un kee ego ko her qadam per kuchla jata hay, phir un kay liay yey sabaq kyon dia ja raha hay kay apnay aap ko qurbaan ker do, apni sab desires ko maar do, apnay emotions ka qatal ker do, apni hasti ko mita do, aur isy main azmat hay, aur shaadi isi tarah bachai ja sakti hay. Will there be any drama where there is a lesson for a guy how to save his marriage??? or any lesson for a guy jis nay apni bivi kee qadar naheen kee aur us ka anjaam acha naheen hoa??? or all the pakistani guys are angels???

  • Yasmeen

    It is said that Husband is the head of the family, but remember that wife is the Neck of the family and the Neck can turn the Head exactly the way she wants.

  • Shaista

    1: kia saas, susar, nand aur dewar kee khidmat kerna bahu ka farz hay???

    2:Kia saas susar kee khidmat kiay baghair aik bivi shoher kay dil main jagah naheen bana sakti???

    3: kia her larki ko apnay shoher kee muhabat panay kay liay, apnay aap ko, apni kuhaishat ko, apnay jazbaat ko maar dalna parta hay???

    3:kia shoher ko bhee bivi kay dil main jaga bananay kay liay koi qurbani daini perti hay???

    • Azher

      Lesson for every girl, its is your duty to do your inlaws khidmat. That is the ONLY way you can earn love of your husband. This drama is teaching you how to sacrifice. Every girl should be selfless like shewar. She should not be thinking about what SHE wants. She should always be thinking about what she can do to make her husband and inlaws happy.. A woman should never ever complain of her situation or raise her voice for her “so called” rights. Remeber that she is INFERIOR to her husband. if she wants to save her marriage, even she is not allowed to live with your husband (or talk to him over the ph),she should never complain about it.

      • fatima

        u r insane.why dunt u guys keep maids in yr houses to look after yr parents,u got only one lesson frn dis drama,didnt u see jo doosro ki beitiyon k saath jo karte hein,jab apne aagey aata hai tou bari takleef hoti hai.apki mothers jab apne in.laws ki complaints karti hein tab tou u ppl take their sides.

    • Me

      Don't worry about that.. not all sons r like Mansoor.. he is one in a million.. not a perfect husband but definitely a loyal son. Most of the man treat their wives million times better than their moms.. as if they were the ones who gave them birth and brought them up.. sick.. but true.. don't know about Pakistan .. but where I live husbands r slaves and wives r queen … everyone is complaining about what a heartless husband Mansoor is but how many of you can see the perfect son in him ?

      • Mehr

        Really whats so sick about men treating their wives better?? Their moms can be treated nicely by their own husbands why do they want to sleep with their sons??Is that what it is?/ Ninety percent of the perfect sons are being good sons only to pursue certain vices that they may have such as prostitution, bisexualism and other crimes. they come home act nice to their parents and the parents who will burn in hell support their sons only so that the sons don't go their ives. Nauzabillah. Such parents will burn in hell!!–Child abusing mothers should be hung till death!!

        • Me

          Now what u r saying is really sick.. I wud have puked on ur face if u were infront of me ( mean no offence but that's just how I feel right now..)You don't even know the difference between a mother's love and the love of a wife.. shame… nomother ever want to sleep with their own sons..( don't know about the mothers u know ).. and I wonder if u did a survey to check what 90% of good sons do behind their mother's back.. (-__-;) btw I'm not talking about a incest gay prositute here.. I'm talking about a MOTHER . Sick is when they love and treat their wives "million" times better than the woman who gave birth to them who has sacrificed her life for them.. sick r those men who misbehave and disrespect their own mothers for the sake of their wives.. they should keep the balance … love & respect both of them .. their mothers more..

      • Mehr

        Why MOTHERS can’t be child abusers. Ofcourse there are women out there who sexually or mentally abuse their sons and yeah women should expect most from their own “husbands” not only from their freakin sons. And yeah is some son decides to treat his mother really bad than thats wrong too. But in no way is a wife’s love comparable to a mothers and so should never ever be compared.Most of the times some freak frustrated women have problems with sons going to their wives__Yuck now that is sexual frustration and really really sick. respect is different than being extra possesive about your son just because he is the opposite sex. IF not then why are not such women as possesive about their daughters. Why why thos sick expectation only from the child of the opposite gender. Crappy filthy women!

