no its not working ….:(
Hate to watch on Daily motion
muje tu ye drana buht pasnd hai ap log zaror dekhiye ga agar nahi dekha tu …..
No it doesnt work 4 me………
no its totally not working…daily motion was much better
youtube open now plz uplaod utube version
MAHA…muslims say appeal ki gaee hay k you tube ka boycott kerain 20, 21, 22 …september…..
kis dunia may hain aap????
thanks a much…:)
Awesome ! What a thrilling episode.From Shumaila's secret to Haleema's self confidence,everything was very superbly done.Usually dramas lose their charm during their 15-20th episode but YPNH has gained it's charm now ! Waiting for the next episode ! Totally waiting !
plz see youtube open …plz uplad utube version
Mahaa R u stupid or ur just wrote this tk get attention ur such A dumb girl sory to say but u sound lyk one
I liked the old way of putting the dramas in parts with good quality… please dont change that
Yahan drama nahi hai
lol. Ab ha dakh lo.
where is the first part ????
After draging so much the real drama starts now
dailymotion streaming is very slow
Dailymotion ki streaming low nhi ha apk net ki speed low ha hehe
Muje bhi itni Aachee Saas mil jaye jo apna makan mere naam ker de.
neelum tum itni achi ban jao haleema ki tarah tau definetely ur sas will do same
jitni marzi acshi ben jae koi bi larki lakin saas kibi bi apana makan larki ke naam nahi kati iss tatah sirf kahanion main hi hota he haqiqet main nahi
Yes u r right ali.
makan ghar ye sub dil se shuru hote hain agar dil ma jaga ho to makan ki zarurat nahe hoti materialistic life esi dunya tak rehti hai, agy kam ata hai to apna amaall.
@Ali you r wrong real m bi aisa hota ye stories hamare muashre ki hi akasi kerti ha meri anti k saath aise hi hua un k father in law ne apna makan meri anti k naam kia ha so abi bi dunia m aise log hai..
Makaan choro,,achi Saas hi mily ghanimat samjho
Sahi kaha Ali
Wish u good luck
aisi saas k sath Saim jaisa mian b mily ga… soch loooo
saim jaise shoher ko bardashat karne ki himmat dalo aisi saaaaas bhi mil jai ge neelam g
ghar nam karwa k kya karna hae huby nam karwao to maza b ae….
So many days have passed in Shumailas house, but Saba Qamar is wearing the same suit with same hair style, so she is on the same day.
Soo confusing…Story is good but a better Director should've directed this play.
Great episode! Waiting for the next
exactly agree with all coments actulyy this episode brought drastic change in all the characters this is what we all need to bring in our nature……. it was a chaka bating by haleema. keep it up, yes we all luv u sabii bhai.
jab Haleema ne us zaleel aadmi Saim ka thappar roka aur sakht lehje mai baat ki tou dil mai thandak pargaee —– keep it up Haleema
InshAllah ab Saim ki qismat mai siwae beizzati aur ruswai k kuch nahee goa AAAAmeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen
Do u guys agree with me ??????????????
hiba jii is say aap ko kia mily ga yaa drama hai haqeeqat nahy dramy ko drama samahna chye dont be serious
Looks like Nabeel's ego is hurting seeing a weak woman turning into a powerful one..
InshAllah InshAllah to aese kar rhi ho jasy ye true story ho, hahaha ye drama ha or is dramy men aesa hi hoga, tumhary InshAllah ya Ameen karne se writer ne story nhi change kar deni
Ah, finally! Haleema grew a spine.
Good on her.
