This drama is so unrealistic. Misguiding poor girls to dream that they will marry a RICH guy, he will name his property on her name, she will ride in beautiful cars and will live in his mehel type house. I have never seen such shaadis in my life.
On top of that, she is unrealisticaly soooooooooo lucky that once her rich and loving husband dies, her husband’s rich and nice brother gets in love with her….what a BS
he’s so not in love with her honey!!! either don’t watch it or just wait for the story to unfold! he’s only helping her and not in love with her! *spoiler alert* his father is going to make him marry her and he would cause he loved his brother. he doesnt even show up at the house for months but when he sees how rumaisa is being treated he takes her with him and thats where the drama ends. He is NOT in love with her!!
r u serious? that’s going to happen? Oh no!
but they are also showing that…. they get nothing and that people who want a rich guy don’t get a rich guy!
I agree wd u……………….
Umera Ahmad often shows this as in zindagi gulzaar hy too…
At some extent its true, but “zindagi gulzar hay” was still a little better BECAUSE the girl was highly educated, a classmate, and an intelligent civil servant which is a high ranking job. This girl rumesa was just a secretary.
yes u r right but she was ‘aam si shakal’ too and in real life such girls dont get zaroon type guys…
who told you this… i have seen that cases when girls of aam faces got zaroon type boys
yep it happens BUT girl must have some other qualities….when she has other qualities (either family is very rich or she has professional career), shakal becomes secondary factor.
girls do need to focus on higher education and i am a great supporter of women’s education.But these days, beauty or prosperity DOESN’T matter, understanding is what matters. When nabeel saw rumaisa and spent time with her he knew she was the girl he was looking for and she has “the qualities” he wants in a girl be it simplicity or her innocence!
aray meray bhai, nabeel kee class (which is elite class) kay larkuon ko simple, innocent , ghareeb larki naheen chayey hoti hay…they want confident, intelligent and educated girls who can fit into their system
u r very right but this USED TO happen. I am not saying that this doesnt happen anymore but now due to education people worry about understanding and not on the class of a person. in other words people are changing their thinking!
Fatima, At some extent you are right but actually shakal doesnt matter that much as compare to other factors. If she was not an intelligent girl with a very high ranking job, and was just zaroon’s secretary, a boy like zarron would never marry her regardless how beautiful she was. But atleast I have never seen or heard of any such shaadi’s happening. Our girls should focus on their career and education, shakal aam see bhee ho lakin career acha ho to loag izzat kertay hain. Professional career is POWER
best coment ever !!
shakal does matters matters and matters. kehny ko her koi keh daita hai kai shakal mai kai daiknta to her koi sorat hai.but yeh sach nhi hai. sach woi hai jo mai nay abhi onper likha, yeh alag bat ap ko psand nhi aye ga. and by teh way professional carrer ko ap married life say q mela rahi hian ? it means ap indirectly larkiyon ko yeh keh rahi hian kai achi edu lain , ameer larkay melengy. is say to better hai ap yeh keh dain kai unhian kisi boys ke zarorat nhi becase Allah nay unhian b is kabil banaya hai kai wo apny ap ko survie kara sakain. Live by own is good option. taleem kisi rich maksad kai lye belkul hi ghalat bat hai
saqib, either you didnt read my comments or you dont understand english very well. All I said is that girls should not have a parasite mentality and they should be capable enough to take care of themselves (instead of dreaming of a rich guy who will spend all his wealth on them)
Highly agree. you have a clear perspective
its up to priority. ap ko kahsahif achi lagi or wo drama realistic laga. mje wo drama belkul b unrealistic laga. aam c shaklo sorat onnper say larki ka itna ghooror. ager mai kahon kai aisa koi larka hoga nhi jo kashaf type ke larki say shadi kary. khuda ke pana na shakal na sorat , allah say b gilay . wo dreama zaida unrealistic tha.