  • me

    wht the hell! apke website te pr dramas theek tarha chalte kyn

    nai chalte ruk ruk kr mushkil se chalte han aur ap isko high quality kehte han

  • sami

    they shud repeat this drama every year to save our family values. just awsome drama and a big hit. even more than hamsafar.

    • Aysha

      have you read a recent report by Reuters (please check on the internet if you haven’t checked yet) that paksitan is #3 in the world on the list of most dangerous countries for women in world (Afghanistan #1 and Congo #2). What pains me the most that instead of using the media to bring awareness about womens' physical and mental abuse, we are talking about praising women who are tolerating that abuse. Maray hoay ko kia marna??? Pakistan kee 90% aurtain majboor hian aur emotional abuse ka victim hain. But we don’t want to talk about it. What percentage of Pakistani women do you think file for divorce? 5%? 10%? We want to teach lesson to those 5% thru media but don’t want to talk about rest of the 95% who are suffering.

      • Mehr

        All mothers who sexually, mentally or otherwise ABUSE their sons should be hung in public. This is indicative of severe mental issues and should seek treatment. Also they should seek attention from their own husbands instead of looking towards their sons because it is a sin to look at your son in that manner. That is the reason women should go to hell because they take out their sexual frustration in this manner.God help them.

  • nadia

    The best wife is she;

    1. Who considers attending her husband as her foremost duty.

    2. Who never leaves any requirement of her husband unfulfilled.

    Who appreciates the merits of her husband and neglects his demerits.

    4. Who takes pains in comforting her husband.

    5. Who does not put any demand before her husband that is beyond his capacity and leads a life of contentment.

    6. Who never looks at strange and unknown men nor allows them to look at her.

    7. Who lives in Pardah and keeps her chastity safe.

    8. Who safeguards the wealth, the property and other belongings of her husband including herself.

    9. Who proves her dedication to her husband by sacrificing everything to salvage her husband from any calamity.

    10. Who keeps patience over the atrocities inflicted to her by her husband.

    11. Who is looked upon respectfully both in her father's house and in her husband's house.

    12. Who is humble and kind to the neighbors and whose humility everyone appreciates.

    13. Who carries out her religious duties with punctuality and fulfills the rights of the Creator and creatures.

    14. Who tolerates with cool mind the bitterness of the members of her husband's family.

    15. Who first feeds the other members of the house and eats herself in the last.

    • Batool

      Most of the qualities mentioned above are right however these are only duties to become good wife…. But i will like to add more thing that this is a mutual relationship that is it all depends on give and take. there are certain duties of Husband in this relationship which should be given with more dedication then the wife.

    • Er.Pervez

      @ NADIA–Amazed to read your very nice comments.You must be wonderful & innocent.ALLAH bless you!!.YOu have set tough conditions for a poor wife to be entitled with a "BEST WIFE AWARD".I guess in this advanced age,possession of all these qualities seems a little difficult for a good girl to have them in totto.Relaxation is indeed needed.Don't you agree that males also need to have some portion of these qualities? The after marriage relation demands & warrants both side compromise.Husband has never to forget that first step of sacrifice has been made by his wife by leaving her paternal home,parents,her close kins like brothers & sisters & now time is to be allowed to her for adjusting in the new environment.During that period maximum care,affection, love & fondness are needed to be shown to her to make the adjustment easy for the bride.No doubt,Allah has bestowed upon the women the necessary acumen for adoption,but 'love & care' is a catalyst factor in this process.Parents of the groom have as well to adopt to new thinking for good leaving old bad traditions & egoistic mannerisms far behind .They have to strictly avoid double standard of behavior-one for their sons, daughters & second for bahus.A groom devoid of maintaining or failing in development of a balanced relation between his parents & spouse are responsible for an eventual failure of marriage & thus become a cause of misery to both house holds.In short every concerned in the marriage have to believe in politeness,mercy,righteousness,high degree of tolerance & exemplary demonstration of love for the bride/bahu.Last i need to quote one sentence of a nice reply to my comment by one of a worthy viewer "RAINBOW" who well said that deviation of inclination towards Religion is one of the basic factors of Saas-Bahu quarrel menace.I earnestly wish ALLAH gives us better sense, prudence,tolerance & civilization so that Muslims become a role model. THANKS