haleema ne eent ka jawab pathar se diya h …
w8ing 4 next
i just love it
I want to see more maybe!!! Loving haleema's confidence it will give housewives good self-esteem. SABI bhai love uuuu
I am so glad ke haleema ko finally aqal aagayi aur us ke under ki aurat aur self respect jag uthi happy for her she looks great aur shumaila is so Makkar jhooti hai is Ka pol bohot jald Khul jaye aur Saim dhakhe maar ker use nikal de
uffff ufff uffff,,,,,, mera dil kr ra h k me dance kru shumaila ki be basi or saim k badalte rawayye pe,,,,, ise kehte h u turn by the way,,, have u people noticed that haleema ne pure episode men apna blue dress e pehne rkha?????? apne kam ka sochne se le k uski 1st salary tk…. poor haleema hats off fakhra <3
dance ki video upload zaroor karna
Ye dress wala scene mene pehly bhi aik episode men note kia tha jis men is haleema ne pory episode men sirf black dress hi pehna tha. haha
hahah nice observation. . .office ghar aik he dress. . .itni poor
it doesnt work 4 me……
ooo kia bat ha g….maza aa gya drama dakhny ka…..zabardast…saim ko maza aa raha ho ga ab boht ab kary enjoy life apny PIYAAAAR k sath …or shumaila k sath tu yehi hona tha afterall…oor is epi main msg b ha for all girls…jo piyar k naam pay ghar sa bahir nikal jati hain shadi karny k liye apny maa baap ki izat ki parwa na karty hoye…zaroori nahi k sab shumaila jasi hi hun magar un ka anjam shumaila jasa hi hota ha..yehi kahty hain husbands k tum meri khatir apny maa baap ko chor sakti ho tu kisi oor k liye mujhy b chor sakti hooo……soooooooo true…
@jero abolutely true
hum log drama to bohat shoq se dekte ha
but did not understan the lesson .this is the reality of life allah tala hum sab ko seedhe raste pe chalie ameen.
Also shumaila was using Iphone in the bedroom and an other ordinary phone in the living room when Saim picked it to check the last call!!
V filmi story
bohat acha hua shomila k saath, she deserve more worse then that
i Love u Haleema….
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm owsum drama h ft hua shumaila k 7 ab ise mar jana chaheye r haleema b saim ko accept na kry fr mza ay
waha boht maza agia hy drama dakh k boht acha hy ye drama kash dunia mien hr orat dosri orat ka sath dy kash hmaray mulik mien orat akdosay ka sath dain
im happy about wat happend 2 shumaila
Wah i love haleema nd Dr. Zunaira both r very nice characters.
I m waiting next episode.
kiaaaa dramaaaaaa haiii yaaaaaar lushhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
jo aurat bagh kr shadi kry us ki koi izat nahi hoti,aur us drama nay b bta dia k husband b aisi aurat p trust nahi krta.
yup u r right or waise b shumaila jaise larkian aik jaga tik k nae bethein ab shumaila ny jab saim ko chor jana hae jis k sath us ny b is k sath bht bura karna hae……….phr is bhootni k hosh tikany aen gy
agar ap kisi pe aitbar nahi karte to us ki izzat kaise kar sakte hain or agar izzat nahi to phir mohabbat kaise
Pyar men jealousy to zaror hoti ha but pyar men shak bhi hota ha ye aaj pehli dafa suna ha is daramy men, i don't agree with it.
drama ab interesting ho raha hay bohat maza araha hay ab SAIM teri tu waat Lag jaye gi aur shumaila tu apni khair mana ab
Aitbaar nahi to Pyar kon sa bhai saim lol
and shumaila looks yukhiii!!! so ugly eehhHHhhh!!!
shumaila needs a makeover, change of hairsatyle, and wardrobe!! Har dramay me same hairstyle, same style of shalwar qameez.
shumaila jaisee bf phansnay wali larkiyoon kay liyay best lesson hay yah hota hay end per kahin ki nahi rehti
Shumila hate ur funny attitude oh gosh .
Saim Tum to ajeeb ho now ul regret it big tym ..men lyk u only
Deserves girls lyk shumila mean n bewafa worthless..
Seems like Dr. Zunaira shaves her mustaches. Her face looks like a man. Look at her at 9:30.
I think your name says it all! you are not only kaala bhoot but you actually think ill too! shame on you for being so judgmental!!
Agreed wid you Seema.
i also agree with seema n kala bhoot shame on u 4 ur poor comment
@Zaiby, Seema, & Nazeef…I am posting my comment again, just for you to enjoy….hahaha
Seems like Dr. Zunaira shaves her mustaches. Her face looks like a man. Look at her at 9:30
WOW! you have a lot of time on your hands! this message will again get a poor rating and will be hidden! so dream on and keep wasting your time! repost X 10000 disrespecting people has not boundaries!