nop I disagree for the point of marriage .this is our fate .its in my close relatives I have seen so simple ‘normal face girls got married to handsome and highly educated loving husbands .even I m nothing infrontt of my hubby .he has so many qualities but I have nothing ….its true so on that point I can say its so realistic this is our qismat .in this serial Nabeel got married to romesa becas he was fadeup with all kind of artificial girls in his circle and when he saw romesa so he just likes her but when he notice that she is a decent girl (sharif larki) then he was falling in love (same as zaroon)and u know wat its same kind of my story too so for me its vvv realistic this can happen .Nabeel brother will not fall in love with her .they will do the marriage becas of property.Romesa has a clean heart .she is sharif and naik so Allah is helping her in otherway…
by the way girls should have qualities but still in our environment our men are still getting married to just BA passed girls ,its true secondly mostly men don’t likes flirty ‘oversmart and hanging out girls as a wife right hamdolilah we Pakistani still have culture .I have seen so many men(my cousin) who studied in Europe but got married to simple just graduate girls even I asked them they said they want a house wife not a super model so for that point every men have a different mentality …so its realistic story ..
If a boy from middle class family goes abroad and studies, it does not mean he becomes ELITES of pakistan. Those guys do prefer staying home wives. The main thing is difference in the class/family in such marriages is not that huge as it is between nabeel and romaisa. The way they are showing in this drama, he looks like those families are less than top1% poeple of pakistan
If its not surround u it doesnt mean it s not realistic men do get married to poor girls .dil aya ghadhi pe tu pari bhi kia cheez hai .its just a matter of who do u like the most buddy..I have seen this in my life , british born , high class family men got married to simple pakistani girls n still living happily so far lucky girls I can say and secondly ….
So u think so they showing nabeel family is high class ..look at them they r so cheap greedy , lower class people .jin ko naya paisa hath lag gaya werna ander se tu wo log romesa ki family se bhi battar hae.naya naya paisa milney pr bheass badal gaye .cheap mentality people can not b khandani people..
Some how u r rite but dont say its not realistic , its reality the way they r showing ….good luck for the next episode .
meri shadi b ayse hi hwe hai
Practical exmaple hazir hai ab bolain aysha
but i am sure ap ne romesa ki trah bewaqoofi mein phd nhi kr rkhi hogi
Allah ka Shukar hai mere father khud e primary teacher hn but hum sab bachon ko education thek thak apny ikhtyar sy bhar k di or mera rishta bht ashi family mn ho gya by Chance koi love story nhi sei sedi arrange marriage hwe hmari or mn romisa k jesi bevkof b nhi kash mn batikh hoti waly dialog muje nhi aty
hahaha acha g
disagree with u
Where comes the misguiding now? see, tell you one thing very very clearly. It is possible for man to marry a poor girl, but that girl needs to be extra ordinary beauitufl , not a casual one. ab her larki tu khobsorat nhi hoty na. ab ager wo apny ap ko samjty hai tou yeh to phr us ke apni ghalati hai. her kisi ko apny haisyat daik kar khowab b daikny chahye. ager khwab daikny hi hian to apni mehnat waly dakain un ka koi guna nhi.
its realistic…romaisa ki luck thy jo usay nabeel jesa husband mila r yh reality m b hota h…
greedy n slfsh people also exists in our society
I am not sure why people calling this drama unrealistic, the girl like Romesa do exist, not only girl but boys too.. the one who lost his/her family at very young age become like Romesa specially if they got relative like she got..
Whatever Nabeel did before his death “named his property etc” is not even unrealistic too.. he use to love Romesa and knows his family very well..
Any ways i do not like when they show Romesa and Nabeel’s old meeting.. its made drama boring, but over all the story of drama is very strong including characters..
I think the youngest brother of Nabeel gone marry with Romesa?
Girls like Remesa exist and boys like Nabeel also exist. BUT, they dont marry each other. And that poor secretary romesa is so lucky that once her rich husband dies, her husband’s nice brother gets in love with her…its just simple BS
well not really, if we have people like Romesa’s Khala and Nabeel;s family then we have Nabeel and Romesa in this world too.. its our media who show a woman all the time “mazloom” otherwise there are thousands of Nabeel’s out there..