      • http://none Rainbow

        @Er.Pervez , I acknowledge your nice reply with thanks, i would like to add here regarding @NADIA'S comments too , no doubt she came up with logic points.But according to my point of view both men & women need to fulfill their duties , we cannot heap it to only one person , and to be a successful person one need to follow the sunnah , as a father , need to go through the seerath of Our beloved Holy Prophet (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam) , and same goes for a girl , mother & wife to follow the Seerath of Hazrat Aisha The life of Hazrat Aisha (Radhiyallahu-Anha) is proof that a woman can be far more learned than men and that she can be the teacher of scholars and experts. Her life is also proof that the same woman can be totally feminine and be a source of pleasure, joy and comfort to her husband.

        May Almighty Allah make the men & women of today act upon the life of Prophet (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam)& of Hazrat Aisha (Radhiyallahu-Anha). Ameen.

        • Er.Pervez

          Thanks,your good reply has nicely elaborated & completed my comment.

      • nadia

        Rasool Allah SAW Said, When a husband and wife look at each other with Love, Allah looks at both with Mercy. (Bukhari)

      • nadia

        Our society is hypocrite. We love to watch Dur e Shahwar on the screen but we don't want adopt those qualities. Above I have given all the qualities of Shshwar as a best wife but people have also clicked dislike. Quaid e Azam had said " If you don't know to obey you don't how to command" and that is the main problem with us that when a woman is Bahu she does not obey her Saas therefore she does not know how to command.

        • Aysha

          who told you that a good wife has to feed rest of the faimly firs and eat last? and who told you taht it is wife's farz to obey her saas??? it is her husband's responsibility to take care of his parents and do their khidmat. Bahu per saas/susar kee khidmat ka kaheen per bhee hukam naheen hay. Us per sirf APNAY parents kee khidmat farz hay

        • Mehru

          I agree Ayshah this is a pure "hindu" concept . This girl Nadia clearly has self respect issues. I don't want to bring religion in because then everyone will choose what they like or dislike to quote. But ONE thing for sure I have not read ANYTHING about "bahus" being servants of their inlaws either in the life histories of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) or in the life of Hazrat Fatima. Infact when Hazrat Fatima was to be married to Hazrat Ali, Rassol Allah asked Hazrat Ali if he had his own place. So shame on this crazy crazy girl who really needs treatment. And yes one more thing the word "OBEY" is only for Allah…

    • Hina

      U sholud tell abt duties of men also and as a good husband what they have to do.:)

      In pakistan we told girls how we have to obey ur husband at ny case aur husband bhi wife ko apnay say inferior sumghta hay jub kay jitnay app superior utni responsibilities.

      We have to educate man to how to treat ur wife respectfully ,through islamic teaching .

      And this is best way what hazrat mohammad PBUH did with his wife.

      Thankyou

    • Honey B

      NO way !

  • saba

    excellent drama, best direction and acting… I was wondering, Shahwar has a baby boy mateen , but in early episodes they had shown Shandana as her daughter … confused :S she has 2 children ?

  • Aysha

    Has anyone in paksitan read a recent report by Reuters (please check on the internet if you haven’t checked yet) that paksitan is #3 in the world on the list of most dangerous countries for women in world (Afghanistan #1 and Congo #2). What pains me the most that instead of using the media to bring awareness about women’s physical and mental abuse, we are talking about praising women who are tolerating that abuse. Maray hoay ko kia marna??? Pakistan kee 90% aurtain majboor hian aur emotional abuse ka victim hain. But we don’t want to talk about it. What percentage of Pakistani women do you think file for divorce? 5%? 10%? We want to teach lesson of patience to those 5% thru media but don’t want to talk about rest of the 95% who are suffering.

    • Mehr

      I couldn't agree more with you about sacrificing women. What crap and yes there are soo many women out there who are soo happy and noone sacrifices them. This novel and this dramas theme sucked big time. Women can earn love without being sacrificed and tortured.This is a really crappy though process which needs to be nipped in the blood. This Umera Ahmed has also succumbed to money minting and so is getting less sensitive about the rights of women since she wants her novels to sell. Shame on her!

