Na Kaho Tum Mere Nahin Episode 12 in High Quality – 7th January 2013

dua

lol scene 19.07 mein fone ki wire hi nai lagi hoi .. phr mehru ne kaise bat ki :P

Nadia Ahmed

mard say ziada aurat hi aurat ki dushman hay, may neechay commnt karnay wali aurton ki bat nahe manti, mehru or meerab aik achi life guzar rahay thay jab tak maya un ki life may nahe aee. meerab shuroo say aisa nahe tha or ab bhe meerab doosri shadi karnay kay liye maya kay office may nahe aya tha, actually maya ki neeyat kharab thi, sab log drama ki story ko nazar andaz kar kay personal life ko beech may laa rahay ho

sheg

i totally agree u dear MARD AURAT KA DUSHMAN NAI AURAT AURAT KE DUSHMAN H, JB B EK AURAT BRBAD HOTI H 90% USKE ZMEDAR EK AURAT HOTI H
Aysha

Nadia, we cant blam Maya for whats happening. There are many bad men and women out there.
If a man is involved with a married woman, and that married woman leaves her husaband for her or treats her hssand bad (jsut like Meerub is treating Mehru badly becuase of Maya), then who would you blame? would you blame that man or the woman who is leaving her husabnd? In that case, you would say, kitni buri aurat hay aik aadmi kee wajha say apnay shoher ko chore dia…the man never gets the blame what happens. If a man goes to heera mandi, everyone will blame heera mandi's women instead of blaming that man
- Sumamah
  
  there is big difference btw going to someone by yr self and someone coming to u

Sara

Love. U saba

Nyla

He does'nt desreve Mehru,not worth it selfish through & through. I'll be happy when Meerab, his children and Bano Apa live with Maya. Allah's punishment for them. Mehru 'll've a better life with her job and without a husband.

sceniglamorifableurhypnosa

I guess Mehru sirf wakti meherbanian ker rahi hay meerab ki bano apa per phir jab meerub haasil hojaaiga mehru say ziada badtameezi kerray gi and misunderstandings between bano apa and meerub kay beech kay and ispar meerub pachtaay ga

Abad

Mehru made a major mistake by not carrying a dicta phone in her purse while she was working at Maya's house. She should have recorded her communication with Maya – and that would have been enough to make Meerab walk out of Maya's office. An honourable man never tolerates insults towards the womenfolk of his family. Mehru is his wife and therefore Meerab was bound to react against Maya on listening to the denigrating tone/and words with which she constantly addressed his wife! Lesson for all women: be evidence oriented in your life!

Aysha

Mr Abad, husband/wife relationship is based on trust, not evidence.
- Abad
  
  Mohtarma, if so… then I believe the nikah should also be based on trust – rather than witnesses!
- Maheen
  
  true, but Meerab is an idiot and defends everyone but his wife. So evidence or not, he would support Maya either way.

busybunny

to 'mom of Ryan'
Ma'am I respectfully disagree with you, Mehru did not do it for money, she did it to provide better life to her kids which was not possible with Merub's income(since he spends most of his income for his 'Bano Apaa'….and now their expenses are so high that they both have to work to meet the standards. Merub is not stupid that he doesn't understand why Madam Maya is showering so mush 'maya' on him….he mistreated his wife so several occasions….it's okay for him to spend so much time with Maya on all the levels but not okay for his wife to bring her boss to her house with her family around…did not even have the courtesy to ask why the guy was here…he is cheap and treats his wife as shit….atleast you being a woman should understand the pain for Mehru, I know I did.

hira

<3

ahmad

ecellent play keep it up saba and ahsan

sadaf

many people considers Mehru on fault and comments that she should compromise and a women should always give her right but why? and that she has a rude attitude she must change her behaviour but dont you pplz saw the drama from start, she from the very start helps her husband by doing job and also looks after her home and children and wat Meearb does always take care of only his sister and his house is not his first priority and why not should Mehru complaint b/c she is doing double job for better living standard not to taking care of her( mufta khaney waley susral) and by the way she is right b/c Meearab's sister is not a Haqdar of any help b/c they are not trying to earn some thing by themselves but just to drag money from her brother that is totally wrong and in case of Maya, Mehru is also right she being the women feels and better understands the intention of any other women towards her husband so its very natural for her to become rude when her husband is giving response to their old friend. Here all the fault is of Meearb and Mehru is totally right b/c its not a metter of any single day issue but very slowly point to point she became kile this b/c her husband didn't give her any right and apace in his life and he never considers any right of his wife in front of his bano aapa and Maya.

Aysha

Dear Readers, It brought tears in my eyes when Meerab told Mehru:
"Main mard houn, main maya say doosri shaadi bhee ker sakta houn"

I am wondering, Is that why Islam gave right of multiple wives to men so they could use it against women and threaten them???

Islam gave that right to men to protect widow women with orphan kids. It is not for men's ayashi and it should not be used as a tool to threaten women.