Mr. Muhammad, I am not saying people like nabeel dont exist, they do exist. And they do help poor girls like rumesa out of hamdardi, but it does not mean they marry those girls and then transfer their property on the girl’s name.
In “zindagi guzar hay”, the girl was also poor but she had AT LEAST some qualities. She was educated and was a civil servant which is a high ranking job. But this girl rumesa was just a secretary. If our poor girls want to be someone and earn respect, they need to pay attention to their career and education (like the girl in zindagi qulzar hay). That is the only chance they have.
GIRLS, please dont dream that a rich shezada like nabeel will come and marry you when u are working as his secretary. This is a parasite mentality
I am not saying you are wrong.. if it does not happened around you its not your mistake.. you are right at your point.. while marriage b/w Nabeel and Romesa could count as realistic, but transfer of property is very real and common in upper Middle class of Pakistan…
Indeed girls should not dreamed rich, shehzada type of husband, lakin is ka hergiz matlub yeah nahi kay woh khawab dekhna hi choor dain..
any ways good day (y)
Khuab daikhain gee to real life main kabhee kuch naheen ker sakain gee. Girls can hope for the best but should be prepared for the worst. And they only thing which can make them prepared is education and career. A girl has to be on her feet and should be capable enough to take care of herself financially.
i do agree with you but its all happened if you have a supporting family.. not in case of Romesa
u r the voice of sanilty ms ayesha … spoke my mind … m sick of these dramas showing that good women r the mazloom ones! n that women with lack of confidence and lack of education can attract some1 like nabeel! #UnreasliticDefinitely!
Also I crave for dramas of yester years when women were told to embrace their identity as an independent individual who was equal to a man and was not afraid to demand self respect! now that we have digest writers doing the screenplay, a woman has indeed beeen reduced to a parasite who has no personality, career, or life beyond that of her husband! Also I personally think man like nabeel should not be idealized as he thinks that a perfect wife is some1 who is subservient to a man, doesnt have opinions or knowledge of the world … this can have far reaching affects as this can influence society into thinking that good women are suppose to behave n act in ways n reduces them to only focus on getting married n then expect their husbands to do everything for them. In most plays women are not shown to either fight for their self respect or to come of age and become somebody on their own! #CrapTV
“Girls can hope for the best but should be prepared for the worst”…
very true… nice quote
this is qismat as I mention u above plz read …
but u right girls should have high qualities but don’t say this is not realistic .this type of stories do exist in our life ..
Agree that girls need to do some thing extra ordinary to survive. but as a man i will say civil service job or even intelligence is not a tool to judge a girl. I am sure i won’t need a civil serive high ranking girl. I would need a simple girl as she can. and romaic is a i guess perfect innocent simple girl. Men are attracted to simplicity not the girl education and rank. Edu or rank ka kia karna hai, achar dalengay. sirf woi log aisa krengay jo gar baith kar bewi ke khain.
Saqib baita, we are talking about a guy (zarron)from elite class of pakistan. We are not talking about any ordinary guy who would only want simplicity. the class zaroon was from has different priorities. They want confident and intelligent girls. And same with the guy in this drama. No elite class guy gets married to his secretarty just based on her “simplicity”. They want other things in girls. Yey “simplicity” middle class kay loguon kee demand hoti hay
Elite class boys want valguar and
Elite class boys want vulgar and modern girls to match their life styles. but here iam particulary talking aobut those elsie class boys who are fed up with the environement around their’s. Indeed they want a simple girl. but iam 100% sure elite class boy will never ever marry a girl for her edu or for her rank. what would he do with the rank or hi fi edu by the way?
for elite class, rank is for STATUS, not for money. If she does not have a rank, she has to be from a rich family so they could introduce her in their social circle. When they introduce their wife to someone, they need to say something who she is an individual or which family the girl is from. Also, keep in mind that if a girl is independent, educated and confident , it does nto mean she is vulgar
I didn’t say educated or ranked girl as a vulgar, that word was asscociated with burger bachis or so called upper class girls.