Saim jasay comzarf bandy k sath asa hi hona chahiyay tha wel don
but its true ,,that shumaila really play her role well..jo chalake iss role ko chayea the,,,vo usska face pa nazar atte ha…
zabardast!!!! never underestimate the will power of a woman!!! Shairni ko na lalkaaro, warna apni maut ko khud daawat do ge. Aurat zaat me itni depth hai, bardaasht bhi, bahaardri bhi usme, himmat bhi usme, chalaaki bhi usme! Aurat ko piyar aur respect se rakho, woh tumko apni jaan se ziada pyar se rakhe gi, usko aise muqaam pe na ghaseeto ke woh tumhe majboor ho ke barbaad kar de, aurat hi aik mard ko is duniya me jannat deti hai aur jahannam bhi, ye mard pe hai woh kis qaabil hai!!!
ap kay "bayaan" ki CD mil sakti hai? ap aisa karain aik anti- mard spray ejad kar kay poori dunya may spray kar dain
Wah, woh kahaawat yaad agai Saim ko is episode me dekh ke, aur future ke liye bhi….." DHOBI KA KUTTA, NA GHA KA NA GHAAT KA!!
This drama has turned into a b grade desi movie. With the halima thapparh-stopping-scene, complete with a filmy background score, it just felt like watching a lame bollywood flick.
And how on earth did halima turn into an interior decorator extraordinaire so fast…i mean she was wearing the same suit the whole time! Maybe she didnt get time to change….
And someone please cut saim's mullet off..so 80's
And sabih should stop wearing these tacky skin tight tshirts, they're just in poor taste.
However i loved zunaira, charming and lovely…
I watched this episode on some other site ,but visited this site just because to see comments and see that did anyone notice about Haleemas same clothes ………but well done ……I really like to read comments on this site ,this thing makes this site special.
This is a MUST WATCH for all those men who fantasize about second wives!!!
problem is not second merriage problem is that kay saim nay shadi ki kissay jisko uski bewi apni behan kehti thi or saim nay ik muqudes reshtay ka pass na keya or jehan reshtoon per behrosa khatu hojay wahan seway hawis kay or kuch nahi hota jesay shumaila ko na apnay sagay reshtoon ka respect tha or na he saim say muhabet.
very good i apriciate your remarks
so if shumaila wan't haleema's cousin/sister do you think it would have been alright???
ZABERDUST ILIKE IT
i have no right to comment on second merriage bec im not an islamic scholar keunkay overall ager hum islam say sahe tore per agah hoon toe yae problem he na aaie kunkay saim namehrum tha shumaila kay liyae kune usay gher may rekha haleema nay kune andha ietemade keya apnay husband per bec afterall he was man or haleema to palaooo he khelati rehgaie shumaila ko or usnay saim per he hath safe kerliya toe friends kasoor tue sara haleema ka he hay na woh us charecterless shumaila ko lati na yae sub hota.
I agree, but I just want to add that most [99% of polygamous men] are usually characterlss people who engage in fornication, adultery, abusing the first wife's rights and committing fraud and what not. I am yet to come across any 'shareef' aadmi in this modern world who has taken a second wife. The shurfa only concentrate on the happiness and welfare of their families and I have seen that the happiest families I know is where the husband is devoted to his wife and children and puts his desires last and wife and children first.
SSG, haleem ka kasoor kyuon hay??? Saima nay phelay zunaira per try kia, wahan baat naheen bani to shumaila aa gai, ager shumaila na hoti to koi teesri larki hoti…Saim is the one who is characterless, not haleema. If a husband has a cousin who comes to his house and his wife gets involved with this cousin of her husband, who would you blame? would you blame the wife or the husband?In that case, you would say, kitni khraba aurat hay, apnay shoher kay cousin kay saath bhaag gai.
AYSHA G… MAINAY YA NAHI KAHA KAY HALEEMA HAS NO CHARECTER IM TRYING TO SAY KAY URAT MAY IK KHAS CHEEZ ALLAH NAY REKHI HOTI HAY WOH MARD KI NAZER KO SAMUJHTI HAY JESAY SAIM KI NAZRAIN ZUNAIRA B SAMUJHTI THI OR SHUMAILA B BUT DONOO KA RESPONSE DIFFRENT THA HALEEMA KUNE NAI SUMJHI KAY SAIM HALEEMA KO PASEND NAI KERTA SABI SAY SEEDHAY MUNE BATE NAI KERTA TUE WHY HE IS TOO MUCH KIND HEARTED WITH SHUMAILA KEHANA YAE HAY KAY URAT KO HAMESHA IK SELF RESPECT KAY SATH REHNA CHAHIYA .