Nida

Aysha if u have problem with polygamy y u watch only those type of dramas. y r nt folowing maya, cindrella, mera pehla pyaar, mein gunahgar nahi, kahi unkahi. u always give comments undr , na kaho tum mere nahi, bari apa, madiha maliha,
- Aysha
  
  Nida, Ask a question to yourself, "Do I want polygmous marriage for myself"? If answer is "NO" then you are a hypocrate becuase u are ok with other women living in polygmous relationship but not for yourself. If your answer is "YES", then I wish and pray that your husband is polygamous, has 3 more wives and u live with all of them "happily" ever after
- Nida
  
  Ayesha i wont reply u bak cuz i don wana start another war. just 1 question.. r u really a muslim???? or ahmadi or something like that?
- Aysha
  
  Nida, I have put my answer below
- Hiba
  
  That was a good one Nida, you must have noticed in the last week's episode of na kaho tum mere nahin comment's that there were a couple of people who bashed Aysha so badly that she had to hide her face in a corner for a few days, she did not have the guts to reply to all those people she was against!!!!!!!!!!
- Aysha
  
  Hiba, I thought bad men are real enemy of women but I was wrong. IT IS WOMEN LIKE YOU WHO ARE REAL ENEMY OF OTHER WOMEN. You are a disgrace for women gender, or may be you are a male and hiding under a female name
- Aysha
  
  Hiba, Also,Those men were bashing me for speaking up for women's rights, and you are happy that they were insulting a woman who is speaking for women??? Shame on you being a woman. Shame on you
- Hiba
  
  Oh really your speaking up for women's right huh? the women's coming on the net know they rights without you telling them……in last weeks na kaho tum mere nahin comment's Noori advised you that you should leave your luxuries life in the states and go to Pakistan with your husband and children and do your so called social work in the rural areas of Pakistan it might make a difference to the womenhood there, did you follow her advise? i guess not bcz people like you can only talk in the comfort of your house so get of your backside and do something for the women's rather than just saying that i'm fighting for women's rights and like Noori said ACTION SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS…..and for your kind information i'm a women and there were'nt just men bashing you there were women's to and finally you were being bashed for your wrong thoughts and NOT BCZ YOUR A WOMEN SO GET THAT CRYSTAL CLEAR IN YOUR HEAD and one more thing your calling me a disgrace ever thought about what you are?
- Aysha
  
  Miss Hiba, so if someone who is not in pakistan and doing her/his jihad thru pen to bring awareness, should that person be bashed and disrespected??? I definitely DO have plans to come to Pakistan. My kids are born and raised here. Their country is US, not Pakistan. Why should I bring them to a counry which is not their home. Pakistan is my homeland, not theirs. Once they are on their feet and my responsibilites as a mother are fulfiled, I will InsAllah come to Pakistan. And if I am able to save even one woman from torture/suffering, I would consider that goal of my life is achived. Right now all I can do is spend my money to send as much girls as possible within my means , to school and use my pen to bring awareness AND THATS WHAT I AM DOING. And being a woman, u can do one thing to, you can atleast support other women who are working or speaking up for womens rights instead of BASHING THEM.
- Hiba
  
  Oh come on Aysha don't play games with yourself…….you and i know very well that you have no intention of going there not now not ever just to prove yourself right thats why your saying that you will becoming to Pakistan, why make excuses of children huh you have said this yourself that your an old lady and your children are grown ups so they really don't need their mamma besides them all the time!!!!!!!!!!!!! and whats with the double standards huh,your saying to other women's that they should work leaving their children with a carer so they can be independent so why is there a different rule for you huh? and for yourself u want to stay beside your own children until they stand on they own feet huh u want to fulfill the responsibility of a mother huh what a HYPOCRITE WOMEN you are…….. disgusting
- Aysha
  
  Hiba, I think you have mental issues. Children need their parents until they are graduate from college and are financially independant. And they need the parents to FINANCE THEM. And thats what my kids need me for. You are a "kuain ka maindak" so keep your mouth shut if u dont know anything. Now please dont comment of any of my comments. I feel ashamed belonging to the same gender u are
- Hiba
  
  First things first your not my mother so don't tell me what to do and what not to do OK!!!I! you're a mentally retarded person who does not have the right IQ score, so basically you can't understand what one's saying so i'm not the sort of person who keep's repeating themselves and you're the type of person who use's repetitive word's and phrases time after time and the one who goes back on their own words….. people like you can only "talk the talk but when it come's to walking the walk " you can't do it and yeah you do have a reason to be ashamed of yourself bcz you're a vile, pathetic , ill mannered old women, you should be locked up in a secure mental hospital!!!!!!!!
- sami
  
  Hiba..just waaaaao. i always wanted to say all these thingz but couldnt say just coz of respect i have for women. but today i can say she is an exception. lot of respect 4 u.
- Aysha
  
  sami tum to sara din aurtoun main baith ker batain kertay rehtay ho…kia bivi bilkl lift naheen kerwaati???
- sami
  
  lolxx ji Aysha exactly waise hi jaise ap apne husband ko lift nahi karwaatein or sara din net pe baith ke mardon ke khilaaf so called "jihaad" karti hain. teh!! bechare hamare farman bhai. dartay huy khana bhi nahi maangte honge ke kaheen meri wife police na mangwa le. lolxxx
- Hiba
  
  Thanks Sami i really appreciate this,being a woman myself i respect all the women out there but Aysha got what she deserved !!!!! she thinks that all men and women commenting on this site are actually living in Pakistan and she is the only one living in the US and i even think that she thinks that her ancestors were all foreign born and she's got nothing to do with Pakistan………and look who's talking eh she's on this 24/7 herself but she say's you're on it all the time what a laugh eh hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!
- Aysha
  
  Hiba, when I am talking a person like you, I have to repeat myself 20 times to make you understan what I am saying. You have heard a phrase somewhere "talk the talk and walk the walk" and dont even know where to use it.hahaha. Till women like u are alive in pakistan, plight of pakistani women will never change. But after reading comments from paklstani women in Dawn newspaper regualry, I have realized that there are enlightened women in pakistan as well.. But ere on drama sites, I can only meet women with no brains…like my dear Hiba
- ms paracha
  