girl parhi likhi na ho to kia har chez ka tutor rakhainge ap? simplicity does matters alot but education b matter karti hai.. han rank ko exclude kia ja sakta hai
agreee, edu means highter edu. jisa kai aeysha nay kaha kai civil mai jaye or officer bany. bai jab larki ko officer banna hai to phr kisi choty moty family kai larkay say shadi kary or sari zindagi usy bechary ko dabati rahay. and i also vote for girls education. jitni possible ho lainy chahye. illiterate ke life useless hoty hai chahy wo girl ho ya boy
love is blind.end of story -_-
nop he will get marry to her becas of property not for love the love will come in the end just see wats gonna happen..
no he will marry bcaz family will force him to, and he will hate her and nabeel ki baiti ko bhi but at the end willfall in love with her
yeah rito ho ap Zeeshan Romesa say shadi karey ga….aur osey realize kareyga
k apney haq k liye larrna chahiye agr aisa nai karogay toh life bht mushkil hojayegi…:)
yes suhana is right….but he wongt marry for this reason…will marry by mere compulsion according to the novel…..but some changes they have mDE FROM NOVEL…HO SAKTA HAI DRAMAY MAIN KUCH CHANGE HO…IN NOVEL THERE WERE SIX BROTHERS AND NO SISTER.NOVEL WAS MORE INTERESTING AND REALISTIC
i disagree with you because the way Romeesa is behaving is very unreal ,even she do not have sense to understand what other people want to say..
no it does not.. majority of Pakistani girls are like this.. just look around … the women of Pakistan does not know their rights does not matter how-much educated they are.. just look around, you will found women like Romeesa.
I have my two cousins, their mother was died last year.. now they are around 12 and 7 year old.. and they are treated like they does not exist..
Where at other end, my Khala was died 7 year ago… her 4 daughter was treated in same way, then my mother adopted them fore 2 year.. teach them about their right.. now they are back to their house and know how to survive in this world!! Romesa did not got this chance..
i do agree with you on this,yeah its true romeesa don not know how to fight for her rights but look at his behaviour the way she answers,you might had remembered when Nabeel used to talk to her she always respond him like the silliest girl in the world,though the talks were very simple and esily understandable but she never behaved like a BA pass educated girl atleast she could had manners how to talk…rite?u agree on this?
“she never behaved like a BA pass educated girl atleast she could had manners how to talk…rite?u agree on this? :
m agree with u ..this question also arises in my mind ..
atleast a BA pass girl must have sense to understand..i have never seen a giRL having a BA degree and still she bears a tag of” ALLAH MIAN KI GAI”
haha,, how does a BA pass educated girl behave? come on.. education does not play any role if you are living in a particular family where no one cares about you, you have no right to talk and speak for your rights..
Last year news thi kay aik high class educated family nay apnay hi ghar ki baho ko jala ker maar dia because she was expecting “girl” whom you are gone blame for this? educated, the society or the things happening at house?
Education could teach you how to be nice or how to pass exams, but not how to get survive in the world.. Jab Insaan Janwar banta hay to Perha likha or Anpaar sab aik barabar..
agreed really mature thoughts.!!!
han sahi bat hai..
good coments muhammad ahmed.i agree with your all coments.
Woo0ww…your mother has done a great job…. :*-)
Because it is unrealistic
If its not happening around you, it does not mean its unrealistic!!
Its a matter of common sense that it is unrealistic
Facts r harder to digest dear. life is not fairy tale. Whatever happened in this drama is a real life nightmare.