Excellent response Mulsim. unfortunately if we say these things, people will start calling us kafirs. Mullahs have brain washed them. SSG does not know that second marriage was not permitted for men to have ayashi. It was allowed after gazwa uhud when many muslim men were killed in war. And many widows and orphans were left. Thats why aya says"if you cant do justice to widows and orphans,marry 1,2,3 or 4". Now how many men do we see who marry to widow women with children to take care of them financialy? Also, If you look at the current gender ratio of the world, there are more men than women, so polygamy does not make sense. We need ijtihad.
Dr.Saim k pas itna time hai k gharailu chakkar chalaey ,hospital mein dil nae lgta kia :p vo bi aik consultant .. he should be fired from his work
shumaila jitni begairat larki k husband ko to usay road par la kar shoes utar kar parna chaiay jisay na apni izat ka khial aya na maa baap ki na bai aur na husband ki aisi larki ko dramay main itna abrak nak saza daini chaiay k koi lar ki mar jay par baag kar shadi na karay
Bht acha hua shumaila k saath….
Wonderful!!!Sub ki acting Zaberdast thi, story mai jo turn aya hai wo boht hi acha hai :)Next episoe ka abhi sai intezar hai :0
FOR DR.Saim pyar nae karna
AITBAR nae karna
shumaila se ziada tum pyar nae karna hahah
in thz drama Dr.Saim and shumaila both are wrong so girlz and boys both will take lesson and be careful. not jxt girlz……
FOR DR.Saim pyar nae karna
AITBAR nae karna
shumaila se ziada tum pyar nae karna hahah
in thz drama Dr.Saim and shumaila both are wrong so girlz and boys both should take lesson and be careful. not jxt girlz……
Agree or disagree:
yar ya site ajkal bht slow chal rahi ha…..why?????? me drama kese dekhun yar :'9
site is not working. me drama kese dekhun yar plz kuch karo :'(
its not working
SHIT MAN!! SHUMAILA IS UGLY
Yup! you are absolutely right n most ugly thing in her face is …………..! Smile
first time saim nay koi naik kam kiya hai….shumaila ko batain suna ker n insult kr k…:)waiting for next episode:)
Great job admin.use the dailymotion or other source to upload videos……!
boycott the youtube and google until,they delete …..Movie..
keep it up…!
May Allah Bless you..!
this player is better than youtube loads faster
on which bases Shumaila shows poses to saim …. what is she ?
The topic of polygamy annd its abuse is a problem. My wife's ex-husband took a second wife and though she initially refused to accept this she later went on to 'live wiith it'. Her husband and co-wife's reasoning was that they weren't doing anything wrong and everything would be all right because the husband was going to treat her fairly and be just with her. He'd spend equal amount of time and money on both wives but this took a terrible effect on their child's well-being as he was growing up with a half-dedicted father and the first wife could not help but feel sick when he would come to spend time with her because she couldn't bear the idea of even looking at her husband, knowing how he was enjoying two women. Her co-wife gave her repeated assurances that they were not 1st or 2nd wives but equal ''co-wives'[ which seems to mean they are both part of a man's pleasure collection] and that she was going against the laws of Allah by rejecting polygamy. The 1st wife tried her best to tolerate a new life but for her life was so disgusting and unbearable that she chose the right way-divorce. She still had some feelings for hm after the divorce but then she chose what was best for her and her son's own good. Her life soon improved as she became independent and this is why I believe women should become independent and stand on her own feet, just like Haleema is doing now. This case was in the UK and unfortunately in the 3rd generation of British Muslims there is this increasing sense of 'right' to polygamy. Men in that new generation believe that it is possible to be just with both wives and love both and have both occupy a special place in their lives…which is a bit different from the attitudes of the polygamists of the previous generation who would lean towards one wife and literally turn the 1st wife into a maid and the 2nd into a mistress…but the fact remains the same. Such men are using this 'loophole' for their own benefit and pleasure and they use the Quranic verses referring to 4 marriages as a licence and as something that is supposedly their 'right' and something that a wife can not object to and that they will supposedly still love their wife and take care of their rights. This sounds more like an aquaintance rather tan a true marriage to me. Even most scholars, while acknowledging a woman's right to divorce and stipulate a condition in the Nikah contract disallowing her husband from taking a second wife, they for some reason still encourage women to bear it, to be patient for the sake of their reward in the Akhirah and to love Allah more than anyone else. They will strangely never tell men to love Allah more and neither do they focus on the fact that second marriage is a SIN if it disturbs the setup of the first wife's household. In fact, in Pakistan our MULLAHS try to hide the fact that it is a women's right to stipulate any condition she wants in the marriage contract…in fact during the Nikah the whole section pertaining to conditions is skipped and women are kept in the dark. Plus our society…being a very Hindu-influenced society…does not accept divorced women. Until these two things are changed in Pakistan, people should just forget the whole concept of polygamy. And for the extremists in the UK, they should know that taking care of your first and only wife as well as children with her is a much more easier and rewarding task than taking care of multiple households and everyone is MUCH MUCH happier includimg the kids.