  Aysha aap yeh tu batae k enlightened women se kia muraad hai aap ki??
- Badtameez
  
  lol Hiba she has bipolar dis for sure….goes to extremes …last time i was told "mein to borhi ho chuki hon so i thought she was a granny now she has kids who need her even though they r in college …..ummm okay…….anyhòooooo….i think she should consult with a doc who can put her on some lithium to melow her and stabalize her on abilify she is a threat to herself …..Gosh cant imagine some looney like her going around talking about rights and Jihad with a pen ( by the way spreading hatred wth pen is not jihad ) aysha aunty feeds on this stuff stop answering to her post she will go crazy and leave …..(wishful thinking;))) i do think she belongs to the qadyani sect …see lots of them in US who love o bash Islam under the cover of some irrelevant issue here she is raising voice for fellow women….what a joke….!!!!!
- Aysha
  
  Badtameez, the language and words u are using are trashy and low level,which shows your caliber. Secondly, u are telling others to stop answering to my post but cant stop yourself answering to my posts. Who asked u to come to this thread of my post and spread your filth everywhere with your dirty thougts???
- Aysha
  
  And your nick name "badtameez" which u chose for yourself shows what u think about yourself….may be thats the only word you have been hearing for yourself since your childhood. Do u know what is a person called who chooses dragatory words/names for him/herself and consider him/herself worthless?
- Badtameez
  
  low level trashy …lol okay look who is talking …..just read what you are saying before you post ….. how classy ur comments seem every can judge them right here ….
  first off you are delusional.. this is Not your site or your thread or your forum its a public forum….secondly i chose badtameez for a reason that doesnt concern you and seriously your childhood traumatic life is quite apparent in your views and answers ….i rest my case
- Badtameez
  
  oh oh looks like hit a sore spot for you aunty ji? or hit a home run with identifying your sect …LOL
- Hiba
  
  You're 100% right Badtameez, this woman is so full of herself and i agree about her section that's why she is so p****d off !!!!!!!!!!! she's saying to u that " Badtameez is the only word u have been hearing since childhood" whereas mental is the only word she has been hearing since her own childhood and no wonder she's been using that word in nearly all off her comments………all those dislikes that she has been getting clearly shows that no one wants her here but this lunatic is refusing to take notice purposely and like u say the best thing is to ignore her and from know one what ever comments she makes i'll just be ignoring her…..don't want to have anything to do with a INSANE person like her……… LOL
- Badtameez
  
  I am with u sis…..:)
- Nida
  
  lmao Ayesha ru really doing jihaad??? jihaad is not against islamic teachings.
- Aysha
  
  Nida, If islam is interpreted wrongly by pakistani mullahs to gain power, bringing awareness about that IS jihad. Read an article below on Quran and polygamy published in a pakistani newspaper Dawn by a famous islamic scholar. All I am trying to do is let people know that after talking to islamic schoalrs all over the world, I have realized that those scholars think completely diffirently than pakistani mullahs….here is the link to the article I am refering to. If u read it to a masjid mullah in pakistan, he will say the writer is not a muslim. Please read
  
  — -http://archives.dawn.com/archives/26484
- Nida
  
  Bingo!! Hiba right on da spot. but i feel therz no use. she wo'nt understand.
- Hiba
  
  you're right Nida these kind of people don't understand what someones trying to say to them, these people are sick in the head all they know is me me me and only me, this women does not sound like a mature mid age women but in fact she sound's like a 5 year old kid !!!!!!!!!!!! and your 100% right in saying jihaad is not against islamic teaching's and like Badtmeeez had said that she might not even be a muslim she just pick's up stuff randomly, from know on i'll be ignoring her bcz she does not have the same mental calibre as the majority of us have.
- Aysha
  
  The plight of pakistani women shows the mental caliber they have. Proof is in the pudding.
- ms paracha
  
  no Hiba she can understand each n every word lakin in jaisay logon ka kaam shayed dosray logon ki zindagion mai zehr gholna hai her baat mai Islam ka naam istamaal kr k us k naam se bezaar krna chahtay hai yeh log hamay aray bhai woh kitna Islam pasand banda lag raha hai jo aap beech mai ISlam ka naam la ker bakwaas krna shruu ho gai hai
- Hiba
  
  I totally agree with you Ms Paracha that's why we have a strong feeling that she may not even be a muslim because Islam does not teach us to spread hatred among his people' she wants us to hate the opposite gender especially the males, she has been trying to brainwash us against islam but thank goodness that we aren't naive and ever since i've been visiting this site i have noticed that she has been trying to spread Islam in a bad way and only a non muslim can do that not a muslim.
- Aysha
  
  There were a few women here on this site suggested me not to waste my time with women like you becuase women over here dont have mental capability to understand what we are talking about. I think they were right.
  I put a link to an article up there published in Dawn about polygamy but none of you responded what u read in the link.
  As I said I am doing jihad by exposing brand of Pakistani/talibani Islam, I have another example. urdu translation of aya 4:34 gives right to husband to beat his wife (even slightly) if she disobeys. The word "drabha" in the aya is translated as "beating" by sub-continent so called islamic scholars. When I read quran in other languages, none of the translation had translated word "darabh" as beating. Its translated as "leave alone".
  If bringing this kind of awareness makes me kafir in your eyes, so be so.
  Taliban call you guys kafir you call people like me kafir. Same way sunni, shia, deobandi, wahabi, brailvi, islamili….ALL think they are true muslims and rest are kafir so it does not make a difference what you guys call me. My religion is between me and my God
- sami
  