    • Er.Pervez

      Really shocking.We were having nice & romantic ideas about this country which observing these conditions are getting dashed to ground.It is still time for people to mend ways & learn tolerance otherwise Allah's wrath & punishment shall befall in full God forbid.Any Nation where women are not respected & instead exploited,can not survive for long.Remember this country of yours was created on some Name. Dramas are after all based on fiction,& these should be far off from real truth.If ground truth is being revealed,then ALLAH-HAFIZ HO APKA.

  • qurat ul ain

    yeh her waqat khaty kyun rehty hain ;p

  • Aysha

    Has anyone read hina's comments below?

    "everyone here is forgetting about hundreds of Bahusss burnt to death in susral and husband proudly goes for second marriage. not every husband realizes like mansoor, there is husbands who behave with wives worse than that even after their parents pass away, cuz they never learned to respect that woman in their lives.i know a woman whos life was worse than DES in susral and hell poverty, she gave birth to 11 children of that man, and now he divorced her in her old age and married another one while that woman is worrying about the marriage of her daughters."

  • infinity

    This is one of the most aaamaazziiinngggg dramas ever aired on television.
    We have a lot of lessons to learn. It shows how a relationship of a newly wed couple faces different troubles and then blossoms into a loving life. Lets not forget that in this case Dur-e-Shewar is the one who sacrifices to make the marriage work, but sacrifices have to come from both partners, husband and wife. It is equally important for husband to take care of the wife and love her.
    Many of the ladies are commenting here, how cruel the husbands are, but fail to understand that there are many husbands who treat their wives as a queen. Marriage is also a test for husbands where they have to keep the wife as well as his family and in-laws happy. Thus he should adopt a balanced approach towards any issues and try to solve the matters justly rather than taking sides.
    The in-laws should keep in mind that bahu is a new member of the family and not a servant. They should give her responsibilities which she can bear. On the other hand bahu should try to fulfill these responsibilities with utmost happiness.
    This also shows that the role of parents can be like that of a mentor and savior of a couples marriage.

    • Mehr

      Thats what I was trying to tell them . Umera Ahmed needs to realize the responsibility of sending the right message across and paying more attention to what the people might deduce and consider "right" or "wrong". Also what she fails to show is that these days ninety percent of the men and women are disloyal. Nowadays some men in Mansoor's shoes may stay away purposely so as to sleep with other women. Times have changed now. Marriage used to be full of charm back in the day. Now because of the porn/hypocritical ideologies/lies/cheating/deceit its not easy to act like Durre Shehwar. It was not very well portrayed and should have sent out a more realistic message!

  • hira soni

    awsummmm dramaahmed wrot

  • tayybah

    amazing darama best direction.no fantisy in theis darma dis is the reality of life which many girls faced after marriage but i do'nt know why women scrifice every stage of her life ….. i wish mens understand how to keep our wife in his family….islam khta ha aurat pr shadi ka baad ous ka sohar ka haqooq farz hain na ka sohar ke family ka aur agr wo sohar ke family ka khyal rakhti ha tu ya ous ka apna sohar pr ahsaan ha

    • Haniya

      lol u knw waht m also married and aj kal k husband kia khty hain k bety k ly sab c bari zeme dari uski mothr hai islam mai aur wife k ly uska husband..

      i jz want to ask k agr bati apni ami ki respct kery ya un c piyar kry kia yh guha hai??????????????

  • nadia

    Most of the problems arise from joint family system. I have a few questions regarding it.

    1) What is your opinion about Joint Family Systems?

    2) Do you think its right for the wife to demand her Privacy from her husband?

    3) Do you think the husband and wife can stay happier if they live seperately and not in a Joint family?

    4) Do you think the wife have to sacrifice alot if living in a joint family system?

    5) What does Islam say about Joint Family?

    6) What do you think a wife should do if she is not happy in Joint family and want to live seperatly with her husband but the husband doesnt agree?

    Please give your opinions!

    • Rubina

      I was living in joint family with my husband for the last 1 year but now I am living in a separate house because of some domestic reasons. My husband ordered me just to do his personal work and not of his brothers. Secondly my mother in law always interfered into our personal matters and quarreled on minor issues. My mother in law wanted me to obey her and not to obey my husband. At last for the peace of mind my husband decided to live separately. I want to ask did we do anything wrong?