They should know that the Prophet [SAW] only took ONE wife during his youth even though other men would take hundreds of wives and his wife was 15 years OLDER than him. And must I also point out that this marriage was the Prophet [SAW] most successful and loving…not to say that his other marriages weren't successful. It was only after her death that he would took many wives-nearly all foer scoial, economic or religious reasons. Aisha [ra] marriage held a special purpose due to which a large collection of our hadiths are attributed to her narrations [it had been known she was a very intelligent girl], he married his adopted son's divorced wife to break down Arab cultural norms, he married Safiyyah[ra] for she was a Jewish captive who converted to Islam and Sauda[ra] for she was an older widow who ewas very suitable for taking care of the Prophet [SAW] household which consisted of the Prophet [SAW]'s young daughters.
Also how many people know of the incident where Hadrat Fatima [ra] refused to let Hazrat Ali [RA] a second wife and the Prophet [SAW] also forbade his son-in-law from second marriage and said he would have to divorce his daughter to marry another woman? I know that there are some who will say that the reason for this was that the woman in question was the daughter of Abu Jahl [who was a Muslim herself] but I recal reading in a similar version of that Hadith that the Prophet [SAW] specifically stated that Hazrat Ali [RA] was not to remarry during his daughter's lifetime. This is why Hazrat Ali [RA] had 18 wives after the death of Fatima [ra]but not 1 during her lifetime.
Also someone here pointed out that there are more men now in the world than women now, and according to my research there are 6 milion men in Pakistan alone who will never be able to marry due to a shortage of women. This was also the case in Afghanistan, a country torn by war for 3 decades.
I also wish to point out that even in the worst of times [during the world wars] while there were massive shortages of male partners for women this trend would always quickly disappear as the malepopulation overttook the female population again in a few years. Also according to my knowledge there are many widows who do not want to marry at all for the sake of their children [In Islam a woman loses custody of her children after remarriage] and therefore society should help these women stand on their own feet rather than marry married men and cut another woman's life into two. The case was different during the Prophet [SAW]'s time when the Sahabah…being great men…willingly took financial responsibility for children that were not their own.
''Back to my British Muslim male-bashing''…these men should look beyond the prism of what is allowed and not allowed in Sharia. They should think practically. Just because something is simply 'allowed' in Sharia doesn't mean you have to follow it or even try it [many of these men think they can actually do justice, but what happens most of the time is most either can't be fair and most actually regret taking a second wife later on].
For example, marriage between a male and female with large age gaps are permissibe but if you think about it; is it really possible to ensure a successful marriage. Of course some of you might mention the Prophet [SAW] and his holy companions but they were the best people and ebven if we 'TRY to emulate them we wil never be able to reach their level. In a similar logic polygamy is also vey illogical.
Now this is my personal feeling in regards to polygamy [as according to some scholars I am allowed to have negative feelings on polygamy but I must accept that it is halal]…those men who dream and fantasize of plural wives and actually dream of exhausting themselves by running in between each of the wives are living in a fantasy land of their imagination, the imagination basically going like this…living in a MASSIVE mansion on some tropical island or tourist resort and being surrounded by 4 beautiful women-all of whom that he loves….but the fact is that women don't have stones for hearts and are not made for just intimacy with the man, ignoring his relationships with other women, I am sorry, but the world doesn't revolve around a man's desire.