  1. Islam is Islam thers no such thing as pakistani, taliban, international, mullas, enlightened, urz, mine Islam.
  2. i dont believe in articles, different interpretations etc. i believe what Quran n sahi hadith says.
  3. u mixed all sects of muslims with non-muslims that shows how much u know abt a muslim. Sunni, shia, deobandi, wahabi, barailvi are muslims and ismaili, ahmadi, mirzai are non-muslims. so clear up ur mind and decide who u r exactly.
  my arguments end here coz "bhains ke agay been bajanay ka koi faida nahi".
- sami
  
  i know u will argue again but just a simple suggestion. instead of reading articles, differnt interpretations and searching on net, if u only read Quran with translation will deffintly clear up ur mind.
  2nd thing just admit that u dont know anything abt Islam and Muslimz becoz u lined up all sects of muslimz with non muslimz. 1st 5 are muslimz and ismaile, ahmade, miraze are not muslimz. mind it.
- Hiba
  
  Well said Sami!!!!!
- Badtameez
  
  sami here is aysha aunty's source for the translation of this Surah e Nisa's 34 th aya… .http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/An-Nisa,_34...
  
  and BTW i work with Arabs , they also say idrabuun is in the meaning of slight physical punishment…where Marmaduke Pickthall translation states meaning of idrabuun as "to scourge " which is a word derived from Latin means lashing …or whipping which has much stronger implications than slightly or lightly hitting them in this paticular aya.unlike .most urdu translations where its usually meant slight hitting like stated above… ..and that too in most tafaseer discussed as a last resort when a man finds his woman in ill conduct or disloyalty…
- Hiba
  
  This is exactly what i have heard from the islamic scholars but did not have a reference to back this, Aysha just gets crap from anywhere and she posts her crap without even thinking twice!!!!!! this is so ridiculous.
- sami
  
  1 more thing, ur much inspired by western media thatz why ur using words, talibani islam, pakistani islam, enlightned islam, conservative islm, urz mine islam blah blah blah. i know only abt THE religion islam.
- Aysha
  
  ms paracha, miss hiba and miss hiba. If women in pakistan are against their rights, nothing can be done. If they were men fighting against women, I could have fought further but not with you girls.
  Before I leave I will ask you girsl this:
  When it comes to men/equality in pakistan, and you compare both the genders, –
  How many men cannot go out in the street, at any time of the day, for fear of harrassment?
  -How many men have acid thrown on their faces compared to number of women?
  -How many men are told that they can not work and actively participate in the society becuase they will bring dishonor to the family?
  -How many men's characters have been tarred and have been considered"used materia" simply becuase they have gotten a divorce?
  -How many men are raped, without getting justice, compared to women?
  -How many women are allowed to make their own decisions as compare to Men?
  
  And dont forget, we belong to a country where a little girl got shot becuase she advovated education for girsl
- Aysha
  
  Also, Miss hiba, nida and ms paracha, please watch "aik tamna la hasil" drama…you three will looooveee to see a girl Nadia in that drama being abused. It will give u three lot of mental peace and pleasure
- Hiba
  
  So you say that Pakistani men,mullah's,imams,scholars are all wrong they misinterpret the quran ,so according to your own saying's your nikah, your parents,great grandparents,great great granparents was read by people of Pakistan who misinterpret the quran so your nikah must be wrong to, then how come you have been living with the men who weren't your husband's? if everything they say according to the quran is wrong then your nikah can't be right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- Aysha
  
  you are mentaly sick
- Hiba
  
  "you are mentally sick,mental issues,mentality" why are u so obsessed with these words??? can't think of any other words huh ??? A mad mad mad woman like you can never ever accept the truth!!!!!!!and now your lost for words lol
- Aysha
  
  Go see a psychiatrist…people around u should keep u in chains
- Aysha
  
  sami, ms paracha and Nida, watch another drama (Daagh), u will love to see what happens with girl umaima in that drama
- Hiba
  
  Don't you have your own words to use, i remember that Noori advised u to see a psychiatrist and now you're using her words people like u should rot in hell you nast old woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'
- Aysha
  
  And I wish and pray for you to be a second, third or fourth wife of your husband and live with all of your husband's wives happily ever after
- ghazala
  
  wowwwweeeee is baat pe aysha ne koi jawab nahin dya hahahahaha in jesi ka mou ese band karte he lagta he ke inko koi mental illnes he yeh alfaaz sun sun kar ab yeh bhi kehne lagi he mental illness lolololololo , ab dekhna ke yeh kese barakh jati he hahahahahahahha
- sami
  
  if ur another malala's fan then u just dont know anything what is happening in Pakistan.
- Badtameez
  
  sami we all should stop commenting to her posts man ….woman is deranged ab pagalon say koi nahi jeet sakta …..but instead of wasting our energies here on her try ingnoring her….
- Anum
  
  You know what Aysha, no matter what all these misogynists might say, I absolutely agree with everything you just said! (Y)
Numan Memon

Aysha, bus yar aap zayda markiting kar rhe ho drama ki,
its not real life. just drama
JAHAN

dear ayesha islam bohat khoobsurat hai or aurat k bohat hakook hain jo k log poora nahi kartay surah nisaa parhain to maloom ho jaye jo pak yah muslims males kartay hain wo islam nahi kehta un ki apni marzi jo hoti hai kartay hain ALLAH TALLAH nay mard ko 4 shadiyon ki ijazat nahi dy surah nissa main yeh kaha k karo mgr agar insaf kar saktay ho to sath hi agli ayat main ata hai or insan insaf nahi kar sakta or ALLAH TALLAH yeh b farmata hai 4 say acha hai k aik hi rakho or insaf or mohabbat say rakho is main meerub jo b kar raha hai us ka gharoor hai k uski biwi us k paon ki jooti ban k rahay aurat nokrani ban k nahi ati husband k ghar wo nikah kar k ba izat ati hai bus yeh parents ka kasoor hai jo betiyon ko taleem detay hain mgr beton ko thori sy b taleem nahi detay k uski biwi k kiya hakook hain us pay or har mard meerub jaisa nahi
Chandani

Just wanted to add, and to hopefully put a stop the arguing, I inquired about this at my mosque. While it is true that a man can have multiple wives, it is only with the permission of his first wife that he can take on a second one. Without her permission, it is just an affaire, illicit, unrecognized, and sin incarnate. Additionally, while any effort is better then non, I doubt that the comment section of a Pakistani drama based on an over-exaggerated version of real life is the appropriate place.