      • Rubab

        please keep ur freakin' personal problems to urself ,,,this place is only to comment on drama ,, not on ur poor self. y do u need our advise ,, how do u even think ppl here r sincere to u. your condition is obvious from "getting ORDERS" from hubby or freakin' mom-in-watever-law

    • Mia

      Most of the problems arise from joint family system. I have a few questions regarding it.

      1) What is your opinion about Joint Family Systems?

      Joint family system is no doubt a main cause of all the problems, but I think we can still work with joint family system if everybody mind thief own business. The main thing that I,ve noticed is mother in laws can't accept that their son is married now and he has somebody else to take care of also…2nd , it's mother in laws house she can't share that authority with bahu. She always wana be a number one lady of the house as soon as she see that she's doing a great job with everything..she starting to feel insecure like bahu is gonna steal my position in the house ( or at least I,ve experience that ). 3rd, solution: if you really wana work with joint family system, just from the day one set some boundaries (i didn't do that) that I will not come between you n your son you will not interfere between me and my husband. Apart from sharing the responsibilities you will not interfere with what I do what I feed my child or what my child should wear n stuff like that…just mind your own business..that's the best solution.

      2) Do you think its right for the wife to demand her Privacy from her husband?

      Ok..so that's exactly right. Quran says lots of stuff abt parents and wife…so of course it's man,s responsibility to deal with both..but as far as behen  bhai concerns they come very late …first right parents 2nd wife 3rd kids…then siblings n all…so always try to balance in first two. N yes if wife need privacy it's her right and she's not wrong…but also if a man can't manage to live separately.. Just clearly sit with them and make some boundaries ..so bth can be happy…which is hard of course :)

      3) Do you think the husband and wife can stay happier if they live seperately and not in a Joint family?

      Yes and no…As I said if join family is supportive and do t interfere with you n your husband or kids matter,..it's the ideal system to live in as your child learn the values of having a family and relationships. In most joint family cases I saw the person who suffers the most is a man…cant leave the wife can't leave the parents..so ladies dont put this much  pressure on your hubbys or sons that he can't decide..try to be lenient n calm…and if it's too much to tolerate then of course separation is the solution. Another thing I felt all the happiest couple I see live separately but I m confuse how to demand a son to leave their parents..this thought kinda scares me…what do u think?

      4) Do you think the wife have to sacrifice alot if living in a joint family system?

      Of course first of all privacy. Then mental stress. If her life is a living hell how would she concentrate on her or her husband and kids,..I think the wives who live separate are more productive and active than those who live with jobt family system…as she has lot more to do to think..then focusing on kids n hubby..n this way hubby get away form her …and another problems arise.

      5) What does Islam say about Joint Family?

      I really don't know…but I heard lots of stories about hazrat ismaeel and hazrat mohammed pbuh… None of those stories gave any kinda idea that they used to live in a joint family. But also many verses shows that in last age your parents need u more than ever…, I also heard on qtv…that it's son,s responsibility to take care of their parents not their wives if she does it it's ehsaann on husband, she's not obliged to…u can't force her to do so…as man expect to their wo se to do everything for their parents..it's wrong ..if they wana do it they should do it..,…kinda confuse here…

      6) What do you think a wife should do if she is not happy in Joint family and want to live seperatly with her husband but the husband doesnt agree?

      I am still trying to figure that out will share as soon as I find out ..btw, just to let you now I was 19 when I got married..n it's been 10 years I am living with them…

      Good luck n good night ladies.. :)

    • Rubab

      ALL LEADING QUESTIONS (IN LEGAL LANGUAGE) … means you do not like the joint family living but u want to hear it from others to pacify your ego & subconscious. thats how you have framed your questions — psycho !!!

  • Aaliyah

    What i learnt from this drama and my experience is that for a wife, married life is a PRETEND PLAY and thats all!

    • Saima

      God created Adam in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. So we can see Adam had a job as soon as he was created, to work the Garden and take care of it. For sure God created the woman to help Adam to one of these two activities related to his work in Eden Garden: work it and take care. If God's intention had been to create a physical helper for Adam in the Garden, undoubtedly He wouldn't have created the woman but somebody much stronger than she was.

      The wife was created for her husband to be the most suitable helper in the spiritual battle. She is the one who knows and feels best the struggles, worries and anxiety her husband goes through. No one can share the happiness or sorrow of her husband deeper than the wife. Nobody can experience the spiritual high or the deep falls of the husband better than his spouse. So who else will God use in a man's life if not his very wife?