WOW, WOW , WOW…YOUR COMMENTS BROUGHT TEARS IN MY EYES. I HAD QUESTIONS ABOUT POLYGAMY SINCE MY CHILDHOOD AND TODAY MOST OF THEM GOT ANSWERED THRU YOUR COMMENTS. UNFORTUNATELY, IF WE QUESTION, HUM PER FORUN KUFAR KAY FATWAY LAG JATAY HAIN. I HAVE SOME MORE QUERIES ABOUT SOME OTHER SHRIA LAWS IN REGARDS TO WOMEN. BROTHER, WOULD YOU MIND WRITING TO ME AT BELOW EMAIL ADDRESS SO I COULD GET BENEFITED. THANKS AGAIN(CANT PUT THE AT SIGN OR MY EMAIL COMMENT WILL BE BLOCKED)
APAKISTANIWOMAN AT YAHOO
you are so right really like your comments.
I am asuccessful businessman here in Karachi[defence area] with two lovely wives and 6 beautiful kids. 3 from each. I just don't know why some women can't understand logic. For us men it is possible to love more than one woman at once!!!!
I think some of the women here have a problem bcoz most guys don't treat their wives properly but most women have a problem with the idea of the second wife. For God's sake just accept her existence, she's as much of a wife as u and has the same position in her husband's heart as u do..only difference she married later. I think we should stop our daughters from reading Cinderella type fairy-tales and accept that men are polygamous by nature and have been so for thousands of years. We men just ignore our wives' jealousy of each other like the Prophet [SAW] did for his wiwes n was patient wid them.
I wanna knowthat if there r mother-in-laws who are not jealous of their daughter in law's why should co-wives b?
Yeah women do have a problem initialy with their hubby's remarriage but what I think a man should do is talk this over kindly with his wife before taking this step and explain to her that he still loves her and isn't 'abandoning' her and the kids, he is simply starting a new paralell life with the old one intact.
Both my wives have accepted the fact I love them both and now live peacefully and co-exist but in separate houses and regulaarly go to shopping with each other, yes there were problems initially but alhamdulillah they all end after some time.
Let me tell you this, you might be able to love them both but if a woman knows that his husband sleeps with another woman (wife), SHE CAN NEVER TRUELY LOVE HIM. Dont beleive in it if they say they do love you. If your wives had better choice, they would not even think for a second to leave you. This is marriage of convenient for both of your wives, So you are deprived of most beautiful thing in this world , which is "TRUE LOVE OF A WOMAN"
Bro,you are really lucky. I also dunno y women seem to think that second marriage means that they are being abandoned. Men have the right and ability to be with more than one lady. But their responsibilities increase so they'd have to be financially well-off like yourself 2 get a 2nd wife.
Please do tell me is it better to be have a wife and a secret mistress on the one hand or to be with two wives that you are being just with?
One wife is not enough for some men.
And please do tell me, what should a couple do if they cannot have children and they love each other dearly but the husband wants to hear the sound of a baby cring and feeling his baby child's soft skin. Should he give up this desire, divorce his wife or marry another wife and still be with his 1st wife and give her his rights and love her?
@Tarek, you said that one woman is not enough for some men. But Tarek, such men will never be satisfied even if they have 10 or even 100 wives. I have researched this topic for quite a while and one of my main findings is that those whose minds are dirty will never be happy even with the full 4 wives. One man was interviewed before his second marriage. When asked why he wanted a second wife he replied that it was due to 'boredom' and that nothing had changed in the past 30 years with his first wife. He was content with the first wife and was pleased with her service but he still wanted gratification. A few years after taking a much younger second wife he was asked the same question and he interestingly again responded that he was still 'bored'.
Moral of the story: If you are pure of mind and pure in your desires ONE wife will be sufficient, but if you are dirty-minded, nothing will change.
Bhai, you gave such an interesting example about infertility related causes of a man's decision to marry a second time.
But as far as I know through world statistics it is usually the man who is infertile [in fact in over approx, 70% of cases] and unfortunately it is nearly always the woman who is blamed.
But brother, it is the right of BOTH the man and woman to have children and jaha tak meney dekha hai some couples have taken a wise decision. They are fostering babies from overseas or their home countries [if they are living in the West] and what usually happens is that the foster mother suckles the baby in accordance with the Shariah regulations and thus she, her husband and both spouses' families become mahram to the child and have a relationship with the child. The child [usually an orphan] gains many relatives and is raised up as he/she is one of their own. These children are told from the beginning of their true parentage and this I thnk is very wise that the children grow up knowing that their foster parents are not their own because if the child discovers this later it may dislike the very people who raised it up so lovingly as their own. All Sharia rules are followed when it comes to inheritance, naming the child after the real father, mahram/non mahrams etc;
But taking a second wife usually benefits only the husband's desire for children while the first wife actually becomes the losing party as she gains nothing but hurt and resentment.