Numan Memon

meerab ki jaga me hota to, wife ko be happy rakhta aur maya ko be,
ghar wali be khush aur bahir wali be khush

HABIBA

THIS IS VERY NICE DRAMA BECAUSE IT IS REAL SOTRY

pakora

bunch of good dramas now a days

fatima

its just clear reflection ov our society.. education b aisy logoun ko nhe sanwaar skti.. narrow minded.. hmari family ki hi story lgti hai..

aouj

its very typical story but true reflection of our society

CzCZCZ

OHH sorry wrong place. I was posting it somewhere else . sorry

CzCZCZ

There is a lot written by fans here and Pakistan team played brilliant cricket, no doubt. What is not mentioned is that the spirit in which the series was played was absolute joy to watch for some one like me from afar sitting in Australia. While there was fierce competitiveness, there were lot more smiles EXCHANGED on the ground (Ishan/Akmal abberation notwithstanding); even after the game the bonhomie between the two teams was marvellous; and acknowledgement by the spectators of the day's better team on the park, was very noticable. This is lot better than any India-Australia series, anywhere, I have seen. Hope very soon we can see test cricket between the two. That would be real deal…

vdvd

Wow there are many coments here, and they are entertaining. hmmm.

adad

maya ki acting bahaut aala. b

mano

bechari mehru

ahmed

this drama is so good, way better foreign dramas

Myur

maya is so evil. I hat all women like these.

Mfgfs

we should follow our religion and treat women the way our religion told us to

sami

islam mein mard or aurat ke rights mein balance hai kuch mamlaat mein mard superior hai or kuch mein aurat but agar ye kaha jaey ke aurat ka kam mard or mard ka kam aurat karay to equality hoti hai dat is wrong. n tabhi ghar ka balance kharab hota hai. women rights walon ko ye bat samajh nahi ati.

bushra

@sami ur right

Umer

very good drama. All actors are so gifted in Pakistan. May god bless them.

Umer

Sorry "God"

ahsan

Why some women here taking this drama so seriously, if u are so bursting in anger, go and make a difference today. Take action in your house and change Pakistan. I bet some men like me will stand by u side by side. Also don't take these drama so seriously, a drama cannot change minds but your actions can make a difference.

sami

100%
Maheen

A drama does help change minds Ahsan. It makes us see what is wrong with our culture or society and indirectly offers solutions by showing the bad end of those who do wrong things. And I am glad that as a Pakistani man, you are ready to take a stand. You don't have to wait for women to start. Join with any group that is fighting for women's rights in the right way. One of the best ways is to start with yourself by treating your mother, sister, wife, daughter, nieces, and other female relatives with honor and respect and being a good example to other men. Then, do what you can to defend the life and honor of women, whether that is by stopping horrible acts like karo-kari, or tolerating Jahil comments about the "curse" of having a daughter that some stupid men say and act on. There is plenty to do to improve the lives of women in Pakistan. It's just a matter of making Dua and asking Allah to guide you to be just and show you how to stand up for what is right.

kashhaf

despite the fact that meerab is shown a very "bhola bacha". i liked his and saba's acting. Husband and wife are called "libaas" of each other. they dont only hide each other's weaknesses but there shuldnt be space between them. meerab chahay poora ghalat ho par ek baat us ne bilkul theek kahi ke husband wife mein space ho to koi teesra aata hai. mehru is trying everything to save her marriage but not changing her attitude. i mean the way she speaks. i believe mohabbat se sab kuch change kiya ja sakta hai even kisi ka dil bhi. meerab is mature guy phir bhi usko ye pata nahi chal raha ke maya kyon itni meharban hai. paise ka nasha waqai boht bura hota hay

sami

very positive thinking. i agree 100%
A man

agreed. she left job for him but not changing her attitude
Nida

yes mehru b zid p he or merub b
sceniglamorifableurhypnosa

so true!

Raheel still there

PP sab pagal aur bewaqoof haen……uOu knOw why..??

Syeda

Wow itni bewaqoofi ki umeed nahinhai meerab se khuch 2 much hi kar raha hai. Yaar kointu rok lo

KalaBhoot

Interesting episode. Very good acting by Saba Qamar and Ahsan Khan.

Raheel still there

PP sab pagal aur bewaqoof haen……uOu knOw why..??
…………app log apas maen lar rahay haen….aur ak drama hai…mean drama….uOu all cOme out from…..drama dream….it's drama nOt…reallity…….

Reality

well said, I think some girls or even some men take this drama so seriously, take this drama just as entertainment. There is no need to fight over it and blame men over it. A drama cannot change you but your own deeds can make some major changes. By the way there are girls in this drama too who are playing negative role. Its funny when men play a negative role all women always take it dame seriously.
- sami
  
  i agree reality.

Jami

If Meerub also weds Maya, then Mehreen and Arslan should work together to destroy Maya's business. Then we'll see how Meerub likes being poor again and also just how much Bano Appa will love Maya as well.
Maya is pure Evil. Hate her character. Men are mean, but women are ruthless!