  • Mehr

    A shout out to all young girls out there. NO you don't have to take any crap, no you don't have to kill your self, you don't have to get tortured. You have every right as a human being to be loved, respected and adored immensely without spilling your tears and blood. This is not the age when baby girls are buried alive. Tell your fathers to stand by you when you come back home especially if you have had to tolerate mental or physical abuse. And don't be afraid of anything, especially of life. Think positive, even if you get married and God forbid the guy is evil, tell him to go to hell and find another one and tell your parents to stand by you. Since we have to put an end to this HINDU tradition of "doli gayee toa arti ayegi". So those of you who are not married, keep dreaming, keep believing, fairy tales ARE possible and they happen in this very world!!

    • kinza

      no mehr i dnt agree with u fairy tales are jus in the books

      this is the real world aur ye waqt shayad kabhi b na badle

      is zamane me aur guzre har zamane me aurat hi pisi he aur aurat hi pisegi coz this is the men dominating society

      wat all u said is correct but not applicable in our country…..

      and its a bitter truth …..

    • srmb

      are you insane lady as your comments are insane

  • mano

    beautiul lines of drama ……

    aurat ka sab se bara masla ye hai k wo mard ko sab se zayaada buhadur samajti hai us wk bhi jab wo diwaar ki trha ddhay raha hta hai …

    mard or ourat koi bhi zindagi k har kisi maslay pr buhadur nhi rah saktay bohat sari chezeen aysi hoti hn jo hamen kamzor karti hn or kamzor lamhoon mein tasali k do laz bolnay wala dil k bohat kareeb hota hai….

  • Irfan

    Oh

    I am in love with both characters sanam api and her abaa.

  • Mia

    Yeah it’s really common in our society.., every other women is going through same and the worst part is woman is the worst enemy of anther woman…. :s

    I lived 10 years in the same kinda situation. When i got married i was 19 , my husband used to come once a month, right after my wedding he went to another city as he was already workng there…i was newly wed and lived 4 years w/o my husband. After four years he came back…They used to say great things abt me to everyone..but lately means after living with them for 10 years … My husband got a job in another state and also wanted me to move with him,…and they stopped talking to me, start bad dua n all…:( I am so worried and sad..that they are acting so bad as we had a good time… I really treated them like my parents … But as soon as my hubby said she’s goin with me..they were like u said to ur hubby otherwise he would never think to take you…n stuff like that.., I think you can’t make everyone happy…, so now if I think after 10 years of Sabar n respect goes to garbage ….wht lesson shud I give my daughter…? Just do wht u want..don’t care abt anybody else cos in the end they will never support u? Anyways..just wanted to share…

    Night night ladies …

    • aysha

      I totaly agree with you Mia. Compromise is part of married life but it come from both sides. If was is not even allowed to live with the husband, what the point of that marriage?

      According to a recent report by Reuters (please check on the internet if you haven’t checked yet) that paksitan is #3 in the world on the list of most dangerous countries for women in world (Afghanistan #1 and Congo #2). What pains me the most that instead of using the media to bring awareness about women’s physical and mental abuse, we are talking about praising women who are tolerating that abuse. Maray hoay ko kia marna??? Pakistan kee 90% aurtain majboor hian aur emotional abuse ka victim hain. But we don’t want to talk about it. What percentage of Pakistani women do you think file for divorce? 5%? 10%? We want to teach lesson of patience to those 5% thru media but don’t want to talk about rest of the 95% who are suffering

      • parsa

        ayesha u r ri8 bt as a muslim we must follow our Allah n prophet,s teaching…Allah ne sabar krne ki talqeen ki…Quran pak mai Allah farmata ha k mai sabar krne walo k sath hn…Compromise is a type ov sabar..kia hm sabar chor dien..kia hm Quraan pe amal lrna chor dien???