I’m confused dear.. U said Nhi manta then manta everything lol …
wo ghalti se likha gya tha..i don’t agree with you..not at all
Na g na ab tu Nhi mana jayega yeh. We won… Yahooooooooooo
its realistic. if its not happening around you so doen’t mean unrealistic .beacs its happened around my relatives .I think u guys didn’t watch properly the director even showed every single part which can tells us y this romesa girl is like this self esteem problem ‘ harsh environment ,nabeel family just greedy people he was fade up with all of artificial people found A NAIVE girl in romesa then got married .he offer romesa to do more study but just couple of month then he died ..romesa back in same khala house .the people who has self esteem problem cannot do anything without any help that’s wat nabeel told her k “mere bagaire tum kuch bhi nahi kr sakhti”.she need some support but she is all alone with surrounding bull dogs.
bkwaas.. main nhi manta
Hellos. Read my comment again dear. I’m agreeing with ur point of view
yups he vl marry her according to novel
yes i have read novel, his younger bro will marry.
i must say this is a very poor drama..believe me the best drama going on air nowadys is pyare Afzal..wow what an Acting what a performance..they are performing brilliantly i am very impressed from pyare Afzal i constantly watch that drama yesterday and then the whole night…i used to watch this drama with impatient heart before but this is turning to be very unreal..same was the case with zindagi gulzar ha,starting episodes were more better and as the drams kept going it became worst and worst…
I SECOND U
Woww.. you find This drama to be unrealistic where they are showing greed and materialism but you do not find pyaray afzal to be unreal where two girsl fromr espectable family bought a guy to play love love with them. What utter crap logic you have there!!!
I agree with u
*Episode Kaisa hay Guyzzz*….May nay nai dayka abi…?
kind of slow… lots of talk and little action
jab ye log flash backs dekhaty hain tou mjhy romaisa pa bohat tars ata hai kabi kabi aik lamha lgta hai insan ki zinagi badalny ma bitter reality of life;(
yes mujhey bhi bhot rona ata hai .khuda kisi larki ko aisa gham na dekhaye ,wese nabeel ko mrna nahi chye tha .he was the main character aand hero .uski waja se drama bhot acha tha maza bhi araha tha shoro ki episodes mai .b slow ho gya hai .
ameen i wish hum sub larkiyn k naseeb bohat achy hoon or hamesha khush rahy esa dukh kisi ko na milay…!!!!
Agar Romaisa ki shaadi Zeeshan se ho jaye to theek rahay gaa.
Don’t worry Buffelo ji…aisa he hoga varna dramey ka the end kaisa hoga,,,)
Hayeeee meri buffalo
becharay sajid mein kya burai hay
us ka nikah qun torwa rahi hain?hahahaha
mujhe nahin lagta k ab ye drama chale ga q k hiro hi mar gaya hai…………..]
dsraa heroo abhee zinda hee jee
Drama tou or zyada intrstinng ho gya h nabeel ki death k baad, vrna to machliyon or sitaron pr he ruk gya tha. bt no improvement in sanam’s acting. it’s so irritating..
The whole point the writer is trying to make with the fairy tale like characters (Cinderella = Romesa) here is how people are greedy and try to manipulate the situation to get what they want. Romesa is merely a character in the story to touch base a more sensitive topic here.. which is blinding greed for material possessions , status and property etc.
mera to dil bhi nai krta ye drama daikhne ko fzoooooooooooool lgta hai…..boring story
hey hey thats not unrealistic i have seen like this situations many times and girls like romaisa are also exist in this world unluckily u never seen this situation
Hasan jaisa wahshi insan may nay aj tha nai deyka…ufffffffffff mujey toh wahshat hothi hay…
ek bv ko toh sambal nai saktha chala hay dosri shadi karney…arey pahley khud ko toh dako
tm ho kya cheez…..*Nice Episode with Romesa Slow Actng*….ab wait hay k zeeshan aur romesa ke shadi hojaye…
Aur dramey ka happy Endng hojaye wrna yeh romesa ithni bechari bn bn k mar jayegi yrrrrr..:(
This drama is just OK …. thank god I decided to watch bashar momin ….. boring episode of muhabat subh ka sitara ki
this drama truly protraits the evil face of materlistic and emotionless society
Romessa ke shaddi zeshaan se ho ge tou zeeshan ke first wife ka kia ho ga,I think zeshaan dono ko he apne sath rekhy ga..!machliyon or sitaron ka zikar khetum!