Nadia

mard say ziada aurat hi aurat ki dushman hay.
shahsa

jami ap ka plot acha hai us per i drama ban sakta hai.

mom of rayyan

in my opinion Mehru is wrong..!! just to earn a handsome salary , she is neglecting her children . she has given full charge to her frnd who was not able to take care of her son , and we saw in this episode that the boy almost ran off the house . what if he has got hurt or got kidnapped..
Some times wifes who are giving more importance to money than their children , end up being nothing , not a good mom or a house wife. Mehru is also one of them.
And as far as merub is concerned , he is loyal to his wife. and thats why when maya approached him while having a drink at her house he was decent enough to leave that place. if he was bad character he would have taken this opportunity.
Merub concern is only that mehru should stay at home and look after the house and children , and there is nothing wrong in that..!! Mehru has greed for money n at the same time she is egoistic . she can easily sacrifice her relationships and work as a cleaner in someones else house!!!…

Asyha

mom of rayyan, u forgot why mehru started working. She started to work when meerab's salary was very little and he used to give more than half to his sister (bano appa). when mehru stopped working at maya's house , meerab was the one pushing her to work for maya….meerab does not have any problem with mehru bringing money. He has problem with mehru working with arsalan becuase arsalan is mayas ex husband and he dont want to upset maya beucase maya meerab ko aur us kee baigairat behen ko paisa khila rahi hay. meerab doesnt care bachay neglect ho rahay hain…if he did, he would have given time to kids…in hosuehold where both parents work to meet the ends, both parents have to spend time with kids so kids are not neglected
- asia
  
  good,well said ayesha,but mehru ko shaadi me zarooor jana chahiye tha,is tarah wo merab ko apny se door or maya se qareeb kr rahi ha,husband n wife k dermiyan jo kuch b chal raha ho ,gher k under rehna chahiye ,kisi third person ko pata nai chalna chaiye werna SHAREEEKON k dil me dhand per jaati ha,or meerab ka attitude buht kharab ha ,apni biwi ko time nai deyna or jo bitchari sara din gher or batchy sanbhalti ha ik husband ki nazr e karm k lie,so poor mehru,
sadaf

sorry to say but you are wrong Meerab doesn't want Mehru to leave the job and sit at home but to do job only of Maya's housekeeper then he will be happy

nagikhan

nn one.more.thing all men are same!!!

A man

so is ur father, brother and son
bilal

all men are like what. All men have different personality stupid
- Sairah
  
  Bilal,
  You are personifying what nagikhan has written!
  Don't call others stupid!
  By doing so, you are acting like the male character in this drama! Thinking you are better than others…

nagikhan

maya is like those other women who likes to take over someone elses men its stupid nn sick how can someone think abt tht!!

busybunny

Merub us sooooooooo stupid and a typical 'guy'….good thing he has cute face otherwise I would have hated him more
Mehru did the right thing, she is compromising with circumstances but there always is a limit to everything……Merub would be so unfortunate if they split…

replying

bano apa is such a wonderful actress…whats her name? -thx

Badtameez

Isn't she Saba Faisal she used to be the news person right?

Aryaan

Thanks for single link..

Sami

Kab comment approved ho ga

Sami

Oh oh Kia ho ga agay is dramay ka…Kia meerab Maya se shadi kar lay ga or mahru arshlan se?tu bacho k Kia ho ga….wo tu disturb ho jaye gay.mahru apna ghar or husban HUD Maya ko they rahe hai….mahru ko apnay attitud main narmi lani chaye……usay Maya ko jeetnay nahie theyna chaye

mehmil

mujhay to yehi lagta h aur ho sakta h k wo donon aik aik bavcha rakh lain aur baad main merub pachtaye
- Sami
  
  Meerab tu zaroor pachtaye ga……..or is ki bano apa be
- Maheen
  
  Mujhe lagta hain kay Meerab aur Mehru akhir main saath hongain. Wo dono thak jaingain Maya aur Arsalan kay game say. Mujhe yeh bhi lagta hain kay Maya ki shaamat anay wali hay.
- imran
  
  Arslan help ker reha hai mehroo ki q k us ko maya ne doka dya hai or ab wo maroo or merab ki zingi khrab karna chati hai
imran

Arslan sahe kar reha hai maya ko kanoon notes bjh kar is se pata chal ja ga merub ko k maya ne devoce lya hai ya arslan ne dya hai

Asyha

Question:
1:Does meerab really deserve Mehru? Or do men like meerab even deserve to have a wife?

2: Does a husband have FULL control over wife's life? Does he decide what a wife is going to do and what is she not going to do with her life?
In other words, Is an adult woman allowed to take any decision about her own life? Why did meerab say "mera hukam kay tum job naheen karo gee"? Is wife a ghulam? After seeing this drama, why would a girl want to give control of her life to someone by marrying him? marriage means to have a partner who loves you, gives u respect and supports you to achive whatever goals/dreams you have for your life.

3: If Meerab marrys Maya, what should Mehru do?

Ms.

total marks kitnay hain!??
urooj

Answer:
1. they both dont deserve each other, and maya deserves a slap. she is the one who is real vamp
2. pass
3. mehru should marry javaid shaikh.
please give me 10/10
Habib Athar

Aysha bibi aap ne yehi sawal pehlay bhi kaye dramon mn kiya hy …..? lgta hy aap tallaq yafta hn ….. is liye aap k zehn mn zehr bhra hua hy
- JAHAN
  
  habib akhtar soory to say mgr yaaaaar tumharay apnay ghar main b maan behan hon gy tameez seekho kissi larki say bat karnay ki yah fazoool bakwas na karna chor do kissi ki beti ki izat karo log tumhari beti behan ki karain gy wo wo keh rahi hain jo un k dil main hai or kuch kehna buri bat nahi hai han kissi ko sahi bat batana achi bat hai pleaseeeeeeeeee aise wahiyat reply's ghar tak mehfooz rakho
JAHAN

hadees NABVI SAW hai k mard pay us k maan baap ka huk hai or biwi pay us k shohar ka dear ayesha we r muslims jaise baap or bhai beti ki izat ko mehfooz rakhna chahtay hain waise hi husband b or husband ko yeh huk hai k wo aurat ko mana karay to aurat pay yeh farz hai us ko poora karay agar sahi bat say rokay husband to aurat ka kaam hai ghar chalana bachon ki perwarish karna kamai ka kam mard k zimmay hai aurat k zimmay nahi aj kal ki aurton ka dil karta hai k sub kuch un ko milay jab k HAZRAT ALI RA ka qol hai apna paon chadar say bahir na nikalo q k jab insan chadar say bahir nikalta hai to naga hota hai or sharmindagy k siwa usko kuch nahi milta jab

Numan Memon

yar tum sab mil kar maya ki shadi mere se karwa do,
my dream

Asyha

Nauman, aap kee Maya say shaadi kay liay 50% kaam to ho gaya hay (yani aap razi hain)
Ab baqi 50% kaam rehta hay (yaani Maya ko razi kerna hay)
- Numan Memon
  
  Ash aap maya ko jaldi razi karen, naik kaam me dair kis bate ki,
  phr ham switzeland jayenge,
Asyha

Numan, aap fikar na karain, aap kee maya say shaaki kay lia 50% kaam to ho gaya hay (yani aap raazi hain)
Ab 50% kaam rehta hay (yani Maya ko raazi kerna hay)

Numan Memon

yar tum sab mil kar maya ki shadi mere se kara do
my dream

nadia

tum apni amm ko kaho hum kya karien, jotey maar key nikaley gi tumhien maya
- Numan Memon
  
  jhoote se dar nhe lagta sahab pyar se lagta he
- Sami
  
  Hahahaaaaaaa
sobia

sure…:-)
sheg

HA KRLO SHADI JA K, DO DIN ME AQAL AJEGI

Sairah

I feel very sorry for Mehru! She did nothing wrong. She wanted to go out and earn a decent wage so that she could give her kids a better life (although I feel that her son should be smacked! He's so rude and selfish). Things are getting out of hand! Meerab is SO very stupid! I hate all Paki men. They are threatened by women who are successful–even though he gave Mehreen permission in the first place to work for Maya. Mehru was taking care of her home and children and bringing home a salary but her husband cannot see this as he is completely brainwashed by Maya! Men want to enjoy the benefits of a wife's work (cooking, cleaning, job, kids, etc.) but don't want to give them any of the credit or respect!

yasir

i feel sorry for you sairah but i had to say that you should hate your father becuse he is paki too. is'nt he. you cant hate all paki becuse of some paki like him. hope you will anderstand this. there are lots of paki guyys out there who are better than him.
- Sairah
  
  Read the other comments! Everyone is saying that they hate men like this!
  And, not that it's any of your business, but my father, brother, husband are just like this character. But, I rose above my difficult situation and I now run a very large hospital and make more money than my father, brother and husband COMBINED!
- Asyha
  
  Salute to you Sariah.
- Mery
  
  May Allah put barakah in what u are doing Sairah. MashAllah.
- Man
  
  I also hate women like these too. But I do agree with you saira some men are like this. But do you thing women are so innocent. Somewomen are flirty and greedy I mysef have experience many hokeaas women. But mashallah my own family is not like this.
- sara
  
  oh so u own a hospital where is it and is the name of your hospital.
- Sairah
  
  Do you understand English?
  I said I run a hospital–not own it!
  I am in charge and I have worked VERY hard to get where I am!
- nadia
  
  sairah is absolutely ight , the drama shows the same, how women are treated in pakistani society, they are used as zarkhareed ghulam, if she want to stand for herself she is reminded that she is lower than men.A woman sacrifice a lot for her family , it wasnt her job to earn but if men cant earn a decent living and then think whatever is there they own then she has to take some steps to help her kids ..most paki men are like this if not all, they seek a confident mature educated women but then women proves herself they get threatened and their over inflated egos get a kick on A*s…t that point they stoop as low as possible and use the dirt y tactic of divorce.
- anus
  
  A lot of men are educating girls. If you don't agree with me go and take a look at good universities and see how many girls are getting education in good universities. My sister was admitted in ine of the best university and my father spent lot of money educating her. And now I want to get a good education but my father ran out of money. But I feel good that my sister got a higher education and she is happily married.
- Sara
  
  Nadia, I salute your courage to speak up. But unfortunately, most of the dislikes you see on your comments are from women themselves. If you read comments, many of them are saying that whatever is happening is Mehru's fault
maria

Shut up saira all men are not like this. You should go and marry Indians why are you even watching Pakistani drama because there are many paki men in it.
- Sairah
  
  Don't tell me to shut up!
  This is a forum to discuss our opinions and views. You don't have ANY right to tell me to do anything.
  How dare u tell me to marry an Indian! You sound so ignorant. It's women like with your heads stuck in the ground who are worsening women's causes in a 3rd world country. Shame on you!
sara

This is just a drama crazy girl. All men are not like this. I feel sorry for you that you are mentally depressed and want to show people your own story but don't blame all Pakistani men for it.
- Sairah
  
  I realize its just a drama. We aren't debating whether this is a drama or not, we are debating the topic shown. Get it straight!
  Don't worry, when u get married, we'll see you back on these forums complaining about your husband's mentality and abuse!
afsa

I hate all women like u who hate all Pakistani men.
- Sairah
  
  You should become the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th wife of a great Paki man…
- Aysha
  
  Sairah, unfortunately, people like you and men are critisized by WOMEN for raising voice for womens' rights. Please ead my comments above and response from women on those comments
- Sairah
  
  I believe you are right. Women will always be subjected to this type of treatment because other women allow it! You and I may be the only ones here that understand this.
- Aysha
  
  sairah, I have some questions in mind which i wanted to discuss with a woman with brains like you. Would u mind writing to me at apakistaniwoman at yahoo
- Sairah
  
  Yes! Of Course!
minhaj

Sairah i respect ur words and i like you.
- Sairah
  
  Thank you!
  Work hard, pray often, and love your family and your self!

Sami

Oh oh…Kia ho ga agay is dramay main…Kia meerab Maya se shadi kar lay ga?or mahru arshlan se?tu bacho ka Kia ho gaya…..bachay tu bohat disturb ho gay…or wo love kha gaya Jo meerab or mahru main tha….mahru apna ghar or apna husband hud Maya ko they rahe hai.mahru ko apnay attitude main naram hona chaye

Sara

Sami, Sub kuch mehru ko hee kerna chayey, meerab ko kuch naheen…whatever meerab is doing is right…correct? Why cant Meerab think what is going to happen to his children if he leaves thier mom or gives her so much stress?
- Sami
  
  Sara……sub kuch mahru he ko karna hai.wo apnay husband ko hud se bohat dor kar rahe hai.
- Sara
  
  sami, to kia meerab apni bivi mehru ko khud say buhut dour naheen ker raha
- nadia
  
  aisey husband ko rakh ker kerna bhi kya hey jo itni itni si baat per biwi ki itni insult karey, i think meerab is doing absolutely wrong he should take care of his wife's wishes as well, beside maya and appa.meerab is pushing his wife away not she is doing so.
asia

AHHHH ,konsa love ,adha love tu shadi k bad khtm ho jata ha baqi do batchy pyda krny k bad,or muhabat k is taboot ko band krny me bahir ki fitna oret akhri keel sabit hoti ha,jub husband kisi dosri oret ko importence day tu her biwi ka behaviour isi tarah rude ho jata ha,wo maya k gun gaye tu mehru kysy berdasht kry,aysy me tu dil krta ha is tarah k hubby ki man behan aik kr do,lets see what happend in next?
sami

this comment is not by me lolxx. its by 2 no sami

hum

kids r calling khazina their phuppo lol infact shes their phoppo ki beti

Aman

Yup…..I also noticed that dialogue…..

fia

maya fazoool mae pechae pari ha meerab k… wo mehro k gar i he meerab k liye the,,,dash maya

paras

ab maaya ki shaadi merab se ho aur mehru ki shaadi maya ke x husband se ho

Naveed

Aysha ne koee comment nhin dia. un ki tabiyyat theek he?

aamir

Yeh kia kya aap ne naveed ji Ayesha ne aap ko down vote kar dia lekin koi baat nahin main aap ko up vote kar dun ga hahahahahahahaha woh bura maan gai bechari aap to unki tabyat ka hi pooch rahe the!!!!!!!!!!
- Asyha
  
  aamir, why would I down vote Naveed…this bhai of mine is missing me
- Sairah
  
  Too funny Aysha!
  Looking forward to your comments!
Asyha

Navid sahab, comment will be comming soon
sami

naveed dont worry Aysha ji kaheen nahi jaein gi. wo hamein apne qeemti khayalat se nawazti rahain gi. is site ko chorne ka un ka bayaan sayasi tha. lolxx
- Badtameez
  
  Lol @sami
- sceniglamorifableurhypnosa
  
  this girl is conning you Sami sahab…this was Asyha and not aysha!!!!

Ali

Bakwas drama

fda

Aray bhai tu dekhta hee kion hay
hareem adil

ap ko itna bura lgta hy to ap mat dkha karo
hmesha becharay dramay ko bakwas kehty ho

diya

hate maya nakali orat make up thoup k fitna dalny bethi h

yusra

bilkul theek kaha

diya

i hate maya……….. and this type of cheap women

Heena

Yeh Meerab tu esay ban raha tha jese koi dhood peeta bacha ho, usay maloom hi nahin kay Maya uss par itni mehraban kyun hai…..yeh kaise ho sakta hai ke ek larki aap ko uni ke time par chahti ho tu uss banday ko yeh maloom na ho sakey ke woh ab bhi usay chah rahi hai tabhi woh itni mehraban hai!!!!!!!! i really felt bad for mehru in this episode she made the right decision by giving priority to her family over work but i am wondering now why she's been compelled to change her decision about work…… but anyway we will know this next week ……..

Asyha

Heena, Mehru's decision of leaving work is not right. What is she going to do if Meerab marry's Maya? How is she going to survive without a job? A woman should never ever be completely dependant on a man. She shoud be able to take care of herself financialy and live a respectable life

jahangir

Ehsan is very stupid, he take care every one except his family. he does not know the rights of his family but knows very well about bano aapa.

Maheen

absolutely. If the man balances between his sister and wife, or any other women in his life (mother, daughter, etc.) then the women have no need to fight. Allah teaches us to balance. When we fail in that balance, our homes become miserable. It is easy to blame the woman without looking at how the man contributed to the problem. If Meerab had balanced between his wife and his selfish sister in the beginning, his wife would not have felt the need to work in the first place.
- nadia
  
  men are never normal , very imbalanced .
- a man
  
  so are u
- sami
  
  maheen hats off… a very positive comment.

hassan

maya z vry cl3v3r

mina

i like maya so cute

Raheel still there

oho…acha…tOu usay apni bhabi bna lo……..
Raheel still there

app nay maya ko is lye like kia…i thnk sO…apki NATURE maya se match hai…hmmm…..