        • Anam

          parsa if you are talking about Islam then the entire point of marriage in Islam is of husband and wife living together. It is a sin to separate husband and wife without any reason. A woman has an obligation to listen to her husband but she a woman in Islam is not responsible for his parents. Son himself is but the woman is not required to live with them. If Allah has given you some rights then why shouldnt we take them? Why only a wife has to be patient while everybody else can be as selfish as possible? I think Mia's husband would also be facing problems living alone and her first responsibility is towards her husband according to islam and she should live with him. I think sabar tab karna chahiye jab aap naik kaam karrahe ho. apne husband se alag reh ke sabar karne ka kia fayda jab Allah husband k saath rehne pe ziada khush hoga?

    • Anam

      If you are talking about Islam then the entire point of marriage in Islam is of husband and wife living together. It is a sin to separate husband and wife without any reason. A woman has an obligation to listen to her husband but she a woman in Islam is not responsible for his parents. Son himself is but the woman is not required to live with them. If Allah has given you some rights then why shouldnt we take them? Why only a wife has to be patient while everybody else can be as selfish as possible? I think Mia’s husband would also be facing problems living alone and her first responsibility is towards her husband according to islam and she should live with him. I think sabar tab karna chahiye jab aap naik kaam karrahe ho. apne husband se alag reh ke sabar karne ka kia fayda jab Allah husband k saath rehne pe ziada khush hoga?

  • rwana jinay

    i luv durr e shehwar drama but there comes its last episode so i didnot feel happy the story was good and realizing that women are better than men in every step of life even mens are also better but women are much better than men

  • rubykhan

    OMG…..i hav got no words to explain my feeling for this drama…i was crying throughout the episode…but last scene…jab uss ki saas uss k liye roti hain…..my God..!! i cried sooo hard…i couldnt breathe…!!!! just luv all the characters…especially sanam…her saas…meekal..n sanam's dad!!!!!!!! the dialogues in this drama….r just amazingg….!!! aisa drama bohut saalon mein dekhne ko milta hai…..beautifully acted by everyone….luv it sooooooo muchh..!!!!!!!! :)))

  • uroojwaseem

    waqt badalta hai aur waqt badal jata hai

  • tehmina

    best drama,khas tor par durre shahwar k baba ki batain bht nasiyat aamoz hain.

  • Mehru

    Those who think its sabar should think again. Sabar is done for Allah's sake. Here sabar is not for Allah's sake but because you are fearing the consequences of living as a divorcee in a non Islamic society, not for obeying Allah. Specially in this story, as Durre Shahwar's parents were able to support her in case of separation. Was she ever able to forgive her husband? If she really could she wouldn't be carrying such an immense grudge in her heart forever.

    Prophet (SAW) allowed Talaaq to women who had least severe excuses than what has been shown and happens in 99% of our society's marriages. But, there is then a perfect Islamic system to look after the divorced woman by the men of the family still whilst not compromising their own wive's rights. In fact the best sadqah has been referred to the money which a father or brother spends on a divorced or widow sister or daughter who comes back to them.

    Allah has given us the perfect family system, but alas in Indo Asia it has been immensely polluted by Hindu culture. There is no concept of joint family system in Islam. A woman is entitled to at least her own kitchen and living area. Even if there is a one room house its has been recommended to do partition and let the wife stay in her own little place. Look at the wisdom behind this and who would know better than the creator what things we are going to fight on.

    Tolerating this type of subjugation for the sake of 'people' and society and calling it Sabar is a misunderstanding. Allah has given women the rights but if she and her parents give society more importance than Allah then they cannot expect reward for that. There needs to be a total overhauling of thinking and unless we start wipping it off our and our children's minds we cannot expect a change in society which is unislamic.

    • Saira

      Assalamu alaikum Mehru,
      I wanted to thank you for making that post and clarifying what Islam truly stands for. Its true that in Islam, there is no concept of the wife doing all the chores, while everyone purposefully sits and relax. That would be injustice. If she chooses to do so for the sake of Allah, that is her ajr for sacrificing for others…just as she would for other people.

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  • Fouzi

    I cried at the last scene!

  • nida

    Is drame main islamic point of view. Koujagar nheen kia gya

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  • huma from uk

    durry shahwar ham sab ki kahani hay jin logon ki aaj say 20 ya 25 sal pehly shadi hoti the who ham tv nay bohot himat kar kay dikha diya ham tv aap ko salam mary bachon ki nazar main mari ezat bar gaei hay thankyou main aaj be bohot hemat say time guzar rahi hon allah app ko har mor par kamiyab kary amin huma from uk

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