Guys these types of stories are written by human. Our real life stories are written by ALLAH. So, don’t compare it with real life stories. Every person in the world have not same nature. All these things are depend on nature.
jin ka koi nhi hota un ka khuda hota h.very nice drama
yup u got it that’s wat umera ahmed showing us in this story..
nabeel ki MAA to sahi tipical sas bnai hoi h.
esi mother in laws humaray muashray k taqreebaban her ghr mein pai jati hein.
ALLAH g Romesa u r so sweeeeet..ufff itne innocent
Umera’s script can never be bad OR wrong.
why? she is an angel?
awesome episode aur ye jo flash backs hain na in se drama interesting hai aur rahee gaa werna drama boring hai hmmm ,nabeel aur romessa ki baaten jaise b hain lekin qabil e tareef hain aur in ka again and again repaeat hone se hi drama achaa lagta ,aur farah shah,ss acting zabardast …………aur es drama main sb se barri film hassan sahab hain ,,,hahahah
adhurii baat hai lekin …….
mera kehna zaruri hai …..
k meri saans chalne ko ,,,,
tera jeena zaruri hai ,,,,,,,
ye dil betaab rehta hai ,,,,,
tera milna zaruri hai ,,,,,
nazar meri tarastti hai ..
magar tum jo ijazat do …
to chndd lafzo mai keh daluun
k tum bin mar to sakte hain
tum bin jee nahi sakte,,,,,,,,,
Hajoom mein tha, woh khul kar na ro saka ho ga,
Magar yakeen hai ke shab bhar na so saka ho ga..
I think romesa ki beti hogi novel me b uski beti hoti hai jis ka nam maham hota hai…
love this drama. but the story is not moving on. the feud over property that started from episode 1 should be over, but it is keep going on. All actors and actresses are doing fantastic job.
are there people in here who watch dramas via this website from USA? Just wondering. dont lie!
si. mi mucho fan of esta drama.
Can someone who has read the novel please tell me whether Zeeshan will still be married to Rabiyya or not when he marries Romaisa?
in novel when he marry to romaisa then rabiyaa left him , though he got marry with romaisa in the pressure of his father cz he is not willing to do that……..!!!!
Thank you, but does rabiyya leave after zeeshan married romaisa or before romaisa marries zeeshan?
she leave him when she knows that he’s going to marry her…!!!that’s novel story lets see how they amends it …
Umera Ahmad and Sakina Samo… no words no words… i’ve no words…
nyc drama umaira ahmed gr8 writer
zindgi gulxar was guite a realistic drama
really good drama,but this episode was boring…
don’t worry jab zeeshan ke shadi Romes say hogi.. toh
drama phir say apni asli halat may ajayega ok..jst wait nd watch
i just don’t want to see the part of drama in which romesa is talking or thinking. total crap. she should atleast act so that viewers can feel sympathy for her. she should be innocent but not foolish. dialogue delivery is soooo irritating. moreover romesa type character should be performed by very young girl of maximum 20 not 30 sorry to say.
this drama is superb & nabeel soooooooo beautiful & caring husbnd in this drama romesa is sooooooo cute & innocent i love soooooooooooooooo much this drama
romesa ko property na miley to acha hay warna khala manhoos cheen lay gi
lovely episode yaar
roomaisa ki shadi police waly se ho gi..
hum tv dramas goes with the same theme ……..like previous they had theme that man was stuck between two ladies ………..now they have theme ka shohar ko mar do aur biwi bechare musloom ban jaye ……….almost ever drama on air nowadays are based on this theme………….PATHETIC
Jab tak nabeel zinda tha tu mae ne is dramay ki hr episode 10 times watch ki thi but since they made him die i only watch once .so sad for nabeel i m missing him more then romesa .
Romaisa n nabeels scenes are the centre of the whole drama…….n of course Romaisa would be reminded of his love for her after his death….
nabeel kay marnay ka duk sirif romesa , zeeshan aur zeeshan ki finace ko hay baqi kisi ko bhee nahe hay
i hate everyone in this drama except romesa and zeeshan and uss ki finace and nabeel kay abbo thats it
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