Having said that I know that there are some women in this world who actually willingly approach their husbands and ask them to take a second wife for producing offspring if she is barren but such cases are few and I also have heard of men who refuse to take another wife despite their first wife's insistence. I once knew a Pakistani family where a woman was happily married with 3 daughters. She had 5 or 6 sisters in Pakistan and all of them were barren but their husbands were very good and supportive of their wife and stood by them and did not take a second wife. My own phopho only delovered a child after a decade of marriage. Another phopo had a stroke and was paralysed for a long time but her husband was a very nice man and all these men stood by their wives. Society should encourage men to be like this for the production of happiness and love in families.
Tarek, you must have seen reply to your comments from Rifat and Muslim. Also, let me ask you this, if you look at muslim men who have multiple wives, how many of them have you seen getting second wife becuase their first wife cant have kids??? Where does Islam puts the condition on men that they can have second, third, fourth wife only if first three cant have children? So men have multiple wive ONLY AND ONLY for AYAHSI. you know it, I know it and everyone knows it; so please dont come up with lame excuses. polygamy is nothing but "legalied" cheating. Let me ask you another question, if a couple can not have kids becuase HUSBAND is infertile, both of them love each other, but wife has a desire to have her own childresn. in that case, would husabnd ever be able to share his wife with another man? even she spends equal amoutn of time with both men, would her husband ever be able to sleep with his wife if he knows she sleeps with another man every other night??? If a husband is infertile, you will say wife should either do sabar or divorce him and remarry. Well, men can do the same…correct?.
you are one of those people jin ko daikh k you are forced to say k bahi sahab ja khuda aqal bant raha tha toh ap kidar thay??? i am a medical student and infertility is not a womens problem alone!! And to say kay one wife is not enough for some man is similar to a situation in which ap ki biwi ap ko bolay k now you are loosing your tact so i want to be with another man lekin dont worry at all coz i am not ABANDONING you. i can love you and him at the same time. toh btao?? will you be ok with it?
WAOOOOOOOW sarah ap medical ki student hoo mjhy to drs .itny facinate kerty haen k mein bta nae sakti waisy ap kon se institute sy ho????
Astaghfirullah, how can you give such a haram analogy. Women can't be with another man. The reasons are simple and biological, whereas a man has no biological constraints and also has the strength and ability to be in love with and have sex with several women.
I don't understand how you can love both your wives and still have caused them so much pain…true love is when you sacrifice everything, including your desires, for the person you genuinely love. But it appears to me that you care more for your lusts and desires and this 'love' that you feel for your wives is just some leftover afection and attachment which is secondary to your selfish lusts. You don't understand the meaning of true love or its purpose. But then since everyone in your case is happy…GOOD LUCK!!!! Good for you.
P.s. Other guys should not pay attention to this experience. Most polygamous cases tend to end miserably and from what I know most polygamous men REGRET [surf the internet and see for yourself] their decisions. Also it has a very deep and lasting psychological effect on today's children to see either one of their parents with another woman.
Excellent Response Rafiq. I am glad that we still have men like you in Pakistan.
As you so so shell you reap.
as you so so shell you reap!
aaj ki chuti aik zabardast kaam hai yai hona chahiay tha hazoor saw k bary mai koi kuch khay yai hargiz bardasht nahi kray gay we love prophet
mager jinka nuqsan howa jinki jaan gai kia wo ashiq.e.rasool nahe they.saber ,bardasht, himat se kaam lena chahye hamain or dua kro k jis ne ye gustakhi ki hai use kash pata lage k usko k wakai narazgi or afsos wali harkat hai
pori insaniyat or muslim community se maafi mange phir Allah b tab tak maaf nh krega
The fatwa of major Arab and Indo-Pak scholars is that it is generally wrong and unwise in our times to marry a second wife, without consulting wise and knowledgeable scholars (even though it is in itself permitted), because of the harm and mess that inevitably results:
a) the harm to the first wife;
b) the troubles with the second wife when the first is upset;
c) the harm of not giving both their legal, emotional, and material rights;
d) the harm to family relations;
e) and, also vitally, the harm to one’s children…
Marrying another woman is not just a question of providing for both
Riffat, unfortunately, I think even its required by the husband to get first wife's permission, it wont be of much use. If first wife refuses to give permission, husband will threat her that he will divorce her. Usaully our women are financialy not on their feet so they have no other option and no where to go, so they have to accept that brutality. If a woman is financialy independent, educated,confident, have self wroth, she will never ever accept that bruality. We need to empower our women. Also, please search on gender ratio of the world, there are more men than female, so we need islamic ijtihad and prohibit polygamy.
Yes..financial independence is a must for female empowerment..but thc removal of the social dogma around divorce is also aa must. As soon as we get rid of this anti-independent and anti-non-male depedendent female views of society.
Banning polygamy outrightly would be Islamically wrong. Instead I proose that all women must be informed of their right to stipulate a condition in her marriage contract which would forbid their husbands from taking a second wife. The second thing is that the first wife, in case she has not stipulated the conditions for whatever reason, should be empowered to use her right to Khula without financial, social impediments etc.
As long as these 2 things do not happen in muslim societies like ours, women's rights cannot be protected in a polygamous society-and the Islamic government is therefore justified Islamically in making a temporary law to protect women which in this case would be the outright but temporary banning of polygamy. But this ban must be lifted as soon as Muslim wwomen are empowered and fre to make their own choices according to the rights Allah has bestowed upon them.
One thind I do not understand is how some empowered women still try to 'bring back' their kharaab husbands. Once my husband trods on a path of looking for a new partner, that would be the minute I REJECT him.
saim deserve thiz….or shumaila bhootni k sath b agy kuch is sy b ziada bura hona hae…….duffer
saim ki koi aik harkat b dr. wali nae hae kaahin se b parha lihka nae lagta……
saim ko dr. nae hona chahye tha q k dr. itny educated or saphosticatd hoty haen lakin saim mein to aisa kuch nae ///////////i luvvvvv doctorz saim type k nae…..asli drz.
you r right saba je….
yes i know m alwayx right………jst joking
now ….. Sadaf is saying to saim JA RE JAAAAAA …. tunhare jaise bohat dekhe …. ab tak mn tumhari bohat izzat krti thi lakin ab JA RE JAAAA ………
mere khayal se yeh drama asjad ki waja se hi khtam ho ga.
uffff m fedup of shumaila's Yellow dopatta on every suit:@ she is totally a fashion disaster I must say:)
Wat a briillliant end, big slap on shumailas face
maza tau next episode mein ayey ga
haleemaaa chaa gaey bhaiee
mun bnd kr apna
i think so dix drama showx the iportance of education i mean k haleema k pass bht hunar hae but she dont know how to utlize it ager wo educated hoti to bht pehly se yh step lae sakti the us ny aj leya……..on de other hand shumaila parhi likhi jahel hae itna knoledge hony k bawjod she cant examine that wht is better or wht ix bad for her….yan kuch log hote haen jo sub kuch janeny k bawjod avoid kerty haen e.g shumaila
yar sae sae btao zindagi kitne mushkil hae na
yeh shumaila jaise larkion ka moun torny ko mea bra dil krta hay inhain na apni izzat piyari hoti hy na apni family ki ………..pari likhi jahel hay ……………idiot .stuopid , in ki bs apni khoshi pori ho jay chahy jaisy marzi ho kisi ka noksan hoinhain koi farak parta
wah wah haleema chaa gae aur saim ke s aur shumaila jaise sath ise bhe bura hona chahye.bt saim bhe to wahi cheez tha jo sjhumaila the he was married bt wantd to marry dr so tit for tat i think
sab bakwas hae i hate dis drama
superb drama……jaesi kerni wasi bherni!!!!!
Buht maza aya iss episode ka n hallema u look so prEet
I was so upset that episode will b last for ypnh
Abb tuu shruuu huaa thaaa real fun
drama awesome hai haleema buht achi hai saber ka phal haleema ko milega zaroooooooooor………mgr pachtayenge Dr.saim or shumaila )
haleema ji tusssssssssssssssssi great ho…………….
awesome climax hoga
Haleema Ji sirf dramay me gr8 hain
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz admin upload dis episode again,its not working.plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
kindly upload episode 19 again……there is an error occured n ths ep couldnt b played
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz upload ep 19 again ………there is an error occured bcoz of wht the episode didnt not work
plz upload episode 20 again …… daily motion is also blocked,
yaroooooooooooooooooo ye drama sub achy
i like this darama very much wifes ko aisay hi apny haq layne chaye
where is epi 